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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 5:21:03 AM | =========== Could you say NO to sex ===============
I can and I have....................certain guys I wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole!! | |
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7times
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Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 28 | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 5:36:19 AM | ^^^
7times, you always crack me up!
On topic:
Unless the guy's a GQ, super-hot, neatly groomed, well mannered, well endowed, athletic, educated, employed meterosexual, you can guarantee that I'll say no. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 5:46:00 AM | | i know for a fact that i can turn down sex..... i wouldnt lead a person on who i am not attracted to anyway for it to get that far.................... as for an attractive person....... depends. LOL if i am single... eh but it i am dating someone..... then there is no way i would cheat | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 6:30:48 AM |
Could you say no to sex, if you didn't really find the person attractive, yet they seem a little easy in giving in ?
Or if they just wanted sex, do you or could you say no ?
Up until a few weeks ago I was actually celibate for just over a year. Saying no is actually a good thing, especially if you don't feel anything for the other person. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 6:37:14 AM | I have turned down sex before but only if I'm not attracted to the girl or if I'm in a relationship and another girl would ask me..
Attraction is important to me in order to have sex. | |
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kce33
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Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 33 | |
| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 6:52:29 AM | Hell i say no to sex everyday, its not hard to do at all because i am very picky.....
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 7:21:34 AM | | What is this sex thing that you speak of? And why is it that you would be saying no to it? | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 10:26:59 AM | Hmmm, once I actually had a fairly (physically) attractive girl practically throw herself at me....even the dumbest guy could figure out that she was just a bit TOO interested....
I finally got a taste of what some women go through...I could have used a good lay at the time....but somehow she just wasn't leaving enough to the imagination... | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 10:30:28 AM |
I wouldn't have a problem with receiving oral sex and then calling it a night. That's a bit different.
Yeah, it would be called Selfish. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 10:33:57 AM | | I have to have some sort of attraction to the one I am having sex with or I will say no | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 10:37:21 AM | | yeh i could, only if it wasn't someone who was hott and who i couldn't resist | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 10:45:04 AM | | Sure I can say No! I have turned it down, whether it was because I wasn't in the mood, maybe they said something that I didn't like. Many reasons, I just make that I am careful how I turn it down so I don't hurt someone's feelings. | |
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Shaps
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Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 42 | |
| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 1:54:47 PM | Ok, well happy to see that there are all different looks at another person.
Reason I ask is that, so many different views on the topic. Some people think that if the first meet goes well and you enjoy that person after talking face to face for 2 hours, why not ???
It use to be where you had to find value in someone, before you gave that person your body and heart, I am finding a lot of people skip that stage and just put out.
I saw one thread where the girl met a guy, all he could say about himself was that he was a nice guy, he would never hurt her. After 10 hours ( her time count ) she and him ended up fooling around and ending up having sex. After the act she asked the guy, so I guess were dating, he took insult to it and left never well to date to hear back from him. Now she wishes she said no.
For me, I like to find value in the person, I have been weak at times and given in, which isn't a mistake, but does hurt myself when I know I have broken my own rules.
I find most women, don't want to put energy into getting to know someone, tell me everything about you in the first message or I can't be wasted. Looks play an important part, how much money you make plays an important part and how easy you are to please the other person plays an important part.
Now you see where the term " Players" was founded. They know if the other side hears what they want, and see's what they want, then it's an easy score.
I have said no to ugly women, fat women, beautiful women, sexy women only for the reason where they were one dimensanial or the famous " One track mind "
The last 2 times I had sex with someone, they both stated it was over a year since they had it last, both were much older than myself. And I don't see myself any better after having sex with them, as now they hate my guts, but at least I helped them with a need, not my need, but theirs. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 2:16:49 PM | I could not but let me tell you a short story.. I had someone tell me know after about 5 dates. We lay there naked talking all night. It was actualy great! We later married! She said no all the time from that point on... It was like an act of freaking congress!! In fact, to no availe, I wrote to my congressman to ask for help in passing some resolutions. Needless to say we had two children somehow. Now she comes home a few weeks ago to tell me she dosen't think she ever really loved me and wants a divorce after 6 years... What the F...
Could be an indicater. Probably just me.. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 2:18:16 PM | Nope no problem at all....If there is no connection or chemistry then hell i would most certainly have no problems..even if he was goodlooking.... | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 2:20:42 PM | Sorry, Clif - that sucks.
But on what condition am I saying no to sex? Am I on deadrow, will be strapped to the gurney tomorrow for the injection and have the opportunity for one last fabulous screw? Oh hell yeah.
Is it with some bleary-eyed drunk who just wants to paw me, breath yuck on me, grunt around, cum and roll off? Oh hell no.
So yeah, under some circumstances I can say no. Under other's, I can't. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 3:11:54 PM | I've had sex with guys I wasn't really into, but that's back when I was a slut. I was bored.  | |
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Shaps
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Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 48 | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/17/2006 3:44:06 PM | What hasn't changed is that I will still not have sex with men who cannot take a joke.  | |
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