| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/8/2006 1:15:40 AM | If you are under the age of 18, you may think its cute and funny. But, get a room, or in your own private property. Your behavior may get you in major legal trouble. Not worth the moment of heat. Nor standing in line at the cinema, nor at work, nor in line at Disneyland park. You and her displaying public displays of affection and public sexual acting out in a non-public enviornment is sexual harrassment. There is a time and place for that elsewhere. And not on my time, nor in the presence of any minor children under the age of 14 and up to age 17, get it? | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/8/2006 7:08:07 AM | | I'm a naturally affectionate TACTILE GUY so it doesn't matter where I am but I do understand right from wrong & the word respect for the place I'm at. I have made love in many public places, yes it gives me an extra "buzz" that I might get caught but am careful to ensure the respect of my partner at all times. As someone posted I wouldnt get down to it in a school playground but after a nice picnic in the woods on a warm summers day, well YES PLEASE! | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/8/2006 7:46:23 AM | | I personally love public affection.. I love the holding hands, the kisses on the cheek.. the smacking of my ass... hehe.. I love when a guy seems to have control over me.. not to say that he is sooo rough it hurts.. but enough that he can move me around :) I find it hot and I cant wait for him to get me home hehe... as far as having sex in public.. I have... but I was drunk.. now sober.. it just wouldnt happen | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/8/2006 8:58:03 AM | | I'm fine with holding hands, cuddling, short kisses & hugs in public, but thats it. However I don't like it infront of family members/friends *shivers*.. I go to my b/f mom's house everynight, & when my b/f gets home from work, he gives his mom a peck on the cheak & I get mine on the lips.. I was very uneasy at first, as his mom was sitting right beside me!! Completely creeped me out & I pushed him away & said not infront of your mom. His mom said nothing wrong with a hello I'm home kiss. So now we wait on the couch everynight waiting for our kiss lol | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/8/2006 9:47:45 AM | | Im all for it I think if you are with someone that you enjoy whats wrong with showing affection, I did however go out with someone totally against it he said he was old fashion and was raised its wrong in public,needless to say there no relationship there LOL........ | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/8/2006 12:23:18 PM | Joseph322 - Oh. I didn't even know you had asked me out Thank you. Seeing you are over 6ft, I would love to see a movie with you. And if your good ... | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/8/2006 4:12:03 PM | When did sex become a private affair? Sex is pleasurable, it is spiritual, it is ritual, it is beautiful, it should be shared. If you don't like it don't look.
However, those who wish to share this beautiful gift with everyone should also be aware of the audience (read: make sure the kids absent)
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/8/2006 8:47:07 PM | I have no problem with other people being affectionate in public because i love it. The only bad experience i had was i was making out with my ex at the club, he was sitting i was on top of him, and someone told us to get a room...I laughed and proceeded at what i was doing. As for public sex...havent done it...but its the next thing on my list to do | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/8/2006 8:59:25 PM | | I'm okay with both, well okay no public sex in schoolyards while the kiddies are on recess but otherwise its ok. Haven't really done it yet myself but I'm game. Public displays of affection are ok. | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/8/2006 9:06:35 PM | Quite a bit of public sex at Burning Man (regionals and decompressions as well), but it's a different community in Black Rock City.
As for the mundane world, like everyone else... I agree there is a time and place. I've had sex with my girlfriend (at the time) in movie theaters. The mischief I think, adds alot to the act. As for 'making out,' I've no problem with it in general; but try to have some class in 'general population.' Not so much a worry at clubs, festivals, etc where the mood is a bit lighter than normal.
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/12/2006 12:30:14 PM | well ya there is a time and a place for PDA's and depending on who is around ie: kids and famileys = handholding, hugging, maybe some light kissing (no tongues ect) or maybe a light pinch on the butt but thats the extent to that. now later at night with just other adults, thats pretty much fair game as long as there is no actual intercourse. sex outdoors as long as it's someplace that you can be pretty sure no one is around to catch you there is always that risk of someone catching you I think thats part of the excitement is it not?? | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/12/2006 12:48:47 PM | Well, far as I'm concerned when I'm with the one I love it's just her & I. I could care less about what the rest of the world thinks about me showing affection for her or her towards me.
Hmm.....as far as public sex, I have done it in a car in public several times & been busted by both cops & civilians.......funny as hell every time. In general though, whatever floats your boat, go with it. | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/19/2006 6:33:24 PM | | Well I'm pretty much against PDA's. hand holding doesn't bother me but I figure everything else should be for behind close doors. the funny thing about that is, I totally get a rush from the idea of being caught. the current fling and I were on the hood of my car parked along the side of a back road, but everytime I saw headlights it was like a bigger thrill | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/19/2006 7:42:49 PM | | I think it is hot to do it in certain public places, not too public though. But, would love to watch my girlfreind lay back in the car and take her pants off and either i play or she plays. Would love to do it in a change room at a clothing store. Parks are good. Want to do it over the niagra falls railing. One of the more sucluded parts, but would be hot to have her totally naked and the mist of the falls soaking her body | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/19/2006 7:51:04 PM | | My lady stood on the balcony looking out opver the city lights as i came upo behind her i put one arm around her to keep her from turning and lifted the back of her skirt i pulled her panties aside and leaned forward to bend her over the rail and entered her slowly about half way through she looked across the alley and saw a fellow looking at her he was frozen in time wide eyed she smiled and proceeded to move with me it was soo hot i almost came too fast but the guy just stood there playing pocket pool to shy to show her what he was doing but we both knew | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 6/19/2006 7:55:32 PM | I am all for public display of affection. I like to show my partner that i love her and not be ashamed of it at all. I think it's so beautiful when two people genuinely in love with one another and are willing to show affection like.
Obviously sex is meant for the bedroom. | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 7/4/2006 10:33:15 AM | Many years ago I was dating a lady who was particularly submissive. While I can take or leave the whole BDSM thing, I do so love to stoke a lovers fantasy.
One day we had gone shopping at a sex store. We hailed a cab and off we went to her house to try out our purchases. As she was somewhat into humiliation, I suggested quite loudly that she should show the driver what we had purchased. As he picked us up right outside the shop he knew what was coming and I saw the smile on his face.
The first item she pulled from the bag was a simple latex thong. She was tentative in the way she held it up. I then told her that she knew what toy I wanted her to show. She hesitated but them pulled out a large, floppy, double-ended dildo. I thaught the drivers eyes were going to pop out. But that was nothing compared to when I asked if it was all right for her to use it in the back seat. He simply nodded and repositioned his mirror, the horny bugger. After some stern discussion, my lover pulled up her skirt and, with no panities on to get in the way, started to use the dildo. I sware we almost hit a wall. The driver asked if he could pull over, I said yes, and while parked on the side of the street, we both watched as she took care of her groing hunger. The driver actually turned around so he could get a better view, and even coaxed her on with some dirty talk.
When she was done, which was loud and explosive, we continued on our way. That evening never stopped we were so horny once we got to her apartment. And there were lots of other purchases to play with.
Ahhh, the memories. She was one of my top five lovers for sure.
A long way of saying, public sex = A OKAY in my books. | |
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| public displays of affection and public sex Posted: 7/4/2006 10:55:07 AM | Public displays of affection are sweet and I would rather see that than yelling, fighting or any other types of hostility. Sex in public - ok let's not be ridiculous - playing on the edge to capture that thrill of 'being caught' might be ok, but let's not do it in the playgorund in front of kids and families. | |
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