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 mindinflight

Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 51
attention: game players...
Posted: 1/24/2006 6:55:18 PM
@lunchbox6:

ahh...great song choice...and you know, johnny won that golden fiddle in the end. keep playin my friend!
 jody0402

Joined: 8/19/2005
Msg: 52
attention: game players...
Posted: 1/25/2006 11:19:19 PM
Ok. I read over all responses to the original message. I agree that the guy is freaked but you sounded a little dissappointed that he backed off which makes it seem like you enjoyed being hunted. But you stated that what really bothers you is that he talked with your child. I am a single mom and I never let anyone speak or get involved in my child's life. This guy is stalking you but yet you let hm speak with your kid. That's safe. I am surprised he didn't show up at your kid's school. He is a sicko. When you meet someone online you have to really get to know someone for them to be around your kids. I have never let anyone offline meet my child unless they are going to be friends with me for a long time and I am totally comfortable that they are npt going to be harmful. I have met three men offline. All have met my son but I dated each one for over 6 weeks. All of them are still friends of mine but we had decided that we were looking for different things. Two of the three had children of their own and we did stuff together with our children. Play it safe next time. Really get to know someone and never under any circumstances let your children get involved. It's not their life it's yours. And you knowing that this guy could be a potential psychopath and letting him talk to your child is negligent.
 mindinflight

Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 53
attention: game players...
Posted: 1/26/2006 3:21:43 AM
@ jody0402:

OMG!!! do you realize that your first line of your post read this:

I read over all responses to the original message.


so you clearly skipped right over the part where i said i did NOT allow this man to talk on the phone with my daughter and that he had waited till he knew i was at work and called my friend's where he knew she was. and for the record, i very highly doubt that this guy would show up at her school. my child is older and knows better than to wander off with someone like that anyway. my issue is that he used her in his little mind games...like he also used our friend. stalker? yes. game player? yes. mind control freak? a sicko with issues? yes. kidnapper? i sincerely doubt it. i'm sure he wouldn't physically harm either one of them. that's not his game. his game is all mental. however, that does NOT make it right for him to drag all these others into his sick little web.

oh...and also, about the enjoying being hunted part....you've apparently missed the bus on that one too. but i've already answered that one to death, with other people in here that have completely missed the point!
 mindinflight

Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 54
attention: game players...
Posted: 1/26/2006 6:12:30 PM
update...and seeking advice on a further twist...

first of all, this moron has tried to initiate contact again. for those of you keeping score and thinking that i was leading him on and/or "enjoying the hunt", i did NOT respond or even acknowledge the fact that he has tried to contact me again. nor do i plan to if it happens again. my attempts to be friendly no longer seem necessary to me.

here's what i would like to know though...

when our paths cross in the future, as they surely will, since we cavort in the same social circles and live in a small town, what then? when we bump into each other at a friend's house, in the local pub, at the grocery store or a sporting even....any suggestions on the appropriate way to handle the situation? easiest solution i suppose would be to just turn around and leave, but assuming that that is not possible, what then? do i refuse to acknowledge his presence...turning my back and ignoring him if he tries to speak with me? do i respond, but in an icy manner? or do i act like we're the best of friends while there and then continue to ignore him again afterward? or, does anyone have any better suggestions?
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