im attracted to guys personalities rather than the looks first. Im not shallow
Are you saying that you can fall in love with a man online that you never even saw a picture of ??
I find that very hard to believe and why I do is ...... because you have to have some kind of a physical attraction to a person aside from the emotional and it has nothing to do with being shallow but all a part of the laws of 'attraction'!!!
Perhaps the physical to you is of less importance but a person doesn't have to be utterly beautiful to be attractive.....after all love is in the eyes of the beholder.