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Eric48
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Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 251 | |
| I want to die
Posted: 5/30/2006 5:10:49 PM | At A Loss
Joined: 1/18/2006 ...
Deleted by admin, for being inactive Apr 4 2006 11:40PM
(I vote we delete this thread)
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ali203
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Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 252 | |
| I want to die
Posted: 5/30/2006 5:22:30 PM | | Hi: You need professional help. See your doctor. Tell him and he/she will help. Don't sit around, help yourself, you owe it to yourself | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 9/23/2007 10:21:16 AM | well iv just read this and can only say most people who go though a relationship breakdown go though this in there minds until we remember the good bits of the past and move forward life dosnt stand still. So you grow the pain makes you better and stronger than before another love will come your way and it will be better than the last.
so remember to cherish those momments that make you smile and love life love yourself and you will be rewarded where there is life there are always hope and dreams so time to move on take care | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 9/28/2007 4:43:17 PM | I really believe that you may have "put all your eggs in one basket". We all need to go into relationships with our eyes wide open. We all tend to project what we want, what we want to see, into the other person and it is not realistic. It is a good idea to know what you want and stick to it. When we compromise our beliefs, we run into problems. Things you see in advance or in the very beginning about someone don't go away; that is those things that set off little alarms within us. Those pinpricks you felt were important, relevant.
No one person is capable of gratifing your every need. Make decisions in advance and have your my made up about how you choose to handle yourself should something go wrong, because You must always keep yourself intact. Keep expectations low, be realistic so you can see more clearly who a person is. | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 9/28/2007 5:17:07 PM | I know how you feel. Been there, done that....more than one time. It's a **** to loose someone you loved so much and who you THOUGHT loved you, huh?? You know what, though? Live HAPPENS...things (like this) happens...we do our best....we learn how to make ourselves into people that are lovable and can be loved. OFTEN WHEN FEELING LIKE THIS..IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO CALL A CRISIS HOT LINE IN YOUR CITY. MOST CITIES HAVE THEM. SOMEONE ON THE OTHER END WILL TAKE THE TIME TO LISTEN...TO TRY TO UNDERSTAND...TO HELP....PLEASE CALL, NOW* Don't sit around in a dark room feeling like shit and keep on thinking and thinking about what happened and what you want to do to yourself....THAT KIND OF BEHAVIOR CAN BE LETHAL IN THE STATE OF MIND YOU ARE NOW IN. It is GREAT THAT YOU REACHED OUT TO ALL OF US!....Please think STRONGLY ABOUT GETTING SOME COUNSELING TO HELP YOU THRU THIS ROUGH TIME IN YOUR LIFE...DO IT NOW...TELL THEM YOU HAVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT TAKING YOUR OWN LIFE...BE HONEST...THAT IS THE ONLY WAY THEY CAN HELP YOU. Many many of us have times in our lives where we feel like giving up///and many many many reach out TO PROFESSIONAL HELP TO HELP GUIDE US THRU THESE TERRIBLE ...SCARRY...DESTRUCTIVE FEELINGS...you CAN GET TO THE OTHER SIDE OF THIS CRAP....BUT....THE {{{{ONLY WAY OUT IS THRU}}}}} A PROFESSIONAL THERAPIST WILL HELP YOU SORT OUT AND __WALK THRU__ THE FEELINGS....AND THEN YOU CAN GET TO THE OTHER SIDE....BACK TO LIFE....ON THE PATH TO SELF DISCOVERY...a good therapist and meds can be a GOD SEND IN SITUATIONS LIKE THIS...please do NOT WAIT..think of the family you will leave behind...think about how SUPER MUCH IT WILL HURT THEM......THOSE YOU LOVE...DO THEY ACTUALLY DESERVE TO HAVE TO CARRY AROUND THE EMENSE PAIN OF KNOWING THEIR PRESCIOUS BROTHER...SON....COUSIN...FRIEND, ETC....KILLED HIMSELF...{{{{THAT IS THE VERY WORST KIND OF LEGACY YOU CAN LEAVE THEM}}}}
SUICIDE IS A SELFISH ACT......THINKING ABOUT OUR PAIN AND WANTING TO END IT....W/O EVALUATING HOW MUCH IT WILL KILL OUR PARENTS SPIRITS....BROTHER'S....SISTER'S....COUSIN...NEPHEW'S...FRIENDS, ETC..
A DEATH OF SOMEONE WE LOVE IS THE WORST 'GIFT' THAT CAN EVER BE GIVEN TO A HUMAN BEING........AS SOMEONE ELSE SAID EARLIER: SUICIDE IS A {{{PERMANENT}}} ANSWER TO A {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{TEMPORARY}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
PROBLEM.........IF YOU BELIEVE IN GOD, GIVE GOD A CHANCE TO WORK IN YOUR LIFE....GET OUT OF THE DRIVER'S SEAT......YOU ARE OUT OF CONTROL!!GIVE THE WHEEL TO THE GOD OF YOUR UNDERSTANDING....LET GOD DRIVE....TAKE THE ROAD OF {{{{FAITH}}}}} NOT {{{{FEAR}}}}......FAITH THAT SOMEONE WILL COME IN GOD'S TIME NOT YOURS.....DONT TAKE THE ROAD OF FEAR....FEAR THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE ALONE AND LIFE WONT BE WORTH LIVING!1...............REMEMBER: MAKE A CHOICE RIGHT NOW AND START WALKING DOWN THAT ROAD OF FAITH......AND EACH TIME YOU GET LOST AND GET BACK ON THAT OLD BUMPY BUMPY ROAD OF **FEAR***.......BAD THINGS WILL HAPPEN...BAD THOUGHTS..IDEAS....ACTIONS...CHOICES..........OUR LIVES AND THE THINGS THAT HAPPEN IN OUR LIVES ARE A {{{{DIRECT RESULT OF A DECISION WE MADE SOMEWHERE ALONG THE LINE}}}}}..........A WRONG CHOICE OF A DATE? A WRONG CHOICE TO JUMP INTO A NEGATIVE RELATIONSHIP...ETC.........WE ARE A SUM TOTAL OF ALL THE CHOICES WE HAVE MADE IN OUR LIVES ON THE WAY TO **NOW**........WHY NOT REMEMBER YOU ARE ON THE ROAD OF **FAITH** NOW.....HOLD OFF THE CHOICES RIGHT NOW...MORE THAN LIKELY IN THE STATE OF MIND YOU ARE IN ....THE CHOICE WILL BE WRONG......GET IN TOUCH W/ A MENTAL HEALTH HOTLINE...TELLL THEM YOU WANT HELP.....THAT YOU WANT SOMEONE TO HELP YOU GET THRU THIS PAIN SO YOU DONT DO SOMETHING STUPID, OK??
{{{PLEASE STAY IN TOUCH W/ ALL OF US}}}}} LET US KNOW HOW YOU ARE DOING....REMEMBER: WE {{DO }}} CARE ABOUT WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU...even though we all have never met, you WOULD SADDEN EACH OF OUR LIVES IF YOU CHOSE TO END YOUR LIFE....it is true.......**MAKE THIS A NEW BEGINNING....AN EXCITING...HOPEFILLED BEGINNING.....AN OLD GUY WHO WAS AMISH HAD A SAYING: IF YOU PRAY FOR POTATOES YOU BETTER DAMN WELL PICK UP A HOE!!........................LET GOD IN THE DRIVER'S SEAT....LET GOD DRIVE.....ROAD OF FAITH...ONE DAY AT A TIME W/ HELP FROM PEOPLE WHO ARE SKILLED IN THESE MATTERS.....AND KEEP THE THOUGHT IN YOUR HEAD...REPEAT IT OVER AND OVER:: "this too shall pass!"
break life down to 5 minutes at a time if you have to.....tell yourself: I CAN DO SOMETHING FOR 5 MINUTES THAT I CANT DO THE REST OF MY LIFE....AND RIGHT NOW THAT IS GETTING UP...MOVING...GET OUT OF THE HOUSE..NO MATTER HOW HARD IT IS TO DO THAT....AND GETTING MY MIND OFF THE GIRL AND THE PAIN....DO SOMETHING POSITIVE THAT YOU LIKE OR WILL HELP YOU.....FOR JUST 5 MIN....THEN WHEN THAT 5 IS GONE....DO IT FOR ANOTHER 5!!.........ETC............IT WORKS! IT REALLY DOES!! **IT WORKS, IF WE WORK IT!!......may you have many blessings....come into your life....in GOD'S TIME...NOT YOURS.....remember that YOUR TIMING GOT YOU WHERE YOU ARE RIGHT NOW.....YOU IN YOUR TIME CHOSE THIS GIRL....MAYBE THAT WAS **SELF WILL*** AND NOT GOD'S WILL, HUH??.........AGAIN--->>>GET OUT OF THE DRIVER'S SEAT...YOU ARE ON A COLLISION COURSE...GIVE THE WHEEL TO GOD...AND GET HELP ASAP! {{{many hugs}}}}
Kathy | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 11/3/2007 9:20:14 AM | I guess that, despite the major shake up this represents, once you end it all there is no correction to be made, no more women to meet. You will never know if sooner than later you were going to be happy with a new love, you will never know the kids you would've had with the new love. You can not even imagine the many people you'd make miserable by ending it all, for what?. For someone who left you???? NOOOOOO....
I was left to die in the same condition by a woman about 20 years ago who promised to me that "our love was the biggest thing in this world, and it was going to break any walls that came between us." For a very small insignificant thing, she destroyed me, making me suffer for 3 years of my life.
I know that I am going to sound harsh, but people like this do not deserve five seconds of your thoughts, never. You make them God when they made you s*** inside and nearly worthless because you thought they were the only one in this world.
The only one in this world is you and only you. If you do not work on these issues, then there will be other women like this who will bring you to the brink of death.
Give worth where worth is due, not to someone who gives you the door. | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 11/3/2007 4:49:22 PM | AT a loss <<<< is he still around???
ut oh..... his profile don't exist, how to reach him dunno.
suicide isn't funny, and I know how much damage can do to a family if a life is taken by the person himself. OH WOW!!!
Anyone have any way of contacting him? I'd talk to him if anyone knew how to reach him. | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 11/6/2007 7:23:45 AM | dear at a loss,I too felt the same way you are feeling.I was so in love with my ex ,that when he left me for a much younger woman,i thought that i would surely die,I even had sleeping pills(needed them)and would sit there looking out my window thinking how easy it would be to just go to sleep and never wake up,well i did wake up,I had a great group of friends that helped me see the light so to say.I became stronger than i thought i ever could.I went to counselling(which was fantastic),and became single for the first time in along time.I took time for myself,enjoyed that i could do whatever i wanted .I moved far away,found a job,got my own place,and became happy.It took 4 years,but i did finally meet someone,which 4 years ago I thought would never happen.Now I'm content,happy and strong,so hang in there,breathe,and take the time to realize that it is not over for you,,,,all the very best to you,fab
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