| I want to die
Posted: 3/26/2006 6:43:20 PM | | Oh my gosh girls can be such b#$%*es | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 3/26/2006 6:59:20 PM | No one is worth taking your life for.
Get a hold of yourself sweetie. You're young, and have your whole life in front of you.
You'll get through this tuff time. There are so many other people you've yet to have met. The Woman of your dreams, is out in the universe some place. She's thinking about you too.
Don't let another person alter your path in life.
See the big picture, and know in your heart, you'll survive this painful time.
Sending you a big hug! | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 3/26/2006 7:05:41 PM | I'd like to give my support to at a loss, but has anyone hear from him sense he started this thread?
There is hope, sweetie, just look at all the people who care. There is some great advice here and I know you will be OK. Hang in there, get proffessional help, don't do anything drastic, and remember, it can only get better.  | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 3/26/2006 7:36:11 PM | I know that people are saying move on. That's what you should, I think too. But the first thing that you should do is to look back at the relationship that you had with Shannon and figure out where you went wrong. Learn from that experience. Also read dating books on what women are looking for in a man. That might help too.
This also helps you to learn more about yourself too.
But the best advice is not to quickly jump into another relationship. Trust me, you will make the same mistakes as you did with your previous relationship.
I know that you work. But your free time will present an opertunity for you to learn and to relax. Also spend time with your friends too.
But most importantly forget, forgive, and move on with your life. There is a better woman for you out there. Just keep on looking.
I don't know what other advice that I can give you.
Christina | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/3/2006 3:09:39 AM | k, me too
have for a LONG time
how bout we 'trade' bullets? | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/3/2006 3:42:59 AM | | Dude I know how U feel I lost the Women I thought would be by My side forever. Even worst before She decided She was a Lesbian We had a child together and now I am trying to keep Me and My Son afloat and She has been partying so I filled for custody and child suppport and now Sh calls wanting to try and work things out at least as Friends but I have already started the war and I have come to realize that in a Man's heart He can move mountains in His heart for a Women but sometimes as fate would have it She will never see untill it is too late. I used to believe in love and passion and the perfect drug being true love it does things to the mind that no physical drug can do and is most addictive but I have come to also realize that it like most things in life is a cold dark illusion,another test to see how far a man can be pushed untill He breaks anyways You might be hurting but trust Me Buddy ain't no Human worth killing YOur self for trust Me She won't return the favor "LIKE ALL THINGS THIS TOO SHALL PASS" Remember also She did You wrong not visversa trust Me tomorrow will be a brighter day and there will be gold at the END OF THE RAINBOW You'll see | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/3/2006 4:05:04 AM | umm you've been 'wanting to die' for 3 months now. You haven't posted for over a month. This will sound bad but maybe that's what you need. Go to the doctors and get some medication and get on with your life (if you haven't already)...nothing like starting a suicide thread and then not coming around to let the ones who care know you're ok.
Like someone else said - if you wanted to die you would have already. Obviously, you don't want to. Go see a psychiatrist. Talk to a professional about your problems, not strangers on the internet. Take your meds on a regular basis and next thing you know you'll be realizing how much you love life. | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/3/2006 4:41:29 AM | | Buddy I feel your pain. A girl I dated and fell in love with at one point is apprently getting married. Man it sucks. My inspiration to you is keep your head up and knowing that letting someone being happy is the most unselfish thing you could ever do. When you dont let go your being selfish. I should know I've been there. Maybe some women should realize that not all men are made of steel but heart and feelings. The way I figured is let love find you. It will strike when you least expect it. Ciao for now buddy and good luck. | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/3/2006 1:22:01 PM | | does this count when the female is 50..no man wants a middle aged grandma..they want the younger gals....I dont see much in my future either, and Im a nice person..and the first time i go out on a limb, my daughter messes with my computer, and someone snatched him up...I just need to live with my cats....misskitty | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/3/2006 2:00:53 PM | | Miss Kitty, there is no one or no thing worth dieing for. You may have a broken heart or be alone, but GOD will let you know what the right thing to do is. I think you have a very picture, and you sould like a great catch. Just pray about things--------RON | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/3/2006 2:49:13 PM | | I'll leave my 2 cents here and hope to have the words reach "at a loss". dude, i can totally feel the vibe on it man. my 1st girlfriend. we were together 6 months. i LOVED HER severly. she broke up with me and i hated to even look at myself in the mirror for 7 months. i didnt voice it but i was seriously just wanting to end it all myself. i hated myself. i felt like Sh*t. and then i started to not feel the pain so much. and after a long while it just stopped hurting. i met some new friends and started goin to hang with them more often. things got better. about the ONLY bitter pill to swallow was back in december 04-january 05. jan 05 was the 3 year aniversary of me and my 1st breaking up. it was in that time that i found out something that SERIOUSLY screwed with my head. i was even in a relationship at that time that was a great relationship with a sweet and caring girl. i found out that for the last 2 months of my relationship with my 1st girlfriend that she was screwin around on me quite literally and i saw proof with my own eyes of the past that i thought i had buried. I completely flipped out, seriously just lost my mind for a while and broke up with the sweet caring girl because of that info and instead got all these EVIL thoughts about how to get revenge type. i thought i had caused the breakup with my first girlfriend. turns out SHE was the 1 in error. not only did i hate her then i hated the fact that she led me to believe it was my fault. she has since done the same thing to at least 2 more guys and i can truely believe they are honest cus she did the same exact thing to her first bf whom she left for me. so lets look at the scorecard: kevin 0 katie -5000. maybe i didnt score but i sure as hell broke even. whereas katie is still out there hurting guys. these are memories i will have to carry around for the rest of my life. it probably doesnt help that ive had a total of 4 real relationships and 3 of em cheated on me. the ONLY one that didnt was the one i broke up myself(huge mistake that i STILL regret). she and i still talk, though im sure she will never give me another chance ever. id recommend praying but i dont do it myself and i seriously dont think religion is a fix for everything. just dig down deep man and find the will to go on. oh and i dont understand why everyone is so into going to a psychiatrist and getting prescription drugs to help with their mood. i find my mood is better just by being able to go out with my friends and have a beer and talk and hang out. i think you just need your friends. if you dont have some, go out and make some. and get some hobbies or something. follow a sports team and do a mock season where you pick which teams they will and wont beat and see how their real season pans out and see if you were close. do something just dont think about her. best of luck, kevin | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/3/2006 10:56:54 PM | I've felt the same way, tried it, but failed. Not once but twice. Pretty sad huh? First time was with my first love. We just broke up, and a week later she already had a new man whom she was having intimate encounters with. i went to a halloween party she showed up at and I went for some pills. I took them all and ended up in the emergency room before any damage happened. I felt so down. So worthless, that I just wanted to be gone from it all. After everything happened I couldn't believe what I had done, but still the feelings of wanting to disappear were there. Time went by and I started seeing another girl. I still thought about the first but things were getting better. with this new person in my life, I finally had something to look forward to in my day. Eventually my first love was just the past. Then a huge fight between me and my last happened. ended up ending the whole relationship. Plans of marriage, family starting, and home buying, all down the drain. I was devasted again. Only this time I thought I had learned from my mistake. Only I really hadn't. Six months after the break up she calls me out of the blue. I thought that maybe I had a chance of trying it over. But she just wanted things to go back the way it was before we got together. I couldn't do it. Then I said I still felt for her, and she replied that she had met another guy. One from her past, that she got back with. I hopped in my car and went for the country to end it all. Only I wasn't going fast enough to make that happen. I smashed my vehicle into an embankmentand I only had a couple of bruises. I again felt like crawling to the bottom of the planet, only this time I had two under my belt. Through time I worked out some of my issues but still think about her and even the first to this day. Not a day goes by that I don't think about them. But you gotta keep it in your mind that there IS someone out there, you just gotta be strong and be patient.Until then find a hobbie that keeps you busy. As long as you are busy, you'll think less about the past. Another thing to do is meet new people. find new friends to hang out with that don't know or associate with your ex. New memories can help flush out the bad ones, and new people don't bring up the past that you had.
But just remember as long as you look forward, you can find better things. | |
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| Move On...
Posted: 4/3/2006 11:51:07 PM | The best advice is just to pull it together man...
Yes, Shannon, may be a 1 in a million, or a lifetime...
I don't doubt that.
Get a grip!
Go read a few articles on www.askmen.com.
That should give you some strength.
Then, if you need more, read Mr. Mafioso's Mafia Lessons...
That'll put some steel in your bones!
Take care, and try not to think too much about it...
Watch your back & keep your noses clean,
Robert...  | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/4/2006 12:49:35 AM | "If these eyes didn't know the light
There wouldn't have been this thing I had to see
If this body didn't know you
There wouldn't have been this memory I drag" (extract from a song)
How many times did I wish this body didnt know you
How many nights did I cry over you
How many times did I regret I didnt tell you I loved you more than she did
How many times did I wish I wouldnt have let you go
How long did it take me to forget you?--- Forever because you are still in my heart.
Where can I go with this body stained by your memory?
How can I heal this heart with full of scratches you made?
Do you even know I still feel this way? I bet you don't and you never will.
I was already erased from your memory.
I shouldnt have let you go but I did because I knew you could make your dreams come true if you didnt have me. But it was a mistake because you can live without me but I cant live without you. I dont even know what to do without you.
but I know one thing.
Im still alive even though you left me.
Perhaps somewhere in this world somebody is waiting for me like she was waiting for you.
I thought you were the one for me but you werent. But it means somebody else is waiting for me. Maybe I havent met him yet but I know I will. As long as there is the hope, I can live my life, and I wanna live because I know I will be the happiest ever when he comes into my life.
Until then I wont give up my life.
God gave you the second chance. Dont you wanna take it? | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/4/2006 1:01:12 AM | PLEASE!!!!!!!!! DON'T DO ANYTHING TO YOURSELF!!!!!!!i can help you..we can talk and talk..being alone in that lightless tunnell is horrifying..i know i have been there..it numbs you to the world..DON'T DO ANYTHING!!!!!!! there is light and life..once you heal and realize that no body is worth losing your precious life over..you only have one chanse at this world...email me anntaylor124@hotmail.com ill do my best to help you..i work but will respond soon as im home..please stay safe.. | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/4/2006 1:47:54 AM | | i now how you feel i to wonted to die i even tryedi only endup making things wors ispent 2 mths in hospital and now im scared for live trust me its not worth it now im getting on with me live out in iraq and i think ive found someone so it proves that theres more to live one thing igot told and thats to keep live real and live ya dream im scared nearly all over mebody its just not worth it | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/4/2006 9:48:43 AM | Hey you should not feel so bad. We have all loved and lost thats life. You will love again I would put money on it. So do yourself a favor and dont think anymore about taking your own life. FOR WHAT some woman who had obviously moved on. Forget it NOBODY is worth that, your destiny in this world could be a great one. You may be destined to do something so great in the future that if you mess it up now by ending your life you could not only hurt yourself with your selfishness but hurt the people whos lives you are meant to touch one day.
Smile someone out there is thinking about ya and saying a little prayer.
Youll be ok Tomm is another day. | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/4/2006 10:01:09 AM | | Alls I have to say Is I was feeling the same way and reading what everyone wrote you really made me feel better I hope it did you to since it was directed at you.... | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/4/2006 5:58:37 PM | | The guy that started this thread did email me on 3/18. He said he as ok and just has his ups and downs. I just emailed him again asking him to post something. | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/4/2006 7:20:03 PM | | This thread would be his down........I should hope. | |
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| re:I want to die
Posted: 4/4/2006 7:32:31 PM | | When one door closes another opens..... | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/4/2006 7:37:17 PM | I can't imagine the pain you must be feeling, I am sorry. Life however, will get better, you have been given a gift of life and your journey isn't over yet. You need to be strong, you have to live until you have loved again, you have a lot to offer someone.
I know that I am not going anywhere until I feel the love that you speak of. I promised myself, when my sister passed away, that I would find love like she had found. She had been in countless relationships with men that didn't care about her, men that were takers, not givers, she too had moments of desperation, she did want to go through the pain anymore. But she hung in there, she met him, they married and they loved each other madly until she passed away, 6 years later. You will love again, and you will treasure the gift of life that you have been given. She's out there, and if you need a friend, you have one, in me.
Please take care. | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/4/2006 8:02:01 PM | Even after being in your shoes myself, I have to tell you to let nature and time take it's course, and things will be okay.
My son was suicidal at the age of 19. He had two suicide attempts by hanging, and both times his friend walked in and cut him down. Prior to his third attempt he phoned his g/f to tell her good bye, and before he got to, she broke up with him. He loved this girl with all his heart. He fell to the kitchen floor and cried like a two year old. He was very, very angry, because now if he killed himself, his g/f would go through life thinking she was the cause of his death. He said he loved her too much to put her through anything like that. Time has passed, he had his medication changed, and he is now once again a productive young man at the age of 22. He is also happy.
Sunday night a friend of mine killed himself. He had friends over and they were partying. He was 40. His wife came home and was mad and sent his buddies home. He went to his shed, got his gun, went into the kitchen and shot himself in the head in front of his wife of many years, and his daughters aged 17 and 19. Yes, he did have emotional problems, but he was good at hiding them, and chose drinking to self-medicate. He now has left a wife and daughters to live with this living nightmare for the rest of their lives. They all feel guilty, and wished they would have known how bad he felt. They are all in shock at the moment. They will all be scarred for life due to his senseless and selfish act.
Suicide, as many have said, is an easy way out. Put your mind to positive things in your life. I know they are there if you look hard enough. To kill yourself over another person, or for any reason, is definately not the answer. Think of all those that you will leave behind. | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/4/2006 8:03:48 PM | | Since this is on page 9 or 10 you may not even see this. I haven't read other postings just only your thread. All I can say is that we have all had our heart broken at one time or another. My advice is to take your free time and occupy it. Get into something that you may not have thought about before. Learn to scuba dive, get on a motorcycle, ski, start hiking, hell fly a kite, get in your car/truck and drive, anything that makes you look forward to your free time. Join a book club or even if you are involved in a church, most contemporary churches have single socials. Put yourself into something that you enjoy. Chances are that there is a counterpart looking for you, too. Like interests are a great start! Good luck and keep the faith. | |
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| I want to die
Posted: 4/17/2006 1:39:33 PM | | A healthy love is two people sharing their lives together, co- dependancy is an illness and it is hard to lose someone that you love and it is harder when you are co-depedant on a person . I would advise you get some therapy and it will help you to move on with your life. | |
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