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Posted: 5/6/2006 1:13:07 PM | oh my. see, this is why i hate men.
I really feel for you, i think i am in teh same situation. I also am in university, i just had the worst semester marks/grades wise ever. It is all b.c of a guy. I seen this guy at Staples, i liked him since i seen him. Months later we meet, after that he kepth standing me up. we met again in interession, again after that he kepth standing me up. I always seen him there on my MSN, so i deleted him to help myself get over him. anyway, a month ago i unblocked him, he msged me. asked me to go to his place. we fooled around a bit. after that he never contacted me. then, a week ago he asked me over and I went. We had sex, he took my virginity. and he blocked me on msn after i tried contacting him. I keep thinking of him, even when i had him blocked. OH my. men....sigh | |
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| Confused, Hurt, LOST......
Posted: 5/18/2006 11:49:51 PM | The good side of me:
Cut away from him. He's not what you need and you know it. Remember, your present decisions wuold determine your destiny.
The bad side of me:
Cut away from him, BUT, come to me!!!  | |
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| Confused, Hurt, LOST......
Posted: 5/18/2006 11:53:07 PM | "oh my. see, this is why i hate men."
 wow! wonders shall never end. I've never heard a man say that.
"We had sex, he took my virginity"  God dammit, I'm off | |
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| Confused, Hurt, LOST......
Posted: 7/1/2006 1:59:58 AM | linds19
The hardest thing is staying away long enough to start the healing, because the healing begins with the grieving process, and it can be painful at times. It usually takes seven attempts to stay away from a destructive relationship, with the help of weekly counseling and a support group for Domestic Violence. Buy a journal and get your feelings out on paper, break huge chunks of wood to release your anger, before it becomes internalized into depression or taken out on someone else. Make a list of things you can do when you are lonely ~the MOST vulnerable time is when you are lonely! Re-established friendships, joined a singles group at church, take long drives in the country, treat yourself to some new makeup, research online all the information you can find on these kind of relationships, etc...whatever works for you, please do it? You are worth sooo much MORE!!! Good luck Hon. You will be in my prayers, Pat  | |
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| Confused, Hurt, LOST......
Posted: 7/1/2006 8:42:53 AM | | Its just time, thats all it takes is time to get over him and whatever hurt and confusion you are going thru...its gonna be ok..do what I would do...pray it away...after all God does heal and deliver people from their pains, and their sufferings...I am sorry for your pain and confusion, and you are in my prayers as well.....why you are at it, do me a favor and pray for me to....I just had a "severe loss" to...she hurt me bad! | |
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| Confused, Hurt, LOST......
Posted: 7/2/2006 4:52:57 AM | Girl I know what you mean about being lost and hurt, I have been there and been thru that myself a couple times..it just takes time to heal and get over it....find other things to do to occupy your time and your mind, and before you know it....you will not even be thinking about that sorry ass man...or poor excuse of a man.....soul seductive I can heal you in my own special way, all you gotta do is get in contact with me and I can make it better for ya baby!... | |
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| Confused, Hurt, LOST......
Posted: 7/2/2006 6:17:53 AM | | You are a beautiful woman and I sense an inner beauty as well......look deep within yourself for the strength...God bless. | |
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| Confused, Hurt, LOST......
Posted: 7/2/2006 10:15:48 AM | | I have sent you an e-mail. I feel the exact same way. Try to stay busy and surround yourself with the ones that love "YOU" the most. It's hard but you are a beautiful woman and you deserve better. I know I'd give my left arm to find someone like you,and it's obvious that he isn't worried about "YOUR FEELINGS AT ALL". If he were true to his feelings he would'nt keep you dangling on a string. Sounds to me like he doesn't want you but at the same time doesn't want you with anyone else selfish ness gets you no where in this world. I put my ex on a pedestal quit things that I loved doing to make her feel important and where did it get me? In the same boat that you are in. She tore my heart and spirit and very soul to shreds and doesn't even care. She was the one having the affair and she treats me like I've done something wrong. I've gotta move on and so should you you are too beautiful to be treated that way. "HOPELESS IN KY". lilman: | |
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| Confused, Hurt, LOST......
Posted: 7/2/2006 10:22:46 AM | | HI i know exactly what you mean and i am going through the same thing right now. I have been with him 13yrs. H e is actually seeing someone else but like you say he says things to you then and you dont know where you are. I am the same cant concentrate on anything cant sleep it is very hard for other people to understand how you are feeling if they have never been through a similar situation theselves. So I am no help to you but I really know what you are going through. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2006 10:26:06 AM | HOLY KA-BANGERS BATMAN !
What you could do is find someone new who is better quality and who is more handsome and who desires, respects you and who is taking up your time. Do it. You will find out how fast these memories and thoughts of Mr.X leave you. Next thing you know you are smiling again and being productive. | |
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| Confused, Hurt, LOST......
Posted: 7/2/2006 10:39:30 AM | | You know, I helped raise two children for three years that weren't my biological children. Took them to their soccer games basketball games even took them hunting deer and fishing with me and I was the one having an affair. I used to play volleyball at a college in a town close by AUSTIN PEAY had the kids with me,but went to meet another woman. I never cheated on my spouse. I thought she ws the most "BEAUTIFUL INDIVIDUAL" that I'd ever put my eyes on. We got married in 05 and divorced in 06. It has really taken it's toll on me and she is going out with another man like she has no feelings for me at all. I really don't know what to think. Am I worthy of being "TRUELY LOVED" ? Is there someone out there that I can really trust with my heart. I have alot of love to give someone. I am a compassionate romantic funny big hearted person who wants to settle down and start a family. My idea of a marriage comes from my parents I guess. They have been married for 35 years now and still are very in-love today. Thats what I had in mind when I got married,is that wrong to want to spend the rest of your life with the one that you really love and open up too? I really am confused she has really hurt me bad and right now it feels like the end of the world. HOPELESS IN KY lilman | |
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