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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 6/7/2007 6:02:06 AM | I see all the guys in this posting say they like it when a girl makes the first move, either by e-mail or in person. I have found that not to be entirly true. I have sent a few emails and either they just don't respond or they read and delete. It's either i'm a troll or they are just jerks. I respond to everyone, either i say i'm not interested or i say i am. but either way i always respond. So if you guys like it when a girl makes the first move why am i getting "read and deleted"  | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 6/7/2007 8:50:33 AM | | Ladyleo37, the same for men, we contact women and they do not respond, they read and delete. No response is a response to a lot of people on here. I've learned that the quick way. I've maybe sent 11 emails in the short time I been here, I've got two responses!! Two out of 11.. I been a member less then a week, can you as a woman explain that? Neither can we (men) explain why you have got little responses, I wish people would respond and say "not interested" When they make first contact I do respond and tell them what's going on.. I'm more man then that, I have no problem speaking what I feel. | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 6/7/2007 10:45:42 AM | Sweetie, I can't imagine no one responding to you. You are HOT!!!! But like you i can't say why women do not respond to your e-mails. Like i said i always respond. Only thing i can say is it just shows you that, that wasn't a person that you want to get to know. I guess i should take my own advise 
You're little girl is very cute too.. | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 6/7/2007 10:51:04 AM | | Thank you for the compliments that was very sincere and sweet of you. Maybe it's the state I live in. Here in New Mexico there are few blue eyed people LOL -see now I'm making excuses - where's my corner... Goes to pout | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 6/7/2007 11:11:12 AM | | Come to Texas baby, there are wayyyyyy to many blue eyed people.. Im Italian so no blue here.. But thats another subject lol... On the same subject line. I can't figure out why a guy who starts to talk to you but then for no reason, stops. but then weeks later e-mails you again. I've had that happen a few times. He seems interested but then drops off the face of the earth. Then all of a sudden, he's back. Can anyone tell me a reason for this? | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 6/7/2007 7:05:07 PM | | No, I actually prefer if they make the first contact then you can gauge their interest level. I always find it amazing that the majority of women ask that you write a personal note to initiate contact and then if they don't like your profile or pics don't at least right a thanks but no thanks note. I think in any case if someone sends you a note you should at the very least say no thanks back......In any case, getting back to your point, no i don't think it is a turn off if a women makes the first contact. Hope this helps! Good luck :) | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 6/7/2007 8:45:58 PM | | Women....pay close atention........ ^^^^^ The above 2 posts........ If you are willing to write, we know you're interested! Otherwise..( Speaking STRICTLY for myself....) I could care less....... This site is free, and beyond getting to vent opinions in the forums, I expect to receive nothing from this site..... "You get what you pay for"........ I Ain't paying.......... I'm not asking......... | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 6/9/2007 1:01:53 PM | Absolutely not, I welcome it.
I wish all women would wake up and take an active rather than passive role in match finding. I wonder how many women sit there wishing I would ask them. I hate to feel like I'm a bother to somebody so it's very difficult for me to approach somebody cold call. If they are in a bar and tapping their toe, or moving to the music, I think they want to dance, and I have no problem, but busy buying stuff in the grocery and it's real difficult. | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 6/9/2007 3:45:17 PM | | I don't think it really matters. Both sexes are now equal in society. In fact, if a woman make the first contact, I am more attracted to them than when I make the first contact. | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 6/9/2007 3:56:03 PM | | No. I wish more women would make the first contact. The odds of a man meeting someone here would be much higher if a woman makes the first contact because at least he knows she has some interest in him. Unless she was really unattractive, had little common interests, or had a poor profile, I would at least exchange some emails with her to find out more about her. | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 6/11/2007 2:16:45 PM | i think it should be thought of as awesome! For some reason though, it seems to me also that it really isn't that awesome to guys. Unfortunately for me i like to make contact as i read a profile i like and/or am drawn physically to someone - but apparently it is a turn off to show interest. | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 6/12/2007 9:36:18 AM | | It doesn't bother me. I'd also ignore the ideas about pictures having an effect, that only works with the vain as a point of contact, you could always show a picture after you've chatted. It also depends on the guys you're trying to contact. | |
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