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 Author Thread: Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
 purelovemaking

Joined: 7/13/2005
Msg: 101
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/1/2006 6:05:57 PM
I hope not..I'm not shy and will make the first move
 momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005
Msg: 102
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Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/1/2006 6:08:11 PM
Back to Oakie...I truly tend to intimidate most men....I still haven't found one that can keep up with this "Tour de Jour". Doesn't mean I won't keep looking.....Keep flirting, keep beleiving in that elusive element, Love!
 SilverSkys

Joined: 12/21/2005
Msg: 103
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/1/2006 6:10:00 PM
call it bold r not..but it seems im always the one that moves first...specially if im out with friends an i want ta dance..guys dont ask me lawdy b if a man {i didnt know..is the keyword} actually asked me first id fall out r faint or damn near not know what to say lol even my friends would make a comment bout it an they jus would not ask a guy first...me ya betcha i would lol
 ron385

Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 104
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Posted: 2/2/2006 4:05:29 AM
No. To me it is a form of flattery and a turn on. Well, I like bold women who don't live by outdated dating standards.
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 105
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 6:42:43 AM
Would love it if I got approached by a woman...still waiting for that experience.
I recall back in my 20's a friend said that men are the pursuers and women are pursued and now years and years later...still the same. Some women do approach men but many wait for the guys to do it.
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 106
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Posted: 2/2/2006 7:44:26 AM
flux, ron: maybe some of us just aren't worth pursuing. *sob* *choke*
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 107
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 7:46:35 AM
Is a tough game, dating is, and well some women are bold and forward...not enough in my eyes..and some just wait and hope that you or I will walk over to them.
 PLUKA DUCK

Joined: 1/8/2006
Msg: 108
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 8:58:49 AM
Well i have had women contact me and i have contacted them.I must say no it does not turn me off, unless there are obvious differances,such as i want children and they do not,then i have to doubt the persons intentions.I can only speak for myself,and what i say in my profile is what i mean. But anyway what does it matter,are you not here to meet men? There are much bigger hurdles than that,there is emotional,mental,physical,inlaws,outlaws ,friends,children,pets,where you live,what car you drive,how much you earn,your clothes,after shave,..........shit i dont have time for all the rest, get over it. Not every man wants you just like you dont like every man. But i must say that i have always been curtious and replied to the contacter,yes or know.
 fun_in_burbank

Joined: 9/1/2005
Msg: 109
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 9:44:54 AM
I personally love a woman that shows interest in me. Makes things so much easier instead of rejection after rejection trying to find someone.
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 110
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 10:12:17 AM
Well good luck t all of us guys on having a woman hit on us or approach us..it is a rarity to happen guys...
 shycomic65

Joined: 1/23/2006
Msg: 111
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Posted: 2/2/2006 10:19:59 AM
The last women to make first contact with me backed her caravan into my car. I reponded.
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 112
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 10:36:12 AM
Thta is a laugh...Bang!! Oh so sorry, here is my number..and call me anytime not just for the insurance adjustments LOL. Nice way to be picked up...
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 113
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Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 10:43:22 AM
you laff, but i've actually considered doin' that on purpose!
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 114
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 10:46:17 AM
Like the guy installing an alarm in some woman's place "Here is my card and call me if you need me, anytime" LOL...gotta like that one too.
 Curvy

Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 115
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 11:10:24 AM
This reminds me of when the internet installer came to my home and was hitting on me big time. Was actually very intimidating and I reported him. I mean the dude was like ya I use to know the chick who lived in here before she was a single mom too blah blah blah and proceeded to put his e-mail and phone number on the back of his business card which he left on my desk with a note saying I would really love to experience your curves

So guys ya Don't Do It!!

Although I have been told a few nasty stories from a few of my male friends mostly about older women still in there undergarments, saying they did not realize the time and were running late. YA RIGHT lol
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 116
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Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 11:30:55 AM
curvy: i won't do the alarm thang! ...i swear on my mother's grave! (she's got a very nice one picked out...)
 FluxCapacitor

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 117
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 11:33:02 AM
I have never stooped to doing any low tactics. Waste of time.
 Curvy

Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 118
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 11:54:54 AM
Good For You Flux... nor should any man have to... Makes em look desperado.

OT It's a brand new world out there boys where women don't necessarily want to be taken.. some like to do the taking
 momvon

Joined: 9/21/2005
Msg: 119
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Posted: 2/2/2006 4:50:56 PM
Ohhh Mike and Flux, If you great looking boys lived within a 3-4 hrs. drive I would have already IM or emailed......I check the distance, very practical woman here.....Unless you boys want to come play in Maryland???
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 120
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Posted: 2/2/2006 4:56:10 PM
sorry, mom: sadly, the reverse holds true para yo
 1nonlyluv

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 121
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 5:13:00 PM
MIKE WHY ARE BEING SO UGLY TO EVERYONE TONIGHT?
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 122
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Posted: 2/2/2006 5:20:08 PM
sweetheart, i am not! all isaid was maryland's farther'n i wanna drive, too!

"para yo" is spanish for "for me"

mom: thanks for the compliment, by the way. i do haft' admit my manners are usually a bit better'n that
 1nonlyluv

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 123
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 5:22:18 PM
O.k. you stay sweet to all the ladies we like you!!!!!!!!!!!
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 124
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Posted: 2/2/2006 5:23:28 PM
an' i'm rather fond o' y'all
 1nonlyluv

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 125
Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/2/2006 5:37:29 PM
you make our day I'm coming on to you does it turn you off?????
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