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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/5/2006 10:49:00 AM | | I don't find it to be a turn off at all! In fact, I find it to be more of a turn on. For years it has always been up to the guy to make that initial contact, so we are usually the ones dealing with all of the rejection. Of course there are those I just don't wish to reply to, however, it is usally because there is no attraction. All and all, I wish there were more girls out there making the first move. | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/5/2006 11:13:10 AM | | A woman contacting me definately would not turn me off. In fact I wish more would. What does turn me off is when I put effort into sending messages to people who don't answer. Why be on here then? | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/5/2006 11:56:16 AM | | Well women get bombarded with tons of messages so they can also sort through what ones are worthwhile to reply to. When there is a competition, the best seem to come out on top. And dating is a competition. | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/27/2006 7:42:37 AM | | I think it's wonderful. I will always respond, too, just because I know how hard it can be to make that first move. Won't always be the answer they want to hear, but it will at least be a kind acknowledgement to let them know they've been heard. | |
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Joined: 2/25/2006
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/27/2006 4:42:20 PM | | Not at all. I am complimented by it. Of course I would be more complimented if the person contacting me in any way fit what I am looking for in a potential partner. Most of the time, the first note contacts I get are from women 10 years older or 100 pounds heavier than I want I would be interested in meeting. | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 2/27/2006 5:24:29 PM | Ain't nothin wrong with an agressive woman at all, I mean a womans interwishin is far better than a mans anyways. Man my spelling stinks, must need more coffee still. (no offence intended?) | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 3/1/2006 7:11:03 AM | | I think it's about time women start doing things first instead of waiting for the man to do it...if I see someone I like, I'll make first contact...I am sooooooo not shy that way ! | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 3/1/2006 9:43:55 AM | | I wish more would! I keep changing my profile 9 at least a half dozen times now) trying to find the magic formula to entice women to write, make the first contact. As outgoing as I am, i do think I am somewhat shy about making that first contact...I confess. But that is maybe because i am one of those guys that can't stand rejection from a lady that I might find attractive. I just hate that feeling and it gets me down. So damn it ladies, write! lol | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 3/1/2006 9:57:08 AM | Rat Jim...you stole my tie again!!!
I love it when the woman makes the first move...I have always been the one to initiate and it feels really good when the woman does it. Both sexes need to feel desirable. It's also nice when the woman does it in the shower. Last time that happened to me I almost fell on my keester!! But it was electrifying!!! | |
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| Does a women making the first contact turn you off?
Posted: 3/1/2006 10:31:43 AM | It is so hard to date when you are over 50. It seems there are only two types of men out there. Newly divorced men that just want to date around because they haven't been free for so long. They are like a kid in a candy store.....they want a little of this and a little of that. Then there are the guys that have been divorced for 10 yrs or so. They like doing what they want to, when they want to. They will date you but don't want you getting too close. They like their freedom. Am I just meeting the wrong men, or am I right?
Hey mandrake! This was about the first "CONTACT", not the first "move"! LMAO But the first MOVE in the shower seems hot! lol
And I like this red tie! lol | |
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