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 John1981

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 93
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Posted: 1/22/2006 12:48:44 AM

It is elementary, if you understand natural selection. ... ...The winning strategy (i.e., to have surviving descendents) is to have the most descendents. For Alpha males that means mating with the maximum number of women to produce the most children.

Carldeen, Of course you are right and almost all scientists agree with you. However, you are wasting your time. Those on this site, as well as myself, who think logically and have an interest in science have already read the studies and agree with you. The others are incapable of understanding what you are talking about and, even if they could understand, there minds are made up; facts and logic do not matter.
 Officer FF

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 94
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Posted: 1/22/2006 1:12:52 AM
From my understanding there is no such thing as pefection. Ovulation? Bi? Natural selection?

Talk about rationalizations!

Time to get real people. Realtionships take work something many are not will to do. If your a selfish woman and or man then you'll be looking out for number one and should stay out of a commited realtionship.

Trying to ratioanlize innaproriatness by saying whateve floats your boat is like a good death. A total oxymoron and defines pure selfishness and amorality not a morality.
 Synical

Joined: 8/16/2005
Msg: 95
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Posted: 1/22/2006 1:18:37 AM

Carldeen, Of course you are right and almost all scientists agree with you. However, you are wasting your time. Those on this site, as well as myself, who think logically and have an interest in science have already read the studies and agree with you. The others are incapable of understanding what you are talking about and, even if they could understand, there minds are made up; facts and logic do not matter.


Nature dictates men mate with as many women as possible in order to create more offspring.
Common sense, values, morality & a conscience dictate that when you're in a relationship, you don't wander into every bed available.

Instinct vs free will? Uh huh.

Rationalizing an excuse to not treat your partner, or yourself for that matter, with respect. If you want to jump into multiple women's beds, don't get into a committed relationship.
 Adriana1986

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 96
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Posted: 1/22/2006 1:56:05 AM

Those on this site, as well as myself, who think logically and have an interest in science have already read the studies and agree with you.

John, I read what he said and it made sense to me. Does that mean I'm a logical thinker? If so, that news to me.
 Natalie Hoang

Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 97
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Posted: 1/22/2006 3:35:35 AM
erm...sometimes, perfection is ...not a good thing. Perfection makes us something like an angel, fairy...not human. & i know some people can't stand people-who-never-wrong. Sometimes, mistakes make us more attractive.

Besides, to explain this we gotta to explain in general, men.(im sorry u r man but i need to say). With MEN, there's no MINUS but PLUS. WE can see some men have a wonderful wife, but they always have the "spare", just like they have to got some soup for appetizer, beefsteak for main & ice cream for desert
It belongs to the "gene structure" i bet i can tell why.
 crunchberries

Joined: 8/16/2005
Msg: 98
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Posted: 1/22/2006 8:37:20 AM
@john1981

So this means that all women should flock to you and carldeen in hopes of creating the master race and ruling the earth. Wow, you are that sure that the two of you have the genes of the master race withing you?? Man, you guys should open a clinic or something so we breed us up some super men!!!

You make me laugh......You belong in 30's era Germany.
 rings

Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 99
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Posted: 1/23/2006 12:13:41 AM
the grass is never greener,

just different grass...........
 grantguy

Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 100
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Posted: 1/23/2006 7:16:43 PM
very well said Wanderer, I am thinking you hit the nail on the head
 lazyboy

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 101
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Posted: 1/23/2006 8:07:26 PM
Perfect men and perfect women? How's that title?

IE: Brad Pitt get's Angela Jollie before he's even divorced Jennifer Aniston.

The guy was cheating and despite everything this girl could offer it's never
enough. He can always take it to another level.

Good thing he didn't have kids with Aniston.
 Tick Tock

Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 102
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Posted: 1/23/2006 11:05:18 PM

Brad Pitt get's Angela Jollie before he's even divorced Jennifer Aniston


They're so perfect, they'll probably give birth to the next Messiah.
 Victor Shmictor

Joined: 12/31/2005
Msg: 103
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Posted: 1/24/2006 6:08:30 PM
Hi gang, thought to throw in my 2 cents worth on the subject. So, here goes. For every 10 folks - boys, girls, ALFs (Alien Life Froms) - on 1 side, someone great, on the opposite end, their counterpart, not so great. The remaining 8 are various degrees of nice and not so nice, but not to the extremes of 1 and 10. Next, the first depends, which of the 10 are you. If, for example, you are number 8, I'm thinking your counterpart/partner/spouce ain't numbers 1 or 2. They be closer to your neighbourhood. So, change, and life changes. Or, be happy with your lot in life because your doing exactly what you want to be doing. No one is a victim because they have to. They are doing it because they want to. End of sermon. Bye.
 CarlDeen

Joined: 12/28/2005
Msg: 104
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Posted: 1/24/2006 9:51:32 PM
Torkwretch, again, you certainly are refreshing with your open-mindedness and honesty. When John stated that most people on this site are incapable of thinking logically, he certainly was not referring to you.
 lazyboy

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 105
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Posted: 1/24/2006 10:16:02 PM
@torkwretch

But you're married? What does exclusive mean to YOU? What does the
marriage bring you?
 jebstuart9

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 106
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Posted: 1/24/2006 10:29:22 PM
This thread has gotten interesting again after the flame-out (not that that wasn't entertaining) Ladies, peace.

Think for a moment about the cultures that are polygamous. It doesn't make sense to have multiple husbands because then no one would know whose baby it was, other than the woman's. That might not matter in some Amazon like cultures. But for property reasons and inheritance, you need to trace lineage if the culture is male dominant. (This is getting anthropological isn't it)

But think about the Mormons. You from Utah may enlighten us further. It was stopped not by the Mormons themselves, but by the monogamous US govt.

It seemed to work, when it was within a religious framework, on the surface.

But who can tell us how the women felt, seeing the husband go into the one of the younger wive's bedrooms? Torkwretch, you gave the answer: jealousy. Where in the genes is jealousy and what purpose does it serve?

Before antibiotics, syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and the 29 some odd others were far more serious. Like HIV in the early 90's, they were killers--of the adults infected as well as the offspring. Jealousy is a survival thing. Sex has to be kept within the circle, be it a circle of two, three, four, etc. So we are "hardwired" to want faithfulness (maybe as a more recent thing than to spread our genes to the most number of females?),
 lazyboy

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 107
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Posted: 1/24/2006 10:36:57 PM
Thanks, Torkwretch. But, I don't know what I should feel after I read that response.
 jebstuart9

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 108
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Posted: 1/24/2006 11:26:51 PM
Is this the new Man and Woman, the 21st century's contribution to evolution?

But what about that sister? Jealousy.
 lazyboy

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 109
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Posted: 1/24/2006 11:36:03 PM
The sister has more class I think and men see that - even the husband.

Marcia Marcia Marcia!!
 daylillies

Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 110
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Posted: 1/24/2006 11:47:08 PM
if hes such a wonderful man...why you wastin ur time in this date site??? an not with him
 jebstuart9

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 111
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Posted: 1/25/2006 7:17:46 AM
The lady doth protestesth too much, methinks. (what Shakespeare play was that anyway?)

It seems you are driving yr THING into the ground, something to prove...hmmm

Powerful him and "screw you!" ME against the WORLD
 YamIhere

Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 112
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Posted: 1/25/2006 7:30:56 AM
Show me a perfect woman (or man) then this whole thread will make sense. All I know for sure is that somewhere in the this giant world is the woman who is the closest to perfection and nearby is the man who is sick of putting up with her sh!t (or vice versa). This is what happens in involved relationships (with few exceptions) and why I refuse to be a party to them.
 Double Cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 113
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Posted: 1/25/2006 7:36:01 AM
Men cheat on "less attractive women all the time." It is a self absorbed action to begin with, what makes you think a woman's appearance should be all it takes to satisfy a man?

Beauty is only skin deep without positively priceless substance beneath.
 jebstuart9

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 114
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Posted: 1/25/2006 8:12:50 AM
Just look at Hollywood. Brad is so into himself and his desires-so-strong-they-become needs, desires to ride all the rides in the amusement park his ticket will cover, he drops Jennifer Anniston, a gal so many would consider "perfect" on the surface and starts adopting Angelina's Asian and whatever kids, just like Billy Bob and her got tatoos and wore bottles of each others blood around their necks. It's all stunts and publicity and look at me me me. Why? BECAUSE HE CAN. The rest of us in good conscience or for whatever other reason CAN'T if not WON'T, but he, because he is Hollywood, is setting the supposed standard.
Underneath the surface, who knows? Like everyone else, exciting at first, then he wants some different (greener or not) grass. Jessica Simpson and Nick Simpson show off their "perfection" and look how quick she drops him and once again he's Nick Lackey. Now they are free to perform other stunts with other crass, I mean grass. Until they get old and start trying to hold onto it with plastic surgery and get even more ridiculous. That's America. No wonder the world hates us as they feel obliged to imitate us. Sorry I'll get off now.
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