| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 8/15/2008 6:09:39 PM | Trial and error.
Just do it, you'll know soon enough.
A couple pointers:
-Avoid being sloppy
-keep it to the lips
Sloppy kisses are a sign of bad kisser and makes her feel like she's on the receiving end of Hooch! If you're a good kisser, most women will enjoy it more and appreciate you more if you spend more time on her pucker! | |
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ils99
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Joined: 5/30/2008
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 8/15/2008 6:19:01 PM | | Lol... just imagine him asking "say, mind if I kiss you?". That would totally kill the moment. The guy should be subtle but forceful enough about it in my opinion. If I don't want him near me I'd make it clear. | |
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 8/16/2008 2:12:08 AM | Instead of phrasing it as a question, how about if he phrased it as it statement?
How would that be received?
Just come in real close to her....say, about within 6" from her face. Maintain eye contact.
And just say, "I'd like to kiss you."
Gives her a chance to either say, " Uh NO"......or " I think that I'd like that".
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 8/16/2008 8:36:26 AM | NEVER, EVER ASK! You kill the moment, and sound insecure. You have to look at the other person's body language. If they are standing pretty far away from you, or everytime you move closer to them, they move back than they are not interested. But, if they mimic your body language, and you keep on catching them look at you, and smile alot then make your move. | |
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 8/17/2008 12:24:25 PM | I like it to be a suprise at a random moment.
The ones asked out load are moment killers.
And the ones that you know are coming aren't a suprise really.
The ones that you don't see coming are the best!
Ohhhhhhh ........... story.
Senior year we're playing hide and seek. Me and my friend - Jim are hiding together and totally laughing our heads off. We picked great spots, but were found easily because we couldn't keep quite. As we're hiding together he turns around smiles for a second and kisses me quickly. Didn't see it coming and I did pretend to dislike it at first then we cracked up again. We never dated, but he gave me the best kiss I like so far - though he may not know it. | |
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 8/18/2008 10:46:15 AM | I love when women go for it and kiss me......I REALLY LOVE THAT S**T!!!!!!
Especially when you're talking to her and she comes closer and closer and the next thing....you're sucking face........AHHHHHHHHH!!!!! Horray for the spunky women.
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adf67
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Joined: 2/26/2008
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 8/18/2008 10:59:06 AM | I say a guy should just go for it.. and if he gets slapped down he knows it was not a good move
Seriously, I think a guy should just lean in for a heartfelt kiss..(not a groping lunge..lol)... It shows confidence and honest emotion there..and an assertive man is a definate turn on for me..
It pretty much kills the moment with an awkward pause if he has to ask first.
I can see that he may want to be a gentleman and not assume anything but if the vibe is there and mutual usual both parties know in the moment that its right.. | |
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 8/18/2008 3:13:45 PM |
I tell anyone that i'm meeting for the first time that we have to kiss when we say hello... can be any kinda kiss... i leave that up to the person i'm meeting and what they feel comfortable with!
Oh nooooo, that wouldn't work with me. Do you know how many guys I wanted to run away from when initially meeting them? (you know...those peeps who definitely did not post a current picture). I wouldn't want them kissing me on the lips, cheek, hand, or anything else for that matter.
Although I can appreciate the politeness, I do not like being asked about the first kiss. If I am smiling, laughing, flirting, and innocently touching, you best be going in for a kiss. Slowly lean in as you look into my eyes...I'll more than likely kiss you back. If you've misread my signals, the lean in will most likely be politely refused.
~FNS | |
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 8/18/2008 3:23:18 PM | Asking for a kiss ?!!!
Frick that !
I live for that moment when a woman looks at you THAT way, when she wants it, and you lean in, but then you look at your watch and say " wow ! look at the time - gotta go ! See ya ! "
Good times. | |
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 10/27/2008 7:17:40 AM | Asking for a kiss is definitely lame unless it's two boring, conservative prude types and, hey, to each their own! I think there's nothing better than when eyes lock onto each other and a sudden tractor beam of passion pulls two people together into a burst of ecstasy.. w00t!
I DO like a gal that is aggressive and assertive in her means but sometimes one must be wary about the gals that are TOO forward. I mean, my ex was one that would pretty much rape me and it turned out that she was like the community bicycle - everyone got a ride! LOL.. Terrible, I know, but oh so true. A kiss is only as special as the sincere emotion behind it; otherwise, you're just going through the motions. I, for one, will pass on the Judas kiss any time... Give me the real thing!
Getting back on-topic, some people are hard to read, mainly cause people do tend to put up walls or put on masks, but it's usually fairly obvious when any approach is fair play. I think the basic rule of thumb is to start off with the little things, avoid forced affection, be natural, let it flow, and watch for the signals. A simple kiss on the cheek or a gentle caress can reveal so much.. Heck, just looking into the right person's eyes can often say more than a thousand of the most beautifully orchestrated words.
( Yeah.. I just don't give simple answers. I have to provide a little essay. This is why I've avoided the forums on here! =oX ) | |
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 10/27/2008 8:03:00 AM | I say stop in the middle of a conversation where you are close together and look deep into her eyes the slowly look down at her lips and start to tilt your head, If she starts tilting and looking at your lips then its a go. If she starts talking again or looks away then tell her softly that she has something on her chin, this will buy you time when she goes to the bathroom to see whats on her chin, you can punch yourself in the head and figure out a way to save the night or at least figure out why she isnt that "into" you yet. I love the first kiss.. It makes me feel like little fireworks are going off in my chest, a slow kiss is always a plus. Not to wet not to dry and with the perfect blend of lip nibbles. awww.    | |
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 10/27/2008 3:56:19 PM | | I really appreciate being asked. I find seeking active consent to be a turn-on, and I feel like asking first is a sign of respect, for me and for my personal space. | |
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 10/28/2008 5:34:16 AM | | I guess it depends on the situation... If you have a feeling you might get rejected my best advice for you would be to ask cause then you might be closer to a yes then just going for the kiss. Usually with me you can tell though. Although I am the first, most often then not, to make any kind of move. If I dont make any move that either means I really like you or I dont like you at all. | |
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 10/28/2008 6:26:08 AM | Oh hell no.
If he has to ask, it ain't gonna happen.
I did have that happen on a first date. I was giving NO signals because I knew there wasn't going to be a second date, much less any physical activity. He asked and I bluntly said 'no'. | |
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| Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 10/28/2008 6:52:08 AM | Oh, so that explains why I am lonely.. Maybe I should take them home instead of dropping them off a block away from their house and telling I am doing this because they need to lose weight!!  | |
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