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Posted: 1/19/2005 10:36:08 AM | thanks Cosmo, was a long time ago, 10 years, actually, a "lifetime" He wouldn't even recognize me now,,,,
I'm a frim believer in things happening for a reason, and as I get older, it becomes clearer and clearer every day. The one thing I have learnt, is to live your life with no regrets. I'm happy to say, I have very few because I keep that in the front of my mind.
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| 'Older' Women & Sex
Posted: 1/20/2005 10:00:15 PM | | Hey Browneyegirl, I read your profile and notice you use the word futz, you are of course aware that futz is German slang for puzzy. | |
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| 'Older' Women & Sex
Posted: 1/21/2005 3:57:38 AM | He he. My colleague is called Roger de Futz. Waiting for Monday... 
And older women are way more fun. | |
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Posted: 1/21/2005 11:13:43 AM | Ah - ifn my exhusband could only score with me now.....
Just kidding...yuck, ptuuuuuuuuuuu... | |
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Posted: 1/24/2005 7:07:44 AM | I agree jaytea . I am 46 and a widow and want to venture more with sex. IT is hard at times being raised old school and also wanting to be adventerous. I have dated men younger then me and men older then me and found they just can't keep up. I agree with you I not itno bed hopping or one night stands but a nice steady supply of sex would be nice LOL.
This is my first forum and I wish I could put in happy faces , Take care all and have great life hugsssssssss Bon | |
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Posted: 1/24/2005 7:16:23 AM | We are soul sisters bon. I'm sorry for your loss. My husband died when I was 39 and have spent the last ten years, knowing he would want me to continue MY life. I can'thelp but think though, that he is puttin whammies on me for my uninhibitness in my "mature" years!!
Here's to a "steady supply" | |
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Posted: 1/24/2005 9:15:52 AM | Bon
Smileys are to the right of the indow...click on em...hehe
Let's go girls... | |
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Posted: 1/24/2005 9:27:36 AM | i'm 35, and am currently negotiating with a 24 year old... trying to get him down here to sample some southern hospitality.  mmmmmmmmmmm, yummy. can't wait...
it's about time this became more socially acceptable. you see men with women much younger all the time, and nobody says anything. doesn't make as much sense on a biological level, given the differences in sex drives... people ask me all the time if i have an "old man". i tell them, "no, don't want one, but give me a young, perky one and i'm a happy b!tch!" | |
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Posted: 1/24/2005 10:23:09 AM | GO GO GO Sid
I agree this should be more acceptabe....seems us ladies are looking better with time now...must be all the preservatives...hehe Here's to life after 30 (for me, 40).....woooohoooo oops, one too many, my limit is two as I have never been drunk and have no idea who I might do if I got wasted... | |
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Posted: 1/24/2005 10:36:30 AM | | yeah, buddy. i was soooo happy when demi moore started seeing ashton kutcher. one more reason to be a fan of hers. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2005 1:27:12 PM | i'm 35, and am currently negotiating with a 24 year old
Absolutely LOVE this idea....... 
altho I am not in negotiations with the 24 yr old.....went beyond that already... | |
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Posted: 1/24/2005 3:51:49 PM | | Since my recent ad I have heard from two women, both age 55 or more. Meeting both of them was a positive experience. And it was they who were doing the 'hunting.' One is even setting me up with some of her single friends. I am 49 and it was not like this ten years back. | |
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Posted: 1/25/2005 12:32:38 PM | Older Women and Older Men…………Sounds like a ‘country western song’ but after reading all the post you are ALL saying what I have been learning about myself. What is it ‘they’ say: Love is Wasted on the Young, not sure about that, but I ‘see’ myself, know myself better than I ever have.
My relationships are better, more open and my outlook has broaden to the point that life is what we make it, I can’t wait for someone to do it for me, it’s my time now. I so enjoy being 50 + and I so enjoy men over 50, life just keeps getting better.
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Posted: 1/25/2005 1:45:00 PM | | I just joined today. At age 59 my passion for intimacy is still racing. Unfortunately I only like men who take care of themselves. I am physically active and love doing outdoor stuff. Everything can be there emotionally but the sight of a pot bellied man kills the romance. Been looking at the photos. I like bare chests as with the guy pictured above this post. It is time to do some chasing and enjoy the fun while it lasts. | |
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Posted: 1/27/2005 2:01:55 PM | | Welcome to the site Ruthb. I agree with what you say about men who take care of themselves. I put a lot into taking care of myself and it only makes sense to expect the same! | |
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Posted: 1/28/2005 5:12:40 PM | I totaly hear what your saying JAYTEA.
I myself have found that as I near 40 I feel much more comfortable with sex and I think it has a lot to do with the way people look at sex more freely these days and that I now have more time to take care of myself,working out,going to the spa and I have more money to spend on me,buying nice outfits and getting my hair done,so I know I look good and feel good.
I also think that young girls are made to feel that sex is dirty,at least I was when I was younger...I know better now...
Sex can be taken to so many levels in a relationship and it can be so hot when your with someone you really care about.
I'm not one for sleeping around either but the thoughts do race thru my head...I really do know what a 17 year old guy feels like.....I get very frustrated....heck just talking about it has gotten me all hot and bothered.....lol | |
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Posted: 1/16/2006 3:48:11 PM | I'm much for relaxed about sex nowadays mostly because I don't have to worry about getting knocked up anymore! Haven't had the worry in years!
And I think I'd be very grateful if a man was to find me sexually attractive...Very Grateful, indeed. It has been too long!  | |
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Posted: 8/3/2007 4:34:51 AM | Problem with this is that most women our age are looking for responsible, loving and caring men. Unfortunately they usually end up being (in my case) a bit older and their sex drive is not what it was when they were in their 20's to 30's thus you end up either not experiencing all the true fantasies you may have or you end up dateing a younger man without the true charecteristics you are looking for. I find i have a choice, either a fantasy based sexually active live with someone i have absolutely nothing else in common with or i can have the warm loving caring relationships that actually understands the meaning of "making love" rather than "having sex" I have found that through the use of automated instruments i can actually achieve both.  | |
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Posted: 8/3/2007 5:02:39 AM | | I agree 100% with you OP, I feel much freer and I have my to do list as well.......and am just waiting for that day to come! | |
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Posted: 8/3/2007 6:59:40 AM | | Definitely... add into that the fact that I now have a libido that would put most 19 year old men to shame and *whew*. | |
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Posted: 8/7/2007 8:16:51 AM | | Now I am much more comfortable with who I am and what I like. So now I want to learn more simply because I enjoy it and I enjoy the discovery. I know the direct route(s) and also know there are lots of indirect routes. | |
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