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|Camie, you come up with the best ideas for threads!|
Posted: 1/22/2006 1:59:20 PM
|Nice guys....bit of a generalization|
nice as in eyes...smile....drug and drinking free?
I think it's all up to the individual as to what they class as nice.
Posted: 1/22/2006 2:09:58 PM
|I got sumting that is real NICE and shinee... wanna see it!!! |
Posted: 1/22/2006 2:12:32 PM
|hmmmm.... my profile says i'm a d!ck and an ***hole... and a slut...|
i'm just looking for some attention...
Posted: 1/22/2006 2:13:16 PM
Oral Sex>>> is that like talking dirty?
Posted: 1/22/2006 2:42:48 PM
|nice guys are hard to find. personally, i'd gotten pretty darned tired of the 'bad boys' they bore me. but then, overly nice guys cab get borring too. be a bad boi in the bed room... and dont be afraid to hint that your a bad boi there, whilst being a nice guy in real life. |
being a nice guy doesnt mean you cant have fun!
Posted: 1/22/2006 2:46:48 PM
|Got it. I will take that under advisement Sweet Cheeks.|
*Slaps atebis on the bottom. Hard*
Posted: 1/22/2006 2:48:08 PM
ohh, you naughty, naughty boi!
thats the spirit!
Posted: 1/22/2006 2:51:05 PM
|OH! You mean I got it right? OK!|
*gives atebis another*
Posted: 1/22/2006 2:53:24 PM
|yes! you got it just right, chunky!!! :D good for you! |
*giggles, and lets chunky spank again*
Posted: 1/22/2006 2:57:07 PM
*is a "bad girl*
<-- *is taken aback*
Posted: 1/22/2006 2:59:44 PM
|^^^ damn. you've got me figured. |
<<< not. i'm a nice girl... honest.
Posted: 1/22/2006 3:01:19 PM
*is a "nice girl"*
<-- *is a "nice gorilla*
Posted: 1/22/2006 3:27:25 PM
|Well as it has been said, when reading profiles you have to take them with a grain of salt...I can say I am the nicest person in the world and truely mean it, but what you think if me is totally different when you meet me. Lets face it, everyone thinks they are nice...Isn't that human nature. And if you are willing to admitt you aren't...BRAVO!!!|
We all bend the truth sometimes and the most famous for me would have to be the job interview. I fib at certain questions, in hopes for the job. Well this is much like a job interview, so if someone says they're nice, well then they must be nice...NOT!!!
I do get a kick out of reading the profiles for the simple fact that everything being said about what a person is like either comes straight from their own opinion, or the opinion of friends and family that already like them. I think that is a very ONE sided view. So, when reading profiles read with caution, because there are a lot of NICE men and NICE women out there LOL.
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:24:58 PM
|I can say with 100% certainty from personal experience nice guys always finish last|
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:28:02 PM
|I agree about the profile thing...and honestly, I dont' understand it at all.|
I mean, it's all so subjective....a guy that one person may think is nice, I might think is a nasty little weasel.
" I'm a really nice guy". I mean, what the hell does that mean??
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:30:55 PM
|People all think they are funny too, I see, not into head games a lot too. What is that? However in saying that, I would like you all to know that I am a very nice girl.|
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:38:54 PM
|Here's my deal:|
Nice= 1. someone who speaks their truth at all times while respecting peoples' feelings and value as human beings. 2. Someone who takes others into consideration when their decisions may effect those people. 3. People who are genuinely interested in other human beings, ask questions and make good eye contact during a conversation. 4. Someone who will go out of their way to make someone's journey easier or more pleasant while still respecting their own path.
I think you're wrong about women wanting "bad guys" we don't want "bad guys" we want sexy guys. Snivelly, whiny, doormat, I'll-do-anything-for-you, if-you-don't-love-me-back-I'll-jump-off-a-bridge guys are NOT sexy. Neither is being an ass hole. Sexy is confidence, a clear idea of who you are, what you stand for and an unwaivering set of moral guides (whatever they may be), it's taking care of yourself and those who depend on you, it's creativity, it's a sense of adventure, its strength (in body, mind and spirit) it's respect for yourself and other human beings, it's treating animals, children and seniors kindly and with respect, it's having an open mind about other ways of doing things and other ways of life, it's acceptance of and interest in people who do things differently than you do, it's a constant quest for self-actualization and knowledge, it's knowing your body, a woman's body and how they can work together to create magic...THAT is what women want...at least that's why I want and will try to give the same thing back in return.
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:41:14 PM
|Camie I totally agree with you, thats the way it should be. I know so many girls who will take the bad boy sexy or not.|
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:43:14 PM
|So, you say you're a nice guy and that you finish last. What about you makes you nice and why do you finish last?|
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:48:48 PM
|What you've defined as nice, I don't even have to think of that stuff it automatically happens. I've been told more than once that I'd make the prefect bf and dissimed the next day. Many who have dissimed me I've seen them back stating no more bad guys. They never do break the cycle|
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:50:45 PM
|I don't know Frog....you look like kind of a little hottie to me.....don't know if I'd put you in the 'nice guys' mold.|
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:51:18 PM
|Do you find that you're attracted to women who are attracted to "bad boys?" Maybe it's the type of woman you're after that's the problem! I mean, what do I know, but often if you see patterns repeating themselves, you have to recognize that the common denominator is yourself.|
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:55:29 PM
|I totally know the common denominator is me but being nice is not something I can change. What I don't understand is girls will tell you they want a nice guy, girls will always like nice guys but given the choice they will take the bad boy every day, what do they think is going to happen in the long run? The bad boy will change??|
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:58:57 PM
|Sign of an inexperienced woman who has not yet learned that you can't change another human being. Either accept them as they are or move on. It's not that being nice is the problem my dear not-frog, it's that the women YOU like want something you are not. It's interesting to think about why you're attracted to this particular type of woman. Believe it or not, there ARE women out there who really do want a nice guy...as long as they're sexy at the same time as per my previous post.|