| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 7:02:50 PM | Communication is key. Telling him what you like or don't like. I can come over if he needs a teacher to demonstrate with you.  | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 7:07:07 PM | | If you do feel the ugre to squeeze your legs together try to avoid doing it over his ears. I know it sounds impossible but believe me the suction feeling of having thighs clamped on your ears can hurt a bit, kinda like diving too deep in a pool lol. Also try to let him know what is working, you don't have to do it with words (some guys sadly are touchy about this, theri egos can't handle instruction) but if you moan a little more when he hits a good spot or good rythem then he should pick up on that and you will both have a good time. if he is cool with you telling him what works then taht would be best, you might want to sound him out on this one ahead of time. | |
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Posted: 1/22/2006 9:02:02 PM | | Honey all I can say is ENJOY IT. You know how when you're giving a guy a BJ he sometimes just lays there and does nothing but stare at what you're doing? You can do that too. You don't have to do anything special. If you've masturbated at all you know how good it feels to have your clit rubbed. Imagine that, only instead of using a finger, a tongue! The wetness and the softness is just great! If you feel like he's a little off, either move yourself so he's hitting the right spot, move his head so he's hitting it, or reach down and open your lips a little more so he can feel exactly what it is that you want him to feel. You're gonna feel really wet but that's a combination of your own natural juices and his saliva. Don't worry about abnormalities...if this guy wants to go down on you, let him! He obviously wants to please you! I recommend having a shower couple of hours before the oral sex. That way you will feel nice and fresh and you won't be so concerned about smells and tastes. Your body may do weird things...your legs may tremble, your toes may curl, and you may have the urge to arch your back or make some noise!!! Just make sure you don't get uptight about what's going on. It's sooooooo enjoyable if you let yourself relax! You could always hold his hand as he's down there, rub his shoulder or his head, or you could play with your nipples or whatever. It's a good time. Good luck babe :) | |
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Posted: 1/22/2006 9:14:15 PM | Funny Girl: Sounds like you have been missing out baby.............you can squirt and spray? Yeah I would like to see that  | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 11:57:44 PM | well, seeing that I am not a woman, I can't give you any better info, however,
The best advice you can possibly get is to relax, and only let him do it, if you are ready, if you want him to do it but you are a little nervous, tell him to take it slow, use lots of fore-foreplay, lost of kissing and touching. then, let him go down, and above all, Enjoy, it will feel great.
and if you want to, just have him read this post that I made a while back,
Do men not know how to please Woman Orally?
a lot of woman like that. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/23/2006 9:54:15 AM | it's not all about being bent out of shape
it about the right touches at the right places, it all falls into place after that ... | |
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Posted: 1/26/2006 9:21:27 AM | the way i did it:we made out for a good hour,then i started to rub her leg ever so gently and making my way up to her honeypot,which i knew was dripping wet,and slowly took her panties off(needless to say this is in complete darkness by the way)threw them in a corner and proceeded to tease her.i slowly sucked on her neck making my way down to her rock hard nipples begging to be "tongued tied"and as i slowly massaged them with my tongue her moans were growing louder and louder the closer i got because she new what was comin' next!as i made my way further south i new she wanted and wanted it bad becasue she was literally forcing my face onto her dripping **** and i did not hesistate,because with tongue out i literally dove right on in and i did not stop until my face was drenched with her love juices!!!one thing about eating her out is that i never ever got full!!!  | |
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Posted: 9/27/2006 9:41:10 PM | | everyone that has said to relax is RIGHT!!!! oh my goodness...what a feeling. breathing isnt a part of it and if it feels good...let him know....if it doesnt feel good...let him know. many guys also like when you watch them perform on you...it's sexy!! | |
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Posted: 9/27/2006 11:06:55 PM | | Seriously, this is soooooooooo normal! Yeah, really what do you do with something that you dont have?...how lucky are they?!!Just give us a****for a day and we'll figure it out! Unfortunately, it doesnt work like that.........Damnit, Santa Clause didn't give me what I wanted...musta been naughty....Worth it!!! Dont fret....Suck it like a lollipop....you know the ones you have to lick to get to the center....Trust me, I understand...give us one and then say.................Was it okay?! Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm?!! Hello...any "lips" are better than none! And for real....ask if it feels good...a little self conscience on my patr too!!! | |
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Posted: 9/28/2006 1:28:49 AM | (Tell him its time to eat Great even late lol im always open so cum on in lol) Hey dont even worry about it all u have to do is layback relax and let him do the work if u put out he should definitly be willing to put the same effort in u did for him, and hey u will love it, it is the most amazing feeling in the world at first it may shock u but just go with it moan a lil let him know u enjoy it. u may even like oral more then sex the feeling of having a guys tounge down there may scare u but the feeling is incrediable one a woman can never forget. Have fun and enjoy. Tell him its time to eat Great even late lol im always open so cum on in lol
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Posted: 9/28/2006 3:14:40 AM | For some guys, its the ultimate turn onto give oral (69 is my fave)
Nothing like causing a woman turn into jellylike quivering moaning mess
So, if he wants to do it, go for it hon and do whatever feels natural
An ex of mine used to gently put her hand behind my head and pull me close to kiss her and then gently push me 'downstairs'
That was a big turn on cos i Knew she wanted me to do it
Most of all, have fun | |
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Posted: 9/28/2006 3:30:35 AM | | well ... there is nothing not normal about it down there ... relax, hold on to his head and guide him to do whatever you want. Let him explore and enjoy the sweet juices of you ! ... | |
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Posted: 9/28/2006 7:14:43 AM | | Relax! Trust me on this one ...the main reason girls have a hard time with this is the whole anxiety thing of wondering if the guy is not enjoying it. He isn't going to be there if he isn't enjoying it so relax and enjoy it too. As for where you hands should be - wherever you want them to be. Sometimes I have them in his hair, sometimes they are on my chest, sometimes they are down there competing with his tongue and sometimes I get a guy who manages to put one arm up so I can link my fingers with his .....its all good as long as you enjoy yourself. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2006 7:19:41 AM | @OP:
just do as you go....your reactions naturally will take its course....if you think too much during it or be worrying or conscious of what you are doing every second you will NOT enjoy it or as much as you could....especially if it's your first time....you will have a tendancy to be thinking too much, is this working, is he suppose to be doing it that way, should I be moaning, am I wet enough, should I be touching him, and so on .......STOP!
just let it happen.....trust me....being a man who likes to give it more than sex most of the time my best advice is to just go with it, let him do his thing and you and your body will react accordinglyl, and if he knows what he is doing, he will react off of your reactions...that is how it is suppose to be done, you feed off each other, nothing has to be spoken or should be told, a man should feed off a womans reactions to do his thing.... :) ...once you have experienced it a few times you will know different ways to feel it, and show him certain ponts to hit that might hit the spot more, every woman is different...
just don't think during it, just "FEEL" | |
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Posted: 9/28/2006 7:51:53 AM | OP
When I know im going to be a bit nervous receiving oral I try to get in as much foreplay as possible first. Tell him you are a bit nervous. If he is any good he will understand this one and take his time relaxing you. Lots of soft touching, getting you to a relaxed fluid state will help tremedously.
A lil massage, caressing your body, inner thighs, running his hands thru your hair. Have a relaxed environment. Whatever works for you. Candles, fireplace, soft music etc. Sometimes having a drink together will help relax you. If its your fist time receiving oral then by all means set your environment to what feels good to you.
Dont worry about what to do with your hands, or if you should moan or not etc. When you are in the moment, your hands and what comes out of your mouth will be instinct. You will probably find yourself moaning and not even knowing you were going to do it. You will probably do something, anything with your hands without thinking first. Your body responds with the feeling , the hands go with the flow.
There is no wrong or right place to put your hands. Wherever feels good. On yourself, on him wherever.
You will always remember the first time, make it worth remembering
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/28/2006 9:14:05 AM | | there's nothing to worry about... don't be scared he's probably scared you don't know what your doing. he's not gonna hate you for trying | |
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Posted: 9/28/2006 11:50:22 AM | | get ur kitty soaped, scrubbed and licked and gently eaten like cone icecream... in sac area at coolhenry at cooltoad dot com | |
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Posted: 9/28/2006 1:40:09 PM | | i remember a comedian broke up the audience in laughter saying "the first time a woman has sex, she dosent have to be good -she just has to be there" | |
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Posted: 9/28/2006 4:12:22 PM | haha its funny because its true..
basically if youve never had oral performed on you basically just let go.. sit on the edge of the bed so he can kneel down and you can either lift your legs up or have them out on the sides and rest your legs on him while hes mastering the art of making your lil man in the canoe do the happy dance.
and dont be afraid of it.. also you mentioned breathing.. dont think about it.. your body will take over.. you will hold your breath when your about to cum because your body is thinking dear god im gonna explode.. then your brain will kick in and say BREATH.. but youll be fine.
Hopefully hes good at it and youll enjoy it for many many years to cum. | |
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