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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/28/2006 4:24:32 PM | | I didn't read all the posts, so this may have been covered: in my experience, men appreciate when a woman shaves down there, or at least trims real short. Prevents him from having to pick out of his mouth. Just a tip. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/29/2006 4:52:32 PM | Never?!?!?!?
Ahh...What a crime
Okay, first time...take a shower, or bath, clean up and stuff...shave if you shave it...make it all nice and shiny and smelling like...whatever smells good...we like that...
then lie on your back, spread you legs...and take a deep breath and say,
"If I don't cum, I'm going to give you a spanking."
lol...
ummm...if he knows what he is doing, you won't need to worry, but try and not crush his head with your thighs...it's not fun...for us...
as for your hands, do whatever feels right in the moment, my friend likes to grab her breasts, grab my hair, grab the headboard, the sheets, try and spread her clit up so she can have a better view, suck on her fingers....okay I'm getting carried away, why didn't someone stop me...Gosh!
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/29/2006 5:05:55 PM | Mmmmm.....Yum yum.....oral. I can understand you being apprehensive OP if you haven't 'been there' before. The feeling is so sensational that your body will automatically go with the flow. As for your hands? Massage your fingers through his hair, run your hands down the contours of his face, squeeze him to death (well maybe not to death, save that for afterwards), most importantly, don't allow your body to tense up,(unless it's from ecstacy), just relax and enjoy.   | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/29/2006 5:07:56 PM | gardennut.....Is this why people from other countries talk funny? Aarrk, got this pubic hair stuck in back of throat! | |
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Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 56 | |
| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/29/2006 7:40:53 PM | Oh ~Red~, please venture forth my way. : )~
I would rather eat red snapper anyday before eating hot dogs..........Yuck! | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/29/2006 7:53:40 PM | You have to be totally comfortable about who you are as a person before your body will allow you to achieve orgasms. (human sexualty 101)
Once you get to that level of comfort, trust me, you will know exactly what to do.
We have all been there "once". I too was shy, embarassed, and I was to preoccupied about the thoughts that go through a girls mind when a guy is going to go down on her for the first time.
You will think, should I have taken a shower just before he got here? I dont have that "just fresh feeling" or you may have finished your period two days before, and think, hmmm should I let him?
The answer is yes.... Just do it, relax, and enjoy it. The more relaxed you are the quicker you will achieve orgasm. His skill has alot to do with whether you reach orgasm, but ultimately it is entirely up to you if you want to let it happen. You have to allow your body to go, and dont think about anything else except how it feels. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/29/2006 8:01:55 PM | | Well sweetie we have all been there for the first time ever of giving or recieving oral. It can be wonderful, exciting, spectacular and sometimes even boring. Alot has to do with how you feel about yourself and if your comfortable with yourself. If your not shut off the lights lol actually tho sometimes that is better to maybe just have one small candle lit and shut off the lights and just lay back and enjoy let your hands do what they want to do and know that soon you will be giving him that erotic feeling also, when you go down on him. But breathing is important and some times im just to wound up and forget lol oh by the way a man who hums when he is sucking and licking that **** will be a godsend. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/29/2006 11:43:07 PM | well from a guy's perspective :
see its not the position thts goin to really set u up.. its the mood.. the ambience which is created by positive energy released in the right direction and in this case.. or any case involving sex.. its gotta be passion..
if you really engage ureself with passion and forget what the rest of the world.. and deeply look into his eyes before plantin a deep kiss and let him go down by signalling him with ur signature drive.. he shall do it right..
if its his first time its gona be sloppy but then again most ppl do it perfect even their first times.. so its gona be hard to say.. but dont have ur oral with an instruction list in ur mind or else it will feel like makin love to a robot
and yeah just dont gush on his face .. i mean u dont wna give him a hot facial right of the bat... | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/30/2006 6:41:41 AM | | Ok the skull craker comment almost had me rolling on the floor in tears and laughter. It sometimes is hard not to slam those knees together, but yes in full agreement with practically everyone, lay back, relax, breath, do what feels natural ( besides closing knees), comunicate, and enjoy. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/30/2006 7:46:52 AM | | LoL .. this may be off topic , but here is one really , really funny story about my past oral sex things ... This guy I had met about 1 year ago ( not off POF ) , we met at a local club . He was totally sweet , brung me flowers , candy , the whole nine yards .. He had a good sence of humor , and loved kids , which for me is a great thing since I have 2 boys .. We got along great , and around our 5th date , we went on to the next level ... Ok so now here is the funny part ... I never questioned him on how many sexual partners he had been with , and he never ask me . So we are in the bed , and I go down on him , and whatever , and now it's his turn ... He goes down on me , and before he puts his tongue even close to me , he raises up and ask me , I can't like get your pregnant if I do this can I ? I busted out laughing , and jumped out of bed , and said Are you a virgin ? He said no , but I never did have oral sex with anyone , so I did what most anyone would do , I told him that you couldent get pregnant by having oral sex , but he had to stay down there atleast 30 minutes , for me to get the full enjoyment out of it lol ... He did , and I do belive that I took his virginity that night too , by far the best oral sex I had ever had , just because I could tell him exactly what to do , and not feel bad about it ... LOL Hey us girls can have a little " player " in us too ... LOL | |
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Joined: 9/6/2006
Msg: 62 | |
| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/30/2006 9:22:26 AM | As others have said, relax and enjoy. Do talk to him - let him know what you like, where, ect. Many guys are into a woman talking dirty, don't be shy and try it out, you'll know if he likes it or not right away. 
Have fun and enjoy.
Sam | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/30/2006 9:39:24 AM | | or as I do, flail arms around wildly ............. lmao god thats funny i can just picture this in my mind lol thanks RED~FIRE for the laugh i needed it | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/30/2006 7:37:00 PM | FIRST !!! sweetie,...be Squeaky Clean, inside and out.... then RELAX & Enjoy,...follow your insticnts, , communicate! verbal and in touch...... *sigh* cheers!      | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/30/2006 8:25:26 PM | Until my last relastionship, the awkwardness of it just wasn't worth it. Boy, did he change my view on that. :) This is something that is better to do with someone you really trust, because (at least I think) it's more involved than regular sex, as far as making the most of it. If they are doing something down there that makes you want to laugh or cry instead of O, then you need to be able to say so.
Depending on where he puts his hands, you can hold one or both. Adds a little more sensuality to it. ;) Good luck! | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/1/2006 11:28:51 AM | | yes just relax and let it flow.... as my friend says the more that comes out the better... being comfortable and trusting of the person your with is so important to enjoy the moment to its fullest.... relax and have fun it is the best experience my personal fav | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/1/2006 11:42:39 AM | I suggest you rent my how to video kiddin. From a guy's point of view...lightly massaging his head and gently riding his face shows you're enjoying it. I love to look up into her eyes while I'm teasing her with my tongue and lips and fingers and toys and oopps.
Playing with your breasts. I had a girlfriend that fingered her ***hole while I did her mmmm!
You can massage your clit too while he;s tonguing you ****! Ahh rent the video. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/4/2006 9:48:23 AM | About what innana said yes I do believe it is more sensual and intence then regular sex well it is for me any how I really love to satisfy the woman that I am with and look up[ at her as my tounge penetrates into her swirlling around feeling her body tighten and circum to her orgasim .
ok I read about preforming oral then kissing some said yes some said no but here is my question for you all oral after sexual penetration ? | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/4/2006 10:24:59 AM | | Well OP I think that you can see by what has been posted that this can be a fun and enjoyable experience for you. Just try to go into it relaxed and happy with the thought that you will have the experience that you have been waiting for. You will have a wonderful enjoyable orgasm - allow it to go it's full course and don't hold back. You are allowed to have fun with it, so just let it be as it should. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/4/2006 10:35:38 AM | I'm sure the ladies here have given you ample encouragement to go ahead and let him open those legs, part your lips, and stimulate you with his tongue and mouth. You won't regret it and most women love oral sex as much as men do. Some don't.
I was fortunate to gain this knowledge at an early age in college, where I dated a lady that was BI. She was very open about her sexuality and willing guided me thru the process to where to stimulate, how to probe and flick, and use licking and sucking abundantly. We had a few sessions before I was able to acheive what I would call a passing grade, but she was very instrumental in my sex education of eating my lady.
I also like it sloppy and wet. As far as the question about after penetration or not... I enjoy it all ways. Oral sex stimulates me when I perform and floods huge amounts of blood to my erection. I prefer to let her have the first .. then we can decide on how we do penetration or which position feels best. While I am at the feast, I want to stay till the dessert cums. Finding her aroused to a fever pitch. squirming, moaning, yelling F*** words at you while she grinds her fingers into your head, pushing you into her crotch as she is definately working towards her release is always an erotic and sensual experience. My experience has been that you will reep enormous amounts of rewards from her. I wonderful experience not to be missed. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/4/2006 10:51:47 AM | | One thing guys hate is when the guy is down there and when you orgasm you slap your legs together and hit the guys ears with your thighs and create a suction in his ears which pops them. That HURTS!! I dont know how much this happens to guys but my gf does it sometimes and I have to keep warning her about this. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/4/2006 11:18:02 AM | I didnt read all the posts,,,just wayyyyy too many! lol So,,,if i sound like a broken record,,oops! But then again,,,each woman is different in how they react to getting oral. ;)
First off,,personally,,i like to put a pillow under my butt to elivate (sp?) my hips. I find that for me,,,it heightens my pleasure that much more rather than leaving my feet flat on the bed. Close your eyes,,,,take a deep breath,,and just concentrate on the sensations. You dont need to pretend you're a porn star and wiggle all over the place if it doesnt feel right in doing so. lol If he happens to be in a spot that just isnt quite doing it for you,,,move your hips a lil till he has your spot (thats another thing the pillow is good for,,,its easier to rock and move your hips where you want them ) Dont hold back on moaning or sighing if it feels good. Men love it when they know they are in the rightttttt spot. Personally,,ive never had the urge to squeeze my legs , but the urge to lift my hips higher and grind into his face gets overwhelming, so if that urge hits,,go with it. lol As far as your hands,,,just do what you feel is natural. Keep them on the bed,,,,caress his hair,,,put them behind your thighs, rub your nipples if thats your thing, whatever feels natural. Once you start to feel that build up and it starts to intensify,,its very important that he knows to STAY PUT lol, but i think at that point,,your rapid heavy breathing and moans will tell him that. lol
Wow,,,how wonderful for you! Have fun!
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/4/2006 11:55:17 AM | | its really fun when my old boyufriend did it to me he did it so good my leg started shaking and that was the first time i had it done to me so i didnt know what to do with my hands so i just waited and it felt so good i had to put my hands on his head and he told me he was wait ing for me to do that so some guys like it when you put your hand on their head just dont push done to hard or they might get mad | |
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