| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/4/2006 11:58:00 AM | ooo k I have a question of my own. I love giving my boyfriend oral, it turns me on almost as much as it turns him on. When we first got together I did it all the time, and he never... went down on me. So then I asked him if he didn't like doing it, or if there was something wrong with me, and he said no, I just never seemed to want it. So now he tries to do it all the time and I'm scared to let him cause I'm all paranoid that something is wrong with me... I know there's nothing wrong with me, and I'm very clean... so how do I get over this? | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/4/2006 12:21:36 PM | OP - I'm so glad you came here to ask this question because you are getting some fabulous advice. The MAIN points I agree with are to relax, be clean and enjoy yourself. Here is a suggestion on how to do that.
1. Do take that relaxing bath that was mentioned, to calm yourself and get clean.
2. DON'T over perfume your body with bubble bath, lotions, powders, and cologne. The poor guy will choke to death.
3. Do sip a glass of wine while bathing to further relax you.
4. Set the mood. Candles, soft music and no distractions like phones, dogs or TVs.
5. Remind him that you've not done this before and that you are a little nervous. This will help him to remember what his role is. Get all your questions out of the way before you begin. Ask him what he would like you to do. Then follow his instructions. If he say "just lye there and relax" then do it. If he say "I would like you to touch my hair"...then do that.
6. But once the lovin begins...RELAX and let your body (and more importantly your MIND) enjoy the experience.
You cannot enjoy this is you are thinking about all the things you need to do or want to do or need to ask.
Girl, this is THE best part of making love. And once you have been initiated and have reached your comfort level...graduate to the big girl class and do each other at the same time. Yes, 69! YOUR pleasure will be intensified if you 'get' while you are 'giving'. I guarantee it.  | |
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Joined: 7/18/2006
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/4/2006 4:46:16 PM | | ur legs will spread open and a sucktion like mouth will emerge from ur vagina, swallowing this mans head and leaving him as just a stump. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/4/2006 4:48:53 PM | let them frail away, rub yourself where ever you can, grab his face and make sure he hits it right and if that don't work then yell at the mofo  | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/4/2006 6:07:42 PM | Wow..your first time. Ummm, you might get to that point where you may "squirt" (a entirely different topic). In any event, unless this guy knows exactly what he's doing - prepare to be disappointed. Unfortunately, you will have to guide him on how to flicker his tounge, movement (ie. slow, fast, etc). It is indeed a tidious process, however, once he masters it or learns your body well enough- you will have no problem in achieving a mind blowing orgasm.
Good Luck! | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/5/2006 11:48:56 AM | Tetra,
If you slapped my head I would flip you over and spank your bottom! Of course, you would have no need to slap me...
One of the most intimate things you can do (IMHO) is hold his hand while he is down there. Very erotic and intimate and sexy.  | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/7/2006 2:47:20 PM | If he is doing it wrong and you get bored, drum your fingers on the nightstand. He will hear it and get the hint.
Hilarious!! | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/7/2006 3:01:29 PM | | If he's really good at it; You will be the one having the breathing promblems not him!!! | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/7/2006 3:32:57 PM | | OP: try not to think about it too much, just relax and go with the 'flow'. I bet you won't even have time to think about anything...enjoy! | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/7/2006 3:39:22 PM | you won't have to worry about what to do. When it happens, you will respond automatically. The power of lust and passion is mother natures way of taking charge. If he is good and knows what he is doing, then you will know what you have been missing.
Nothing better than making up for lost time eh???
I truly hope you enjoy every second of it. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/13/2006 8:02:30 AM | | Honey you are going to love it. Sit back and enjoy it. Just run you hands through his hair. Apparently men love that. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/13/2006 9:21:08 AM | yes what they said, tell buddy what feels good and bad. You are the teacher, if you do not instruct he will fail and you will not be eaten out 'properly' | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/13/2006 10:09:09 AM | ok on a serious note here a couple things to think of before u play maybe put a towel down before u start incase things get a little messy on your 200 dollar sheets definatley have a shower or better yet a bath before u play and while bathing considder all that hair down there atleast trim it neatly even shave if u like the less hair down there the hapier he will usually be unleass he has a hair fettish best to find out first nothing worse than a nose full of hair i think oh ya and unplug the phone nothing worse than having him make u cum while your talking to your mom on the phone
if things get going really good get him to put s finger inside u and rub the upper side inside right inder your clit u will love it he he
enjoys and have fun
good luck | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/13/2006 10:18:04 AM | sit back and enjoy...
and if he hits the right spot! let him know...
other than that... no other answer... | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/13/2006 10:25:45 AM | omg, the first time anyone has performed oral on me it felt great.........his warm tongue going up and down, just roaming around. when he first started sucking on me it felt as if he was sucking the life right out of me. it felt weird but i rather enjoyed it very much........
damn it! i really do miss that
but like  says, just take a seat, kick back, relax, and enjoy the ride | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/13/2006 1:26:46 PM | yuck!!!!! icy that is so discusting..............do you stick your finger up your ass and lick it? | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/13/2006 1:40:03 PM | no, i heard that some people do enjoy that, i for one would never do that, not even if i had a gun to my head. i'm sorry, that's entirely out of the ball park. when you said that, i was thinking that you were one of those guys. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/13/2006 2:20:02 PM | i'm just laughing at what ever one said.....
so its quite obvious wot to do....
1...relax.....
2... do not squash his face with thighs...
3...hands where evers comfy for you
4... wash the tallulla
and finally...
ENJOY YOUR SELF........ 
Oh u might wanna change the numbers around.... | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/15/2006 4:22:25 PM | or even better:
run a bath
get init with him
let him go first
then show him how good it was! | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/15/2006 4:26:54 PM | | The best thing you can do for a guy is let him know how much you like it or don't like it. Be honest. If he is doing it right you will absolutely enjoy yourself. Buck your hips gently into him and moan in accordance to what he is doing. Other than that just keep taking in air and letting it out in moans long ohhhhhhs or whatever. | |
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