| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/15/2006 4:28:14 PM | | He is the one with thee issue. Try doing the 69 thing. Tell him if he wants some he should have to give some up. Just let him up for air every so often. | |
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| My embarressing oral question--UPDATE
Posted: 10/15/2006 7:06:06 PM | | ok, it's been forever since I posted that question! I can't believe it got brought back up! Anyway, yes, I finally had my first(and a few more)time, and I do believe that the first is the best. No, I didn 't have an orgasm, and still haven't. For some reason I can't relax. I'll definitly be working on that issue! Well, hard to work on it when you're single, but oh well... Anyway, thanks all for the advice. It was very helpful! I hope it helped some others too! | |
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| My embarressing oral question--UPDATE
Posted: 10/15/2006 10:34:09 PM | Papillongirl, glad you've had your 1st and a few more times. Read all the replies. One other person mentioned the one thing that I have to have included to make me cum. (He lives close to me so maybe I should contact him. LOL!!) After things get heated up if the man inserts his finger in my pu$$y i'm done for. My insides come flooding out. I usually ask a guy if can swim. They laugh until see it happen. I have a plastic sheet on my mattress. Until find out what your body will do might want to keep a towel handy.
You mentioned single again. It took getting my 1st vibrator to show me I could just let my body lose to feel everything. If getting one but afraid of the "dick" look try an vibrating egg. (approx $15) Some men don't mind these either. Had a bf that thought was great to take turns using one pressed against certain bodyparts. If want to blow your mind try a vibrator with the animal on side and rotating beads on the base. More expensive but worth every penny.
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/16/2006 7:06:12 AM | | I have some experience with this, though Im not a woman. Some women just lie there and receive, they sort of freeze up and stiffen. Its best not to do that. First of all, give some feedback, every woman is built differently, so tell the man what is working and what isnt, what you like, etc. You might like him to insert some fingers or you might hold and guide his head, etc., so dont be afraid to be active. Some women will open or close their labia and even alternate as they are slightly different experiences. If he is listening to your responses, it should be very pleasureable but by all means, make it a two way street and actively participate in it, dont do the statue thing .... | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/16/2006 7:21:36 AM | I think your not having an orgasm because your not comfortable with yourself maybe? If this helps you, guys do not care what it looks like as long as its clean! just enjoy it.
Can you reach orgasm manualy doing it yourself? | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/16/2006 7:32:25 AM | | just lay back and enjoy it... its all have to do .. thre is nothing dirty or wrong or embarrassing... i love giving more than taking so couldnt be with a girl that didnt enjoy it... ifhe wants to do it then really just enjoy the orgasm and dont et him stopnuntil you do .. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/17/2006 8:48:42 AM | I have an interesting oral question....never had this one prior....
Anyone ever been licking the lollipop and it had a lemon, kinda bitter, sour taste?
Should I be mouth washing with bleach?
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/17/2006 6:18:34 PM | Pap, the main thing is keep that putty tat clean, soak that thang girl. A girl has to stay clean and fresh. Dip those fingers and taste for yourself, if you taste good he will eat you up and you will enjoy every last minute of it.  | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 11/8/2006 1:49:59 PM | | Just relax and enjoy it... your body will react to it all by itself... you're not going to have to put on some show. When he does something you like, let him know. And you are normal down south. Just relax and have fun. Getting yourself all worked up about the wrong way isnt going to help you. You dont know what you're missing so go to it! Have fun!! | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 11/8/2006 2:01:05 PM | | Just relax and enjoy it. Just don't get embarrassed if you are so relaxed that you let one rip and you see his ears flappin' in the breeze. It is all normal. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 11/8/2006 4:30:25 PM | As long as I have a face, women will always have a place to sit =)
...oh and don't forget to make sure he is wearing his Pvssy Snorkel
(http://www.p ussysnorkel.com/facts.htm - take out the space)
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 11/10/2006 1:32:38 AM | AT THE BEGINNING :
- Relax your whole body...in fact, relax your mind. Try not to think of it as some sort of task that is about to be done. Think of it for what it is : something new and exciting.
- If he is skilled, he will make his way down there and you will be pushing him down there bc the foreplay beforehand is THAAAATTTTT good.
ONCE HE'S THERE :
- The best thing about oral sex is the first feel of the wet, very warm tongue down there....you will feel his hot breathing, his nice powerful arms just basically all over your thighs to position you nicely...
- So, naturally, your body will somewhat arch....run your hands through his hair, or even play with your breasts as one poster said on here. If not, I like to hold onto the sheets or even put my hands over my head, to hold onto the bed posts, or the pillows etc.
WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO FEEL ( IF HE'S DOING IT RIGHT ) :
- You will seriously start to feel your breasts and chest heaving faster and deeper bc of the sensation that is building up down there....
- You will probably start to arch more bc you are scared that if you just let it go, you will JUST SERIOUSLY GO OUT OF YOUR MIND
- Your hands and legs will do things that are just uncontrollable...your legs could quiver and tense up a bit, your hands will be grasping harder at the sheets or his hair, his neck, his shoulders, your breasts....
- You will find that your inner thighs are working themselves to grasp him harder
- You will start to seriously moan and even " cry " a little bit
WHEN YOU'RE HITTING THE BIG " O " :
- He will sense it...and guess what, HE WON'T WANT TO LET YOU GO. He will clamp down harder with his strong arms and biceps to hold you thighs down...his tongue will get faster and harder, almost like lapping and sucking hard.
- You will start to want to push him away bc the pleasurable sensation is just damn too much.
- You will find that you're almost sitting up and basically begging him to stop but you can't understand as to why you're pushing your hips harder towards him
WHEN YOU GET " THERE " :
- You will be so surprised to find that you're either sitting up, or on your knees ( holding onto his head for dear life ) or even standing up, or even off the bed, or him on the floor, bc you kicked him so hard during the big " O " without realizing that you did so. IN other words, the room will look like it was hit by a tornado, and you were so unaware of it, bc simply....YOU HAD THE BIGGEST ORGASM OF YOUR LIFE.  | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 11/10/2006 2:09:07 AM | | It all depends on if he does it right...they usually don't and you'll be somewhat bored. But if he does it right...well, you'll know! | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 11/10/2006 12:12:40 PM | | wow....great answer cutie :) hahahah i think that could have been the best reading material i have checked out in awhile :D i'm now a fan of your writting skills babe.....heres to a future author ;) | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 11/10/2006 12:43:09 PM | | I don't think there's a guy on this planet that doesn't "think" he's the best there's ever been at lacing that button, HOWEVER for him to be the best for you............you have to train him right up front on where it is for you, if he doesn't pay attention slap him up side the head, in doing so you may just move him to that jusssssst right spot. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 11/11/2006 12:50:18 PM | | If your lover does a good job, you're bound to start bouncing on the bed, moaning as you have a rocking orgasm... and you're bound to pull his head into your body so hard that he'll be gasping for air. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 11/11/2006 3:16:14 PM | | Hmm. I've yet to take a lover, but when I do, I think I'd like be a bit silly and maybe give him a piece of chocolate or some type of candy as a little surprise treat. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 11/11/2006 4:52:11 PM | | It sounds like you have a very loving good man there. Sweetie, just lay back relax and enjoy! | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 11/13/2006 1:02:32 AM | AT THE BEGINNING :
- Relax your whole body...in fact, relax your mind. Try not to think of it as some sort of task that is about to be done. Think of it for what it is : something new and exciting.
- If he is skilled, he will make his way down there and you will be pushing him down there bc the foreplay beforehand is THAAAATTTTT good.
ONCE HE'S THERE :
- The best thing about oral sex is the first feel of the wet, very warm tongue down there....you will feel his hot breathing, his nice powerful arms just basically all over your thighs to position you nicely...
- So, naturally, your body will somewhat arch....run your hands through his hair, or even play with your breasts as one poster said on here. If not, I like to hold onto the sheets or even put my hands over my head, to hold onto the bed posts, or the pillows etc.
WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO FEEL ( IF HE'S DOING IT RIGHT ) :
- You will seriously start to feel your breasts and chest heaving faster and deeper bc of the sensation that is building up down there....
- You will probably start to arch more bc you are scared that if you just let it go, you will JUST SERIOUSLY GO OUT OF YOUR MIND
- Your hands and legs will do things that are just uncontrollable...your legs could quiver and tense up a bit, your hands will be grasping harder at the sheets or his hair, his neck, his shoulders, your breasts....
- You will find that your inner thighs are working themselves to grasp him harder
- You will start to seriously moan and even " cry " a little bit
WHEN YOU'RE HITTING THE BIG " O " :
- He will sense it...and guess what, HE WON'T WANT TO LET YOU GO. He will clamp down harder with his strong arms and biceps to hold you thighs down...his tongue will get faster and harder, almost like lapping and sucking hard.
- You will start to want to push him away bc the pleasurable sensation is just damn too much.
- You will find that you're almost sitting up and basically begging him to stop but you can't understand as to why you're pushing your hips harder towards him
WHEN YOU GET " THERE " :
- You will be so surprised to find that you're either sitting up, or on your knees ( holding onto his head for dear life ) or even standing up, or even off the bed, or him on the floor, bc you kicked him so hard during the big " O " without realizing that you did so. IN other words, the room will look like it was hit by a tornado, and you were so unaware of it, bc simply....YOU HAD THE BIGGEST ORGASM OF YOUR LIFE.
sounds like she's never done this before....whew....I need a cigarette after reading all that | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 11/13/2006 8:12:55 AM | | i have found this out from me doing it to women if you are doing 69 or if you sit on his face dont forget to lift up once in a while so us men can get a breath yes we love it and yes it is a turn on but we need to breeth to lol its all good | |
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Joined: 11/25/2006
Msg: 124 | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 12/5/2006 2:53:58 PM | | Oh my god are you in for a treat! Just relax and don't be nervous. If you can't relax, you probably won't orgasm. Just let him to the work. Enjoy!!! (Make sure he gets some in return though) | |
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