DStarz
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Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 126 | |
| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 12/5/2006 2:54:25 PM | Aww Gurl..Just lay back and enjoy but most importantly Warn him ahead of time...When you say stop.....DON'T!!!!
Whatever you do will come naturally...Because if he's doing it right...Your not thinking gurl...Just try to remember to Breathe..lol...Have Fun! | |
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BlueJC
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Joined: 10/31/2006
Msg: 127 | |
| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 12/5/2006 7:13:20 PM | | Oral is definately one of my favorite things to do, I would drop anything for it and not even care if I get it back. Ladies, let go of the ears after a while, it really hurts after a few minutes. Guys love to get feedback too so let us know what's up, sorry if someone else posted that earlier I did'nt read every single message. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 12/6/2006 11:48:37 AM | | Yes Yes Yes The skull cracker!!!!!! please make sure if you are using the thigh master please release his head or you will be calling 911 for your new found oral friend | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 12/6/2006 12:10:27 PM | You should set up a cam, and actually have a record of this!
Then you can share it with all your good friends here at POF, and they can see if you took their suggestions or not.
Imagine being 90, and looking back at your home movies, sharing that Kodak moment with your kids, grand kids and great great grand kids!
Who wants to watch grammy get her koochie licked for the 1st time?
I DO I DO!!!
L. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 12/6/2006 1:28:32 PM | | I just thought I'd ask if you loved it or would have loved it if, he were good at it.I know I don't just like doing that to a woman I absolutely love doing it she ussually gets tired of me being down there and, asks me to come up on her before I will ever get tired of it.I would also like to know if women love it or, not. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 12/6/2006 5:18:52 PM | | sweets.... lay back n think of england or wherever it is you're from hehe think of it as a special massage and it's all for u cos you;ve earn't it hahaha and whatever u do relax and have fun :) xx | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/26/2007 7:18:13 PM | Ok *blush* I've never been given oral sex. Never had a guy interested in doing so to me. Now I have someone who wants to do so, and I am excited/terriffied/scared, and a whole other range of emotions. So, my question is, what the hell happens? Well, besides the obvious, like, what do I do with my hands, and what's my body going to do. What if I'm not normal down there? (he says I am beautiful there). Is my body gonna make/do weird things? Help.....can any other woman tell me what happend the first time they had a man go down on them?
Seeing you've never had oral performed on you before it's probably not going to do whole lot for you until you become comfortable with it. As time goes on and you begin to relax it will get better. Some women get a bit tense the first time a guy goes down on them, so it's going to take some time. If the guy is hitting a spot that's pleasurable to you don't be afraid to tell him. Sometimes it takes a little guidance to know what feels good to a particular person, so your feed back is important. Not all women are the same. As for your hands you can run them through his hair or take hold of his head and pull him into you and guide him that way. You can also massage your breasts as he's performing on you or you can get him to reach up and fondle them. These are all things that will add to your enjoyment. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/26/2007 8:29:56 PM | The first time..
Basically he goes down there expecting to taste vanilla pudding. But because you haven't learned to exercise fine motor control over your organs down there, you might pee all over his face or discharge a viscous fluid that won't wash off his face. And if he has any facial hair, it'll probably leave a rash the first time because your skin isn't used to it.
Just let him do his thing and enjoy the ride. Best wishes! | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/26/2007 10:28:27 PM | Red Fire...lol
I was going to reply to this but after reading all your replies I can't stop laughing long enough to type and remember what I was going to say.. | |
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Posted: 1/26/2007 10:32:25 PM | Red Fire...lol
I was going to reply to this but after reading all your replies I can't stop laughing long enough to remember what I was going to say.. | |
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K-lo
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Joined: 7/31/2006
Msg: 138 | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/27/2007 12:37:01 AM | | op, i did not read all the posts but how many guys have you been with? if it is more than 5 or so and NONE of them wanted to give you oral, chances are you have something wrong. i alsways give a girl the finger test before i give oral. if i smell my fingers and they stink, i aint goin there. are you smelly? are you exceptionally hairy and untrimmed? if hair goes from your belly button all the way back to your ass you need to trim. that is a turn off. these are just 2 reasons a guy might not. but some guys also have fetishes for this and maybe you found your guy. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 12:32:10 PM | HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAAAAAAAA!!! ROFLMFAO!!!
I never laughed so hard in my life! You poor bugger, whoever did that to ya musta had some awesome thighs!
regarding the embarrassing oral question....
Just gotta go with the flow! I like it best in 69, but to each his own. You gotta just feel it and run with it. If you are lucky, then you will have one of the best O's in your life! | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 12:36:23 PM | | Actually my first reply was regarding a reply that was made by musicmanpvb on Dec 14/05. He speaks of the 'thighcracker'. Quite funny! | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/28/2007 1:26:46 PM | Besides letting yourself enjoy it...as everyone else has stated....don't forget to communicate to your partner. Telll him it feels good...great....tell him that he is right on the spot....slow or fast....soft or hard....and don't worry....if you communicate and you like it (and please show that you like it)....he will love to pleasure you again...
Just my 2 cents... | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 2:03:33 PM | I haven't had oral sex either.
Not worrying about it is easier said than done, as an early poster mentioned.
Communicating is important, as always. To not communicate is to love a lover's body, not the lover.
The entire joy of it is that, physically, the pleasure is all for you... If that doesn't freak you out in the good way, you are underestimating the wonders that await you.
This is a relative hypocrite's view, albeit one which is founded in personal thought and rumination.
~ David | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/31/2007 11:22:57 PM | | I don't know for sure if I appreciate so much if a woman is shaved, but can say this, she sure knows how to get my most undevided attention if she has that comfort level. I'm not sure if it's trendy as in photo fun, I'm trying to think of a way to say this without sounding like I think I know everything, because I don't, sometimes the less you know is when you have the most fun, but I admit being a total stoop as to the picking something out of the mouth part. I think it's vary sexy if a woman is shaved, I feel the same about a woman who is not, I'm laughing now, but I will take the shaved Gal anywhere she want's to go, why is that? | |
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smyllz
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Joined: 11/1/2006
Msg: 146 | |
| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 2/1/2007 12:13:52 PM | OP: I was nervous my first time too....thought all the same things as you.....my guy at the time made me a promise, though, that made me feel better. He said that he would do it and if/when I wanted him to stop all I had to do was say so and he would (obvious, I know, but it reassured me)....I didn't tell him to stop
just go with the flow!
make sure you take care of the "maintenance" down there and then just relax | |
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Posted: 2/1/2007 1:29:37 PM | aaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh the first time.... Let's see... that was a while ago but I remember it like it was yesterday...
I didn't know what he was doing... Kissing my thighs, I nearly kneed him in the face! I'm ticklish after all. But when he began going deeper to the sweet soft spot, I was surprised! I started squirming and asked him what he was doing... (Laughing now) He said just relax and penetrated me with his tongue. Holy Crap!!!! Skull cracker technique came naturally as did I!
Awesome! | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 2/1/2007 10:30:45 PM | Papilliongirl posted:
One other thing that you need to learn (and a LOT of older ladies with LOTS more experience should as well) is that some men actually PREFER a woman that doesn't look like Barbie and find curves to be just fine and dandy. I count myself in this group. We want a woman that looks and feels like a woman - not some skinny little boy with no butt and artificial boobs. Just my 2 cents worth. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 2/1/2007 11:43:53 PM | ^^^^
Right you are Cotton...curves are kickin'...
One way to know if she has the body of an 8 year old boy (vomit) is the neck, if I can see her veins and Arteries protruding from her neck...she's too skinny, I like to just see the skin, no veins bones popping out anywhere...And I hate it when you can see her rib cage and breast plates as she stands up straight...just too gross looking, no offence to anyone, but just a preference.
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jg65
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Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 150 | |
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