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 TRACIELEE

Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 151
My embarressing oral question
Posted: 8/30/2007 1:53:59 AM
grab his head put it right where it belongs lay back and enoy the ride......but..... dont be scared to tell him if hes doing it to hard or to soft its all about your enjoyment
 Anazdaddy

Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 152
My embarressing oral question
Posted: 8/30/2007 6:49:22 AM
I wonder if in the nearly two years since the OP started this thread, if she has recieved and given oral..and if she used any of the tips. I hope she had great experiences and used some of these tips if she did! I am a guy who prefers to give oral over recieve..always will..but as far as giving oral to a guy..my advice..use some hand stim at the same time. My advice to her for recieving it..JUST ENJOY IT and not worry about what you look, smell, taste like, etc..just let the guy enjoy doing that for you!
 Heavenly_Carly

Joined: 6/14/2006
Msg: 153
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Posted: 8/30/2007 8:06:17 AM
Well... hun, you WILL enjoy it!!!

So for what to do with your hand and what not, I usually start playing with my nipples and then work my way down to his harr, and to the back of his head, pulling him more into me. He loves that. As well when i'm cumming, i don't cross my legs but i tend to close my legs a bit, give his head a little squeeze with my thighs...

Just wait till to progress to the ever fab 69 and riding his face
 wodehousefan2

Joined: 9/12/2007
Msg: 154
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Posted: 9/22/2007 8:48:40 AM
lay back and enjoy it and you will see what happens.
 leggymaturemom

Joined: 3/26/2008
Msg: 155
My embarressing oral question
Posted: 8/1/2008 2:27:36 AM
m ejoy the experience of it all

and the first time will or shoudl be great experience. If he has asked you then he should be god at it
going down on him could be the best time of your life
i remeber my first proper reciving and was WOW
and my first bj of an older lad at school !!!!!!!!!!! wow
carolex
 Sylvilagus

Joined: 4/14/2004
Msg: 156
My embarressing oral question
Posted: 8/3/2008 1:05:06 PM
Please, please just don't so like my ex used to do to me and slap him in the back of the head when you've had enough.

After she's climax, she'd *whapwhapwhapwhapwhapwhap* on my head as her' signal' that she was "done" with that and wanted something different.

Regards,
Rabbit.
 ThymeKiller

Joined: 2/1/2008
Msg: 157
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Posted: 8/3/2008 1:11:46 PM

whapwhapwhapwhapwhapwhap


The visual is killing me lolololol I just spit out my tea. you silly rabbit!
 Sylvilagus

Joined: 4/14/2004
Msg: 158
My embarressing oral question
Posted: 8/3/2008 9:42:10 PM
Trust me, it was much more than a 'visual cue'.

Regards,
Rabbit.
 Ignoble

Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 159
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Posted: 8/3/2008 9:44:20 PM
RE: First post....

It's not like he's going to bite you... hard anyways... it's not like you're letting an angry wolf loose on your muff.
 heavysoul

Joined: 6/13/2008
Msg: 160
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Posted: 8/3/2008 10:40:19 PM
aw, come on, really? what to do with your hands?? just improvise.

clearly there are not enough women watching porn.
 DOne12222

Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 161
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Posted: 9/11/2008 3:49:40 PM
Ask him to tongue your donut if you are feeling bored, this will definately spark a much better effort...
 jackster121

Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 162
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Posted: 9/11/2008 4:14:42 PM
Just lay back and your body will take over. Cocentrate on the sensations and if he does it right, You will have one of those "OH MY GOD" moments. Oh, and don't be shy about kissing him afterwards either. Men love that.
 JusTME723

Joined: 8/29/2008
Msg: 163
My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/11/2008 4:44:33 PM
MMMMMMM Just Lay There and Enjoy.....You will be mad you have been missing out this long
 Pleasurelimits

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 164
My embarressing oral question
Posted: 9/11/2008 5:05:38 PM
All will flow naturally however I do have one important suggestion as this is your first time and if you arrive at the big 'O' while getting oral for the first time you dont want to be 69'ing and have an involuntary bite reflex. So, just let him get on with his meal and direct your enjoyment by directing your lover, enjoy, One of gods great gifts to man is enabling them to learn to breath through their ears.
 Sepia777

Joined: 2/26/2008
Msg: 165
My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/9/2008 5:03:45 PM
Congrats on finding a man who cares about YOUR pleasure as well as his.....
My advice...you may want to invest in soundproofing for the walls because if he is talented you may become unhinged and screech like a banshee...LOL

what do you do with your hands.. ? again if he is a talent you will involuntarily grab hold of his ears, growling and gnashing your teeth holding his face down there spouting vile obscenities ..lol

Really don't stress and try to so hard to focus on how you "should" re-act.. just be in the moment because most of it is instinctual anyway .. communication with your partner will be a big help to you as well.... you're not doing this alone....lol
 anna033

Joined: 9/17/2008
Msg: 166
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Posted: 10/9/2008 5:20:44 PM
its wyrd!!!!!!!!!!!!!, its like , eww, wyrd. youve gotta hope he knows what hes doing cos, eww. um, hopefully youll get off, you know what thats like right.... and as far as your hands go, do a 69 sideways so you can erm, get a good grip on the situation lol
 brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008
Msg: 167
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Posted: 10/9/2008 6:14:44 PM
This is a cute thread...just relax..it'll all cum naturally! (if he does it right)
 newlysingle64

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 168
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Posted: 10/9/2008 10:13:22 PM
heavysoul, you are my kida woman!
 KitaMami

Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 169
My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/9/2008 10:23:17 PM
Try not to crawl off the bed and enjoy!
 corindan

Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 170
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Posted: 10/10/2008 12:56:06 AM
Once he gets started-if he does it right-you are going to be too happy to worry about such things then. Just relax, and let what happens happen.
 lovelookingatmen

Joined: 2/20/2008
Msg: 171
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Posted: 10/10/2008 12:59:47 AM
Dont be embarressed , you should know your not the only one , but hey... if and when you partake. Fill me in cuz im scared shitless about that.
 rossal

Joined: 12/5/2005
Msg: 172
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Posted: 10/10/2008 5:56:45 AM
It is amazing.....(for me) much more intense than intercourse.....the orgasm is excruciatingly unbelievably mind-blowing.......takes me to the moon and back.
 sleepsafe

Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 173
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Posted: 10/10/2008 11:51:28 AM
Well. if it feels good tell him. Moan and groan. Place your hands on his head and encourage him to go where it feels the best. Be sure and scream "Oh God I'm Cumming" at the appropriate time. Rember how great it felt when you are returning the favor. Repeat. Expect some finger action while he is down there. Enjoy yourself. He loves doing it, like most men or he wouldn't be there. You are welcome.
 boredwithpgh

Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 174
My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/10/2008 2:17:07 PM
You're perfectly fine for asking that. First.. little piece of advice.. make sure everything is trimmed or shave. If I'm intimate with someone in that manner... I like to go in the shower ahead of time. Plus, the other way around.. I think that's polite.
Further.. Not sure if you have any adult toys... Though start to stimulate yourself.. and while he is doing that.. perhaps use the toy.
Make sure to relax... Every woman has a different style or technique that she likes.. Just relax... and enjoy each other's company.
 Texwolf

Joined: 8/16/2008
Msg: 175
My embarressing oral question
Posted: 10/10/2008 2:24:43 PM
Try it you will like it. But have a man that knows wht he is doing .... My motto is lick tell they make you stop ...lol
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