| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 6/5/2007 5:48:27 AM | "Until she can't even crawl to the bathroom to clean-up and instead immediately passes out from a combination of bliss and exhaustion." 
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 7/21/2007 5:17:21 PM | | OK, I know this sounds crazy, but this is a system I am trying. I am a Pisces, and best matches for me in the bedroom would be Taurus, Scorpio, Cancer, and maybe Aquarius and Capricorn (according to astrologers). From my personal experience, Taurus was out-of this-world fantastic, Scorpio (which should have been great) was terrible, Capricorn was just OK , and Aquarius and Cancer never happened. So, I'll admit, the system has flaws, but that one experience with a Taurus makes me think it has possibilities. Too bad there is not a flawless test one can take to gauge sexual compatibility. | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 7/22/2007 4:58:02 PM | Hi Aurora
I'm an Aquarius for the record. A new experience! I don't think there is a clock ticking with regards to sex. Sure, I can give those philisophical answers , like a lifetime, etc.
But I think each time we make love is a new experience and it might be minutes or hours, sometimes days, as we tease and toy with each other. Good banter, laughter, and ultimately a desire to satisfy your partner in every way, and to gain as much from satisfying your partner as you gain from yourself, sometimes more! A soft stroke as we walk along a beach, a hug, When does sex begin and end? A look accross a table, a soft touch of a thigh, snuggling as we read together by fires light...................... | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 7/23/2007 8:36:19 AM | | The minimum is twenty two minutes. Twenty minutes to get her wet and ready and two minutes for the guy to cum. If you can last longer than even better. | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 7/23/2007 10:42:58 AM | | depends on your stamina...lolll. In my case the longest was 12 hrs, with foreplay, sensuality, cuddling and of course the hardcore stuff, with a few breaks in between, the intensity continues and the orgasmes better. | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 7/23/2007 10:53:13 AM | as long as she ask for it, you know when she say’s enough sensual massage, kissing, whispering, , it could take all night long you have to take the lead as well excite and tease her then please her be careful from black widows though lol.  | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:03:34 AM | For the record aim for her having three to seven orgasms, if she still panting for more go on till she can not walk or talk never forget your helping fingers, tongue and mouth to dive on her precious springs and let her volcano explode.  | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 8/4/2007 9:47:06 PM | | Until the two of you are drenched in sweat(as well as the sheets), can't move, and throats sore from screaming, and face hurts from the immense smile on your faces....That's good sex....:) | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 8/4/2007 9:56:55 PM | | It should last as long as you both are having fun. There is no rule book to how long a sexual session should be. | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 8/4/2007 10:23:34 PM | | Chi-guy, Great OP. Good sex sex should last forever, even if we do not. I can't think of a better way to go out than w/ 'a bang instead of a whimper' ...and I don't do the latter. Good sex? How about the best sex? I'm still looking for the woman w/ the heart and mind for it. | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 8/6/2007 2:08:50 AM | | As long as time allows. Take you time, enjoy the view, the tastes, the sensations, skin texture, aroma, slow and easy. Hey, at this age you need to savor every moment, make it last a long long time. She will love you for it. Nothing worse than hopping on, doing your thing, rolling over and going to sleep. | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 8/6/2007 2:46:55 AM | Ahem. Okay for some reason it has been hard for me to find guys that can last awhile. (no, that is not an invitation to send me weird msgs about how your "That" guy) The last long relationship I had he tried to last as long as he could and the longest time was probably about 45 minutes the shortest time about 6 -10 mins. So I learned to be happy with what I got. Even though it generally wasn't long he was very good. &He was able to find out what really turned me on and got me going. So I say quality over quantity. though both is good, hell who am I kidding both is great! haha.
All I'm saying is if those 10 mins are like mindblowingly great then it was, in fact great sex.
If you know you wont last long I say go down and bring her close to peak (or to it) so when you go for it she'll at least get some enjoyment from it. thats a good tip... Get them all hot and bothered so they can't take much more. | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 8/6/2007 3:53:30 AM | | as long as you can go for. I know i had more in me but my wife was wore out after 3 and half hours... true a lot of that was foreplay but the rest was........ enough said lol | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 8/6/2007 3:54:24 AM | | but thats probably due to the fact id been waiting soo long to lose my virginity at the time lol | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 8/6/2007 3:58:26 AM | Chi-guy, if it last 5-10 mins ... do u maybe think that is why u r on a dating site lol
Only joking, its depands on what time is available, anything over half an hour is good ...
5-10 mins is a quicky on your lunch break
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 8/6/2007 1:24:52 PM | | It varies with the person, where the relationship is and the moment. A girl I went out with had the ability to come rather easy, so that would get me aroused all over again so we lasted until she came 8 times. | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 8/6/2007 2:23:06 PM | | i've had anything from 20 minutes to 2 hours from start to finish but after about a half hour my hips are killing me (i have small hips i guess) and if it lasts too much longer i'm super sore the next day :/ | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 8/20/2007 6:38:46 PM | well my friend im gonna say what most men are afraid to say.....very few men know how long good sex should last as very few men have ever had good sex
Yes i said it ....most women dont know how to give good sex....but before all you women jump all over me with the hate mail, let me explain ..most men dont know how to give good sex either....for all of us we simply accept what is routine and go with the flow....the monotoneus commonly used and functional aspects are all most of us will ever experience from our sexual encounters. Some kissing some hugging, a little oral, anywhere from 1 to 5 positions, a release of sexual energy and then if the woman is lucky a little cuddling before he falls asleep.
The art of true seduction and the mastery of sexual intercourse has been lost only to show small glimpses in movies...and even lately they are becoming routine...im not talking about everyone joining fetish groups, or bringing livestock into the bedroom....
Im suggesting realizing the true sexual bond that can ignite passion when two people that are truely connect, open, and honestly interested in adapting theyre partners satisfaction as theyre own...until both people derive satisfaction from pleasureing the other...and both people allow the other to please them there is no such thing as good sex.
Ive only experienced this with one person in my life and to this day am still sorry it was lost...but i will tell you sex with this person would take on average 6 hrs + from the first stroke of the hair, to the playfull nibbling, to the gently embracefull hugging that could last an hour in itself as our bodies entwind and flesh was only seperated by sweat.
Every sensation explored and enjoyed, the taste of the sweat, the smell of eachother, the sight of our bodies as they glided across the bed , the feal as we breathed each breath into eachothers mouth, a soft well placed touch across the small of the back, or a light kiss followed by a gentle lick on the back of the neck, suckling and rubbing ever inch of eachother,enticipating the feel of our bodies when we become as close as two people can possible be ......
ok thats enough now i have to go to sleep alone :( ...ill finish writing my romance novel later :)
hopw what i said gives some people good dreams tonight lol | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 8/20/2007 7:20:22 PM | | Well I would have to say it was today and it lasted apox. 2 hours and 20 minutes. But I was ready last week so when he got here today no forplay was needed although I got some anyway. Great sex is over when you both are exausted and can't do it again. So you go get lunch and then come back for a quicky befor the kids get home from school. This was the best 1st day of school ever. | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 8/20/2007 7:33:53 PM |
very few men know how long good sex should last as very few men have ever had good sex
Dude, you are so wrong. Even the fact that you do it for 6 hours is missing something. And that is that sometimes you need the 2 hour deal, the all nighter, the morning kooky, the all day marathons and yes, the quickie. So variety. | |
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| How long should good sex last?
Posted: 11/5/2007 8:21:38 AM | I'll take any sex ok? 5 min sex, 2 min sex, the longer the better.
When you're not getting alot you realize how much less the amount of time it lasts really matters *tear* | |
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