| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/8/2006 11:32:34 PM | | Totally agree...great kisses equal great sex and those weird open-mouthy ones, fuggettabouit!!! | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/9/2006 1:22:52 AM | No, it's not related. I know for a fact.
I rely on being a good kisser, after a woman finds out (drum roll) that I'm mediocre in bed.
And, for what it's worth, some women appreciate it. It makes a fantastic distraction. | |
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| Joined: 7/27/2006 Msg: 153 | |
| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/9/2006 1:55:02 AM | | Hey, if ya don't warm up the engine, the pistons are going to grind. And what person in there right mind is going to let you drive their car if you treat it like that? Engine must be purring like a kittie cat first! . | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/9/2006 8:58:52 PM | | I like soft gentle kisses but lately the guys I've met lead with the tongue, like they forgot they have lips. When I pull away from a kiss, I dont want to have to dry my eyebrows or chin. Am I the only one that has this problem. And when a guy brags about how much he likes kissing & how good a kisser he is, then I expect way more than I get. I had a guy suck my lip so hard that I had a blood blister for days. Went home with a fat lip. Try explaining that to your 15 yr old daughter. | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/9/2006 9:05:45 PM | @weav -
Hey, if ya don't warm up the engine, the pistons are going to grind
Well said!!!!!!! Have met my share of great kissers but in the sack??? Eh, not so much......however THAT being said, I've met some amazing lovers who havent got a clue what they're doing when it comes to kissing so.....I'd have to say I'd prefer the man who can kiss because that gets me ready for whatever else may follow...even if its ME thats doing the 'whatever' (if he can't perform? He can watch!) | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/10/2006 9:50:07 AM | I just found through the years that if the other person can't kiss well, they can't do other things well.
Kissing is very underrated! | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/10/2006 6:13:20 PM | | I'll tell you this much. If kissing isn't FANTASTIC, there will not be anything else. If you don't have a compatible kiss from day one, you never will. I've never been able to make a bad kiss good, so I don't even try anymore. | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/10/2006 6:21:53 PM | | Yes, definately, I can say that has been my experience as well, a passionate and talented kisser is a passionate and talented love maker for sure!!! If the kiss is bad, I don't go any further!!! Period. | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/10/2006 6:27:43 PM | | I find if the guy has sloppy technique when it comes to kissing, then he usually has a sloppy bedroom technique. But I have been wrong sometimes. | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/10/2006 6:29:25 PM | It does not always equate to good sex. I've known a few that could curl my toes with a kiss....and were damn lousy in bed.
but I agree that if you can't arouse me with a kiss.....we're not gonna make it to the bed. | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/10/2006 6:29:29 PM | Yeah, lippi!!
And what is with this wide open mouth stiff tongue thing guys do? Disgusting and major turn off.
Soft gentle lips, and soft tongue is a plus for me plus a little sucking and nibbling of lips always good. | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/10/2006 6:54:15 PM | | when i meet a girl, smell her perfume, see her glossy lips and wonder just what she kisses like. nothing to compare to the feeling of being close and locked in a passionate kiss. the way we communicate with our tongues seems to paint a vivid picture of her passion, feelings and desires. | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/10/2006 8:53:28 PM | a good kiss starts with his good mind and laughing eyes and ends being KUMMPOW | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/10/2006 8:58:30 PM | yes
most definitely... good kissing = good sex
with an exception of the minor and unfortunate few (and no.. you cant blame it on the alcohol) | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/10/2006 9:58:41 PM | Great sex starts with a great kiss, the two are connected. It's where the first signs of sexual compatability are drawn!!! If you can't use your tongue upstairs, what makes you think it'll be any different downstairs??? I mean really....give it a moments thought.  | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/10/2006 10:35:16 PM | Personally I love kissing and like to do a lot of it before sex to warm up and if the guy can't kiss good I don't see me getting very warmed up... so yes to me you have to be a good kisser to have heat in bed at least I do | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/11/2006 12:02:29 AM | If the "electricity" is in the kiss then the sex can be good. But just because someone is a good kisser doesn't mean they are good at sex. Good communication between partners is key to a good sex life. Being able to read the signs when your partner is really enjoying what you are doing and as importantly reading the signs when they are not enjoying it. Giving and taking is important too. Taking time and not rushing to self satisfaction. But as the song says "It's in his kiss" | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/11/2006 5:04:09 AM | | I know for me Kissing is almost more important than the actual sex act. A good Kiss can tell you how passionate a person is..if the kiss is very stiff and emotionless than you can pretty much guarantee that the sex will be too. Plus Kissing is usually what gets you in the mood for sex in the first place right. I love Kissing too much for it to be bad. :) | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/11/2006 2:35:48 PM | [I know for me Kissing is almost more important than the actual sex act]
Sugarcoma...I couldn't agree more with that statement...it's so true...a kiss is everything to me...it defines what the whole experience is going to be like...you can tell alot from the way someone kisses you...OMG...it's the most important thing...if the kiss is there...it's the best thing ever...and it's portable...you can do it anywhere...and to me it's THE most profound way to express your love to someone...it is the ultimate connection to me... | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/11/2006 3:15:44 PM | Good Kissing = Good Sex ?? Lol, never heard of that one... I've always considered myself a good kisser, (not trying to be mean) but... who knows, it's not me who has to say that, right??
Starsearch2006: it is the ultimate connection to me... Whoa, that's so exaggerated, isnt it?? | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/11/2006 3:44:36 PM | Survey says............................................it's all in the kiss! | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/11/2006 7:29:34 PM | | I have to agree with OP... if they cant kiss, they cant fack. At least in my experiences it has been very true. | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/11/2006 8:18:27 PM | | Some of the greatest sex is without any kissin'. Besides, it is hard to kiss em when you got a paper bag over thier face. | |
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| Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 11/11/2006 8:59:44 PM | | Good kissing doesn't always lead to good sex, but bad kissing rarely leads to good sex. | |
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