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 Melodic Euphoria

Joined: 3/22/2005
Msg: 32
Dating a Female bodybuilder or girls with big muscles
Posted: 1/27/2006 5:44:27 AM
realroughdiamond, you're a tad bit narrow minded. I think my english professor would have gave you a failing grade for your confusing wordings and poor grammar; I think the well educated people here will agree with me when I say: to compare your well-spoken articulation with mine is absurd. I'm an English minor in the University, and I struggle with great effort to understand your inscrutable sentences. Pause and ask yourself why it is that you don't understand most people in north america? Is it their problem - only to you; you are the one who's really talking funny here? And to assert that "no woman alove (alove? Try using a dictionary next time) is more assertive than me" is a false statement based plainly on ignorance and arrogance. Your "opinions" would have been accepted AND respected had they not been dogmatic.
 Veedub447

Joined: 8/6/2005
Msg: 34
Dating a Female bodybuilder or girls with big muscles
Posted: 1/27/2006 6:28:10 AM
I agree Rachel Mclish was the last Ms. Olympia I would still consider a "female" but that was 1982, after her , you really can not discern them from the male body form.
 bigandy

Joined: 12/5/2005
Msg: 38
Dating a Female bodybuilder or girls with big muscles
Posted: 1/27/2006 11:06:55 AM
Personally, I find muscular women very attractive. However, in the offseason, some tend to blow up a little too much for my liking. In contest shape, it's a thing of beauty, but the big pimply offseason look is not all that appealing to me. I understand it though as I compete myself and I know I look much better during contest season. I guess for some reason it's more acceptable for a man to pack on the extra 30 pounds of fat in the offseason than a woman. I would not hesitate to date a female bodybuilder though as I love their passion and dedication. And hey, I don't know if any you have been with a woman on a bit of testosterone, but OH MY GOD! It's FUN! LOL!
 Veedub447

Joined: 8/6/2005
Msg: 39
Dating a Female bodybuilder or girls with big muscles
Posted: 1/27/2006 11:08:36 AM
I guess I'm a girly-man, I like girls more than men, and not girls that look like men.
 Veedub447

Joined: 8/6/2005
Msg: 40
Dating a Female bodybuilder or girls with big muscles
Posted: 1/27/2006 11:15:39 AM
now the fitness competitions and the women who compete in those, I got no problem with that, very hot.
 BradPt

Joined: 1/13/2006
Msg: 41
Dating a Female bodybuilder or girls with big muscles
Posted: 1/27/2006 11:47:42 AM
Muscle tone is okay....chicks with**** and stubble are bad...
 Sversion1

Joined: 12/7/2005
Msg: 42
Dating a Female bodybuilder or girls with big muscles
Posted: 1/27/2006 12:00:27 PM
veedub, I'm mostly talking about Ms. Fitness competitors....not Ms. Olympia. Can't lump em all together lol.
 Not taken

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 45
Dating a Female bodybuilder or girls with big muscles
Posted: 1/27/2006 7:05:09 PM
I am so glad to hear that your GF is 5'9" and 140 lbs!!!!!!!! I am 5'9" and 159 lbs right now. I was 165 lbs. At that weight I was at 25% bodyfat, and told by the gym experts that I was at the perfect weight. I still feel a little heavy, and am planning on losing 5-10 more lbs. I work out pretty seriously and my cardio is intense, so I have good muscle tone, I would just like more definition..
Does you GF work out much???? Or is she naturally slim and/or muscular?
What are her measurements???

P.S. I have found that most men are intimidated by a woman that does anything better than them. I have, in fact hidden the fact that I run faster or longer, make more, have more than the men that I have dated...
 TheGoon

Joined: 12/6/2005
Msg: 46
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Posted: 1/27/2006 7:05:59 PM
I was with 5th Force Reconnasiance in the Marines and have trained with the Aussies while on a float down in Perth...

I would hardly think that you are an authority to say who the best military force in the world is realroughdiamond...

Quite honestly, you haven't said anything to rub me the wrong way until that statement. You have an opinion and that you are entitled to in my eyes. But stating something as belligerant as this as "FACT" is just plain stupid.

Grow up, Recon will own your Aussie a***s before you even knew the ship was on its way...
 TheGoon

Joined: 12/6/2005
Msg: 47
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Posted: 1/27/2006 7:13:13 PM

I am so glad to hear that your GF is 5'9" and 140 lbs!!!!!!!! I am 5'9" and 159 lbs right now. I was 165 lbs. At that weight I was at 25% bodyfat, and told by the gym experts that I was at the perfect weight. I still feel a little heavy, and am planning on losing 5-10 more lbs. I work out pretty seriously and my cardio is intense, so I have good muscle tone, I would just like more definition..
Does you GF work out much???? Or is she naturally slim and/or muscular?
What are her measurements???

P.S. I have found that most men are intimidated by a woman that does anything better than them. I have, in fact hidden the fact that I run faster or longer, make more, have more than the men that I have dated...


She works out daily either running (4-6 miles) or in the gym doing an upper body/lower body split. She is naturally slim, carries about 15% BF right now, which is insane for a girl to do naturally without proper diet.

I don't know any measurements but this one... 34 D :)
 ron385

Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 49
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Posted: 1/28/2006 11:17:12 PM
They're fine, as long as they don't get to the point where their breast disappear and you can see the strain of bodybuilding in their faces. Angielah is fine tho'
 HarleyMark

Joined: 4/3/2005
Msg: 50
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Posted: 1/29/2006 10:04:53 AM
I wouldn't mind. Though as others have said there are issues such as diets, training schedules ect that can but a lot of stress on a relationship. I would also want to make sure that there were no steroids involved either.
 Acura99

Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 51
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Posted: 1/29/2006 10:47:54 AM
girls that are bodybuilder kinda look gross no offence..
 Melodic Euphoria

Joined: 3/22/2005
Msg: 52
Dating a Female bodybuilder or girls with big muscles
Posted: 1/30/2006 10:20:22 AM


Quite honestly, you haven't said anything to rub me the wrong way until that statement. You have an opinion and that you are entitled to in my eyes. But stating something as belligerant as this as "FACT" is just plain stupid.


Perfect example of dogmatism, thegoon
 Melodic Euphoria

Joined: 3/22/2005
Msg: 53
Dating a Female bodybuilder or girls with big muscles
Posted: 1/30/2006 1:04:16 PM

They're fine, as long as they don't get to the point where their breast disappear and you can see the strain of bodybuilding in their faces. Angielah is fine tho'


Translation: Angielah has a long, long way to go in her hobbie of bodybuilding
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 54
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Posted: 1/30/2006 1:13:20 PM
angie: from what i can see in your pics, you're doin fine, darlin'; tell any naysayers where they can stick their negativity...
 gag_123

Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 55
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Posted: 1/30/2006 4:59:51 PM
its better than fatty....anyday....
a woman who takes care of herself that way,, can start to look masculine,,
i do like some but not bigger than me......
 DesertSpin

Joined: 12/31/2005
Msg: 56
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Posted: 1/30/2006 8:31:48 PM
I'm not a fan of musclebound women, but a woman with a good strength to weight ratio is the hottest. Give me a girl who can do 10 dips and I'll buy her dinner any day.
 who_the_fox

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 57
Dating a Female bodybuilder or girls with big muscles
Posted: 2/1/2006 12:11:25 PM
People assume from my pix that I am "big".....because I am muscled....when they meet me they are surprised at how small I am.

I would much MUCH rather be muscled, hard, lean and tight than flabby and squidgy. I certainly wouldn't be interested in a man who had issues with my muscle or my lifestyle or with my intellect either.
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 58
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Posted: 2/1/2006 1:40:10 PM
foxy, lookin at yer pics, i can't imagine there's a guy who would have issues w/ you, darlin'!
 poppo06

Joined: 2/1/2006
Msg: 59
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Posted: 2/1/2006 4:41:04 PM
I know a girl on steroids, HUGE......155LBS, a walking tank, huge, too much....theirs a difference between toned and huge.
 who_the_fox

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 60
Dating a Female bodybuilder or girls with big muscles
Posted: 2/1/2006 8:52:12 PM
There is a big difference between a female bber who is on the juice and one who is "natural". I have no interest in juicing, prefer the look of 100% natural.....more of a fitness competitor effect....lean and hard and very fit NOT masculine at all.
 osquip

Joined: 4/20/2006
Msg: 61
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Posted: 4/20/2006 5:00:14 PM
I just came across this topic and wanted to throw in my 2-cents...

Personally, I think a woman with muscle is a beautiful thing. My general opinion is the more the better since (1) most bodybuilders try to keep their bodies sculpted and proportional and (2) every ounce of muscle on a bodybuilder’s body shows hard work and dedication to their sport (and, in theory, they will bring these characteristics to other aspects of their lives, like relationships). If both persons in a relationship share that interest, so much the better – it’s just one more way to bond and support each other.

The topic reminds me of something that happened in the supermarket the other day. A couple in front of me was unloading their cart, and the girlfriend grabbed a 12-pack of soda and struggled to hoist it up out of the shopping cart. I remember thinking ‘if this was my girlfriend, I would be embarrassed to see her struggling with soda like that.’

Now, please, before writing a scathing response to that statement, go back and look at the IF part again. I have no problem with all levels of female strength, stronger than me, weaker than me, or anywhere in between. Personally, I can curl 70 lb dumbbells for reps, so most women fall into the latter category. IF I’m getting into a relationship with someone, I personally would want the gym to be an interest we share. I guess she could struggle with a case of soda, but it should only be after we have finished up our big bicep workout day at the gym!

…Oh, and it’s OK of those biceps are bigger than mine!
 mysticrogue

Joined: 11/17/2005
Msg: 62
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Posted: 7/27/2006 9:08:29 AM
I find muscle bound women like Kim Chizefsky Nichols sooo sexy.
RE: She was the blonde girl who hurled Jennifer Lopez against the wall and carried her to the serial killer in the movie: THE CELL.

Man would I love to massage her body with oil....AAHooooooo (howling like a wolf).
 ash2006

Joined: 6/30/2006
Msg: 63
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Posted: 7/27/2006 8:06:20 PM
As a woman, I think that the feminity of a woman is lost if you look muscular and manly. I think most men also find slender bodies with very little muscle most appealing (just my opinion, I may be wrong). Also, women who become muscular tend to develop other masculine traits in addition to physical ones, which I don't think would appeal to men. We are opposite sexes because we share similar attributes within our own sex, but are attracted to the physical attributes of the opposite sex.
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