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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 12/20/2007 3:53:59 PM | Bad boys are just jerky "men" who haven't grown up despite their years, are too insecure to be real, hide behind their own emotional barriers, play mind-games, refuse to be honest, sincere, direct with women, are callous in that they don't believe women (people) have feelings, have no respect or common courtesy, and generally get a kick out of being manipulative and deceitful.
Yeaahh- gimme some of that!
The "get the girl" (temporarily) because women are hard-wired to communicate and resolve conflict. These bad-boys are really nothing more than manipulative little drama queens who thrive on creating emotional chaos. They are so emotionally crippled, they cannot form any real bond or connection.
Being genuinely interested in someone, being present, putting their true self out there scares them. Bad boys are afraid people might not be interested in who they really are (mere mortals ) so they hide behind the "bad boy" persona. Allowing someone to discover and know the real person inside them opens them up to potential rejection, something the bad boy fears much more than a normal "good man".
The "bad boy" is really just an insecure emotional mess.
Yeaahh- gimme some of that! | |
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tmvg76
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 12/21/2007 8:56:01 AM | Ok Sabinee just how many bad boys have you had?? Maybe you just need to get down off of your little psychological step stool and have some fun.
A real bad boy will sounder right up to the edge of the envelope and without a so much as a thought jump, they are just flat out fun. If you think you are going to tame one you are delusional, fasten your seat belt, and while you are holding with both hands, you are guaranteed it will be one hell of a great ride! If a guy is a bad boy, he knows it, he does not have to think about it, and he sure as hell does not have to be told he is. Ladies can spot one across a crowded room full of "normal" guys in a heart beat. Men its kind of like finding the wild women in the room, you just know it when you see it. Its a look, a walk, an attitude, not what they drive. | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 12/21/2007 9:52:29 AM | | see ive found that alot of women want the bad boy...and i look the part but when they get to know me...they see im "real" and they see that ...gone like a shot out of a cannon... cant figure it out and dont really care to | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 12/21/2007 1:43:18 PM | You sure you are Skip? Looks like the bad boy is being tamned (whipped) right now?  Are you whipped Skip???  Way to go T! Where's Mustang Sally when we need her or Gloria!!  | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 12/21/2007 5:57:35 PM | I don't think women are attracted to "bad boys", as much as bad boys posses the qualities that women find attractive. Women like confident, take charge, fearless men.
They are not attracted to men that act like women. Women are not attracted to wussies. Just rember that you don't have to be an a$$hole to be a man. | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 12/23/2007 11:00:49 AM | | I agree with what you say - that women are attracted to certain positive qualities bad boys may possess. There's probably a biological component too of women being attracted to the seemingly strongest/dominant male in a group. But I also think there are women who are interested in other qualities that bad boys don't have. So it can't be generalized that all women want bad boys. Some of us know better! | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 12/26/2007 11:51:59 AM | | liberty..a bad boy is just that a "BOY" but then again how moral or respectable can a woman be, who is 54 and only wants BOYS 18-20. any WIMp can be a bad boy...try a real man sometime! You might actually like it | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 12/26/2007 11:54:33 AM | | crickett...bad boys are alot of things. Manly and Dominant are NOT it. How dominant do they look, face down in the mud, with handcuffs on? | |
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tmvg76
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tmvg76
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 12/26/2007 6:17:13 PM | Magnadaddy..I think you have figured it out!...lol..
Its is mostly there" confidience" That draws the womans attention..I think that Confident Men are actually stereotyped as "Bad Boys"..I have found bad boys in all types of men..Just like beautiful woman are stereotyped as "gold diggers" or "high Maintance"...These statement come from the ones with LOW self - Confidence
and Self-pity..( Just grow up and accept your own insecurities)..and stop blaming someone else for your lonelyness....
Do you all really Believe that the "Bad Boy" always gets the girl??..If so then why are there so many lonely, unhappy people lurking around..If this statement was true then all that would be left would be GEEKS and WUSSIES!!...and you would not have to compete with the so called "Bad Boys"... | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 12/26/2007 9:35:49 PM | Stereotypes are just that. A conventional, formulaic, and oversimplified conception, opinion, or image. There are so many stereotypes in this forum it's unreal. First and foremost define bad boy?
I don't think women are attracted to "bad boys", as much as bad boys posses the qualities that women find attractive. Women like confident, take charge, fearless men.
They are not attracted to men that act like women. Women are not attracted to wussies. Just rember that you don't have to be an a$$hole to be a man. This statement speaks loudly. Men are stereotyped as bad boys because they're confident and secure with who they are? If they take charge or are fearless this makes them bad boys? How is that fair? Because they have tattoos or ride harleys they're bad boys? Hmmmm. I think we all simply need to take the time to get to know people and stop judging the books by their cover only then will you truly know who or what someone is. | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 12/27/2007 8:06:50 AM | A better question for this post is..
Why do we find a "confident man" irresistable?..
Because Confidence makes a man Attractive, outgoing and most of all they appear Happy.... | |
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