| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 12/28/2007 10:27:23 PM | | confidence and lack of fear do not make somone a "bad boy". They are simply common traits of "bad boys". Also there are a lot of wussies out there. | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 12/31/2007 7:22:55 AM | I don't find bad boys irresistable. I find them getting in my way to happiness. Being a man is much more rewarding and endearing to the women that are worth having.  | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 1/1/2008 4:42:53 AM | wow it is dead here, ok new thought ,if u can have a bad boy , what do you expect in return for him to change (no way).just enjoy the ride, and remember the suprises and smile your not a kid.big daddy likes when you put your groove thing out there. | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 1/1/2008 5:21:38 PM | from reading quite a lot of previous posts on this thread it does appear that from the opinions of a lot of females that the " bad " guy is a winner.
my new years resolution is to be as bad as i can to get the girl and even more girls, hopefully date a few at the same time......and tell each woman iam seeing others too.....that will wet their knickers for sure.
anyway i should really get some tattoos , shave my hair off, get some razor blades and a few knives..............sure things to impress the ladies.
and above all to guarantee to get the women drooling over me is to treat them like shite.
thats it then, i know what iam gonna do in 2008....................treat the babes bad and wait for them to throw themselves at my feet.
i better go out and buy the condoms, no wait, better still....NO condoms, sleep around and make a few babies, dump the woman after she has dropped then do another one..........
i can feel the badness flowing thru my veins....uuuuummmmmmmm
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 1/5/2008 10:57:50 AM | Here is my take on the situation.... I think women are attracted to BAD BOYS because we like their air of dominance and cofidence. We are almost always assured that they know their way around the female body "not that there is anything wrong with that"!!!! They are Apex predators and we like to be sought or hunted after sometimes, until "we catch" what we want!
Here the kicker though. Ultimately we don't want a BAD BOY we want a MAN'S MAN . We want the traits of the bad boy , but in a MAN that any other decent MAN & WOMAN would respect! A self reliant, confident, reliable, honest, caring Grown up MAN (what ever age), throw a little chemistry and adventure in and that is WHAT WOMEN WANT! | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 1/6/2008 3:23:39 PM | Katsudo_lady
ive got news for you............i know exactly my way around a womans body....the only thing i know nothing about on a womans body---is her brain... | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 6/19/2008 9:02:39 AM | I saw a news article today about a study they made about bad boys. Here is a quote from it:
"Heather Rupp, a research fellow at The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction, believes that the reason women may be drawn toward the "bad boys" is more because of physiology more than psychology.
"I think it goes back to the physiological underpinnings of such an attraction," Rupp said. "For instance, testosterone is a hormone that in men is linked to more dominant personality traits -- outgoing personalities and charm and things like that. And men with higher testosterone are rated by independent observers as being more outgoing and charming than others."
"Some experts, however, believe that these narcissistic males tend to embellish the self-reported tales of their own sexual conquest, leading others to believe they are more sexually successful than they really are.
"People high in dark triad traits tend to say what they think others want to hear," said Everett Worthington, professor of psychology at Virginia Commonwealth University.
"Moreover, Worthington notes that while some of these males may be more successful at short-term sexual relationships, their overall success with long-term relationships is often compromised by their dark triad traits.
"The manipulative, 'it's all about me, so tell 'em anything to get sex' behavior is likely to have more short-term sexual success," Worthington said. "A strategy of building trust and intimacy and commitment is, by nature, going to take longer. Thus, the payoffs are likely to be greater in the short term. However, long-term relationship survival is likely to be strongly disadvantaged in people with dark triad traits."
"So maybe good guys don't always finish last."
(You can find the full article on ABC news online.) | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 6/20/2008 12:37:30 PM | | The Don Juan and "Playboy" approaches to sex use hypnosis,[ 23 ] manipulations of sex partners, and pragmatic dishonesty of professing "sincerity", "seriousness", and "love" when strategically advantageous for conquest. But most modern-day Don Juans can only feign lust while actually being terrified of their own sexual inadequacies. In fact, most macho Don Juans have never experienced psychological orgasms and remain psychosexual virgins all their lives -- they never develop a capacity for delivering or receiving psychuous pleasures. More simply, macho men are males who have never sexually matured or grown up. [Re: concept 45, Neotech Reference Encyclopedia] | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 6/20/2008 1:52:55 PM | Gary, good post! The question begs to be asked, however, what is psychological orgasms, psychosexual virgins, and psychuous pleasures? Maybe this question needs to be moved over to the sex instruction thread!
I've never heard those terms used before. Anyone care to elaborate? | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 7/26/2008 6:08:58 AM | Well my daughter fell into what I call the "bad boy syndrome" and not sure why. My personal opinion is he was the real first boy who paid attention to her. He was pure evil and just starting getting mad when I think of the hell that boy put me through and my family. Darn lucky we are still alive.
Bad boys have the gift of gab that is for sure. While he was seeing my daughter he was also seeing other girls. When I confronted them about what it was about him they said he had no looks to speak of, no money of his own, but boy could he lay the charm on. Words as sweet as honey flew out of his mouth.
Now my daughter has 3 children by him and he is back in prison again.. so I guess he is the evil son in law.
So I guess he is the extreme end of the bad boy.
Have a good day everyone. | |
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| Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
Posted: 7/26/2008 8:37:47 AM | Please advise Doc
gentlegiantohio, I wasn't sure whether you were addressing me in your post. If it is in regard to the terminology, I'll let everyone research that on their own rather than me putting the information here.
I think a lot of the desirability of bad boys is that they interject a lot of excitement into the boring, same old/same old of women's lives. All a nice guy has to do is get a little bit wreckless, step out of their comfort zone, and provide some adventure for the lady. Do something that will make her want to let down her hair and let the wind blow it! That pretty much would help to fill that empty hole in their core.
My observations in life is that there are so many men who starve women for attention and then wonder why women respond to bad boys who give them attention and shake up their lives. I'm thinking of one man in particular as an example whom I have known for several years. His wife left him for another man. He wonders why that was, but I know for a fact that he starves women for attention, and the way he does it actually makes them crave someone to interact with.
Just seems to me that the good guys ought to take a lesson from the bad guys and incorporate a little bit of what makes the bad guys a success into their own lives. Normally, most women are quite willing to learn or do whatever that will liven up a man's life. | |
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