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Posted: 3/27/2007 12:10:11 AM | | Oh yeah, there is also a medical reason why spanking is good. It increases the blood flow to the area. Ie the buttocks and the genitals. More blood flow equals sex. As long as the spanking doesnt turn you off. Where's my paddle?? | |
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Posted: 3/27/2007 8:29:22 AM | I don't really think it's a fetish at all, although it really adds some excitement when you're doggying her. To me it happens spur-of-the-moment so the random slap on her ass before she climaxes is huge | |
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Posted: 3/27/2007 11:14:53 AM | | I really don't mind a good hard smack...I've had someone attempt a nice smack I just say "you can do better than that"...but that is in the right moment, if you're being soft and sensual then a good hard smack isn't great but when it's a little more rough and wild a good hard smack to the point there's a nice warm hand print left that's cool! | |
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Posted: 3/27/2007 5:35:54 PM | I don't personally know anyone who can't get off without them, but I do know any number of women who enjoy them.
In fact, I can't recall dating someone who didn't (not that it's a criteria, I would already be dating them (usually) when i found out).
Of course, there are the reactionary idiots who think blind-folds and spanking are abuse. I suspect many of them still think masturbation sends you to hell and oral sex is "unnatural". Pay them no mind and go have fun. | |
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Posted: 7/30/2007 4:03:07 PM | Well this is nothing new - at least not to me. For you guys who haven't met a woman who enjoys a good smack on the ass, I'm sorry for you. Heheheheh...
A lil kink is good for the soul! ;) | |
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Posted: 7/31/2007 10:40:13 AM | Done right, spanking can be one of the most erotic things ever to happen to a couple. Of course, personal preferences must be adhered to. I am an expert spanker and have introduced a few women to the joy of this, the most recent being a 27 yr old lady...  | |
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Posted: 7/31/2007 12:01:58 PM | | If there's no pain, it's not really a spanking now is it.... but the term brutal goes a little far for me. Some nice color and heat but nothing severe!! | |
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Posted: 7/31/2007 12:07:41 PM | | No matter how hard or soft you may like to give or recieve a spanking, I think it only becomes a problem when sex can not be enjoyed without it. That would pretty much go for all fetishes, imho. | |
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Posted: 7/31/2007 1:16:17 PM | On the technical side of things... The thing about spanking is if you want to really wail on someone you have to start soft and keep it going for quite a while. As you continue the area will get numb and you can increase your intensity...slowly. Dam, I spanked my ex-girlfriend for the first time too hard and she immediately stopped, said," oh you want to do the spanking thing do you?"
She told me to go get my belt, which I did. I was thinking I was going to get to spank her with it but no such luck. She laid me face down on the bed and tied my hands behind my back with the belt...I know what you're thinking, how could I let her do that but I trusted her so whatever...
Then she took her belt and showed me how she liked to be spanked. She started off slow, took her time, no real pain but by the time she was done she was taking pretty good swings and I felt nothing but a sharp little sting everytime the leather came down. She on the other hand was soaking my legs. I actually thought it was me bleeding because of how loud the smacks were but low and behold I came out of it completely unscathed...except for a sore red ass.
The spanking never really did to much for me but what it did to her was amazing and to be honest if I'm involved in making my woman satisfied it doesn't really matter how it transpires. | |
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Posted: 7/31/2007 2:02:29 PM |
Do guys like to spank us???
Some do. I like doing it. It is fun but it helps if she gets playfully sassy and is earning it. It's really just play. She gets sassy and snippy.....you smile and warn her....she puts her nose up and pushes you more.......i tried to warn her.......snippy again.....Ok, that's it, the chase is on.  | |
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| Painful ass spankin'
Posted: 7/31/2007 5:58:52 PM | | No way for me, I was whipped with a belt on my backside as a kid whenever I did something wrong. I believe sex is loving and intimate so a spanking is out of the question. I have had men that ask for it though, they didn't last long in my bed. | |
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Posted: 7/31/2007 6:22:24 PM | Known a couple ---- what FUN to deliver that sting and see them wrench over with that smile!
To leave bruises is out of my comfort zone - but prior to that it is all just a ball!
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Posted: 7/31/2007 6:45:04 PM |
i'm too cute to spank
Oh whatever. That was a very nice try. | |
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Posted: 8/16/2007 3:24:31 PM | Oh yep! A smack on the bottom when you're not really expecting it is a huge turn on ... but you must be prepared to kiss the area better afterwards  or rub lotion in to make it better or I may have to tie you to my bed for being a VERY bad boy !  | |
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Posted: 8/16/2007 3:43:38 PM | | spank, spank, spank, rub, rub, spank, spank rub, kiss, rub, smack!!! | |
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Posted: 8/16/2007 3:54:10 PM | i never would have thought i like this but i really do
i was with one guy who fukked me very hard
he spanked and bit and i was left brused and i just couldnnt get over how much i liked it
it scared me to find out that i like these kinds of thiings | |
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Posted: 8/16/2007 4:50:07 PM | Some of my friends are into some strange stuff... But I don't ask them about those things so I don't have a lot of details.
As for the painful part OUCH! no pain please. | |
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Posted: 8/21/2007 6:15:24 PM | | Yes, I've known two women who liked it rougher than most - that is, they liked getting spanked or paddled on the ass or ****. They both taught me a lot, and now I like to give it rougher than I used to - that is, I liked discoverig that I was somewhat Dom and I liked playing with a woman who liked being played with roughly. They both liked having clothespins on their nipples and being tied roughly. I'm grateful for what they taught me. | |
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Posted: 9/5/2007 3:53:07 PM | | ..i've met ladies that really enjoy a good spanking,theres definitley a style to develope! i must say..i like giving a spanking when asked !! | |
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