| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/10/2008 12:12:50 PM | ahem... *sings off pitch and off key*....
" smak that!" all on the floor... "smak that!" till you get sore.. "smak that!" gimme sum morrre... "smak that" till you get raw.. oh.. ohh.. ohhhhhh"
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/10/2008 12:16:13 PM |
Well Dave some women were physically abused and a playful spanking might be a reminder of that traumatic experience.
Kinkdude.. most people who have been abused TELL their potential partners about it PRIOR to them getting into a situation where it might happen.
To the person that said it was *messed up* and *abuse*.. get a life. It might not be what you want or enjoy, but just because others do that does not make it messed up or abuse. Respect others for having differing opinions and beliefs and ideas other than disrespecting those that don't agree with your's. If we all did, this world WOULD be messed indeed.
As for me... there is a fine line between pleasure and pain. Sometimes I need a little pain to go over the cliff... but it's always pleasurable. | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/10/2008 3:25:16 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
What SHE said.
I actually responded to that nonsense almost word for word but when I went to post the room said
*YOU ARE LIMITED TO 5 POSTS A DAY*
So I ended up hitting delete.
Anybody else limited to 5 posts a day. Sumfin tells me the "host" don't appreciate ma politics!!  | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/10/2008 4:37:05 PM | If ya read ALL the posts here, the WOMEN are overwhelmingly in FAVOR of a good spanking under the right circumstances.
Just the women that posted - doesn't mean that most women are into it. Some of us don't need pain to put us over the edge
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| Painful BRAIN usage Posted: 11/10/2008 5:40:39 PM | OK, I'm gonna blow one of my 5 on this. It's getting really really STUPID.
I wrote :
... ALL the posts here ...
What part of "" POSTS HERE"" confuses you???
Based on the number of women who ( and it's WHO not "that" ) posted in this thread, so far, that leaves the the other 3,446,713814 women on the Earth who not only didn't post here but due circumstances, I'm sure beyond their control like being stuck in a desert or a jungle somewhere, didn't even READ the original query!! Now MY guess is a whole bunch of them would have said, "Ya, with the right guy and the right circumstances, ITZ FUN." ( in several languages of course). On the other hand another big bunch would say, "Please NO, I hate it. Don't beat me again."
So your point is exactly WHAT? I never said MOST everywhere. YOU are extrapolating my generalizations. Talkin about THIS thread and you have me claiming ALL the women everywhere or some such nonsense.
When you mention "over the edge" considering the whole spanking thing, for MOST of us who like the idea, it's for the FUN of it and not to initiate an orgasm so I'm assuming here that YOUR interpretation of "over the edge " refers to your psychological condition. Sad.
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/10/2008 5:49:56 PM | ummmmm thats what i like a woman that like more but when is the moment no always, you know what i mean babe only when is the time if not noooo, well im send you love and my hand too, so u can start trying how i do it ,jajjajajajajajaj love and hope hear from you soon , send you love and kissssses ,,, | |
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| Painful BRAIN usage Posted: 11/10/2008 7:51:03 PM | I'm assuming here that YOUR interpretation of "over the edge " refers to your psychological condition. Sad.
You know what that say about ASSumptions
The only thing that's sad is your post - I guess in your mind I'm not aloud to express myself on the subject. Too bad
Don't gross me out
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/10/2008 8:58:46 PM | | I know many people who enjoy spanking, being spanked, and have may fetishes. You probably do as well....they may not be open about it.... | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/13/2008 10:20:22 AM | | another thread that illustrates why we need a kinster section | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/13/2008 10:29:42 AM | | Each to their own. Some enjoy pain (only god knows why) and some do not enjoy pain. Lovemaking is suppose to feel good not make ya want to cry so to speak. I have told my hubby to not do that to me and if he does it again he is gonna get off me and I will make him do without for a friggin month. | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/13/2008 11:15:31 AM | | If they can pull my hair at the same time, that is what I am talking about. Too each his or her own. :) | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/13/2008 11:38:11 AM |
Does anyone know someone like this or someone with a similarly strange fettish?
Your own personal perceptions betray you with your last line.
Fetish/Kinky versus perverted
Definition example .... rubbing your partner all over with a feather could be considered kinky or a fetish. ....Using the entire clucking chicken ..... perhaps perverted
I spanked my girlfriend and pulled her hair....at her request.... she likes it... it turns me on to turn her on.
I have feathers available...... but my chickens.... don't want to scare them... they would not understand and might be traumatized for life maybe even need counceling . | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/14/2008 8:45:57 AM | i like a LITTLE pain with my sex and love making. the mixture of pleasurable sensations with the quickly fleeting light stabs of pain bring out those wonderful feelings of pleasure. in my case i like the occasional raking of my ass and back with sharp nails. hair pulling and some biting. animalistic behaviour.
remember the nine inch nails song......... "i wanna f*ck you like an animal".
the orgasm itself is a mixture of pain and pleasure, is that not so???
it's like good and evil. neither can be truly assessed without the other. light needs darkness to exist in order to define light and vice versa. heat cannot be measured without cold. | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/14/2008 8:59:29 AM | the orgasm itself is a mixture of pain and pleasure, is that not so??? .....................
if its so, its news to me.
the mixture of pleasurable sensations with the quickly fleeting light stabs of pain bring out those wonderful feelings of pleasure. ...................
Not for everyone. But each to their own fetish. | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/14/2008 4:58:32 PM | "I enjoy being spanked Alot. lol I have pictures of my ass with bruises, if that tells you anything," MellyBabez. *********************************************************** Okay: Besides MellyBabez, who else needs their arse spanked.  | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 11/15/2008 2:53:50 AM | I've been the "Spankmaster" at the Kinky Carnival in Seattle, and in my opinion, this is certainly the most common fetish for women, and more than a few men. It's also the usual entry point for folks getting into/checking out BDSM or Kink as a lifestyle.
And yes, I've had everything from women who almost fainted at my mere touch to those who needed some very strong application, and I mean very. In my experience, most people love the feeling of being overpowered. | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 12/22/2008 1:46:34 AM | | A good hard spanking is amazing,but as one said,it's personal preference,So if any of you ladies out there into the wild/kinky,and like to span,find me please | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 12/22/2008 1:47:57 AM | | Where are all the woman who like to abuse men with a belt/strap/hand?,you are so hard to find where i live,Smiths falls | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 12/22/2008 1:55:22 AM | | hey Cheeky,your right,marks are not a bad thing,they go away,it's the rush and the turn on to see the woman in control,and if she's into a giving a good whipping,i am the type of guy who is there more for her pleasure then mine,very submissive. | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 12/22/2008 1:57:13 AM | | YIKES NO NO NO, I like a man with a slow hand, and gentle touch....isn't that a song? anyway no ass spankings for me. | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 12/22/2008 2:01:37 AM | I guess you have to be with someone for awhile and work it out. I might like it, who knows? I might do a little huggy kissy that some guys find annoying. Maybe. That's where the trust of\ a relationship comes into play, You can't just expect that the new one will like what the old one liked! | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 12/22/2008 2:29:48 AM | | ^^^^^^^^^^^^ that's funny, but still not for this lady | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 12/22/2008 2:32:01 AM | | Ill do whatever the girl asks me to do..whatever its all good | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 1/29/2009 3:01:43 AM | | i dont mind some lite to meduim spanking it feels good but if someone did it real hard id wana slap them back, if done rite then its pleasurable and nice , mmmm xxx | |
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| Painful ass spankin' Posted: 1/29/2009 3:35:01 AM | <- owns personalized floggers, PLEASE DON'T STOP AT THE SPANKINGS! Aren't those just foreplay anyway LOL
It's called BDSM, google it. | |
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