| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 8/17/2008 10:16:16 AM | | I had the best chemistry I could ever imagine in my last relationship. Now I don't want to settle for less. My question is... can you actually be drawn and feel like there is a great possibility for chemistry just by reading a profile?I have found myself very drawn to a gentleman simply by what I read. Don't get me wrong he is hot also.lol | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 8/17/2008 10:16:50 AM |
Sorry my definition is in watching how women behave when they talk about their 'chemistry'. I'm sorry it's not vague and irrational enough to meet the nomenclature needs of a woman.
There is no need to apologize for your opinion, just as there is no need to insult the opinions of others that differ from your own. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 8/17/2008 12:26:32 PM | Chemisrty is felt between a man and woman so it is feading the needs of both if it is even a "need". I believe it is more of a desire.
If you criticize it one may wonder if you have experienced it. It can be a beautiful thing. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 9/10/2008 5:23:09 PM | Chemistry 101
Welcome to chemistry 101
I know that you will find it is great fun
For it is the hormones raging in you
Causing you to do the 'naughty' things that you do
But it isn't bad in fact it's so natural
Like the chemistry equations that are so damn factual
But the chemistry of lust is a different equation
That seems to have little relation
To the chemistry taught in all of the schools
Can cause us to act like bloody fools
Dazzled by feelings, high on the view
Motivates you to do things you thought you'd never do
When the chemistry is hot, cheeks start to burn
A deep seated instinct, a primordial yearn
Nature in the raw, the essence of life
Will we graduate from love school and survive the strife | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 9/14/2008 3:45:50 PM | | chemistry is that alarm that goes off inside you when you meet someone... you know, the one where every brain cell stops all normal function and all you think about is..."must have sex with him!"...lol... okay, seriously now, that's a part of it, but for me, chemistry is sooooooo much more than just physical looks.... I need to be totally into someone, brains, communication, sense of humor AND looks for those alarms to start ringing.... | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 9/14/2008 4:55:02 PM | | You know it when you feel it. It is the closest most humans will ever be to heaven while on this mortal coil. Until you've had it it will seem like a myth or a cliche and no one will be able to describe it to you to your satisfaction. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 9/14/2008 9:45:33 PM | | Chemistry btw. a man and woman can happen more often than not. Consider yourself lucky if the chemistry is btw. yourself and somebody available. I think chemistry could run amuck until you are just plain tired of the zing. Depends on what you want and probably need. Chemistry also (unfortunately) involves conversation and eh-ah that is loaded. Also experts state that the chemistry involved also involves your possible children. Genetics. Good luck to all searching, sometimes it may be the smell (good) of the person that indicates you will make it (in my case) three decades plus four down the road. Good luck in your search. And be wise in your smell capabilities. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 9/16/2008 1:10:47 AM | Chemistry is the opposite of Biology.
In Biology you have sex to reproduce. In chemistry you just f*** cu zyou are sooooo horny when you meet 
I think its over rated maybe we should talk about phsyics? lol The curves and the round shapes hahaha | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 9/17/2008 8:51:21 AM | Completely over rated.
How many have truley found that perfect chemistry. If you have, you wouldn't be here. But what is that perfect chemistry ????
Most will never find that fealing they "think" is chemistry. And they will discount many possible relationships based on a "hype" they have never seen, fealt of ever experienced.
For me, it takes alot more than "seconds" for me to tell if "we" are compatable. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 9/18/2008 9:53:08 PM | | I would have to respectfully disagree about chemistry between a man and woman being overrated. I think you can be attracted to someone without chemistry, but for it to evolve into something...you have to have chemistry. No, chemistry is not just something reserved for a Hollywood love story on the big screen, it is a reality for several relationships out there. When you experience true chemistry with someone, you will know it and appreciate it. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 9/18/2008 9:58:19 PM | For me, chemistry is that strong attraction, that creates an overwhelming, two way attraction, that is instantaneoud and "urgent", that is simply "I want you". For those who aren't especially sexually driven, and view relationships as more about companionship than sexual desire, chemistry may not be a big deal. For others, the line between "friends" and "relationship" is very clear, and is sharply dileneated.
For me, I don't want to sleep with a friend, and I don't want to confuse a friendship with a "romantic relationship". Initial chemistry is there, or it isn't, and, for me, defines what it is that is possible with a woman, from the first time we meet, and that never changes. Chemistry can die, leaving friendship, perhaps, but for me, friendship never "grows" to develop chemistry. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 9/19/2008 1:40:48 PM | Each time I experienced it, I have tossed and turned trying to define it. Ha.
Is it the way you walk, is it the walk you talk, is it how you look at me, is it what you say, or is it what you don't? Is it your smell, your touch, your voice? Why do I feel drunk while being sober, clumsy and disorderly, I don't know. But it feels good, and it feels right,and it just is. Its just a heightened state of peace, comfort and excitement, all at the same time. Chemistry has made me go for a skinny boy when I usually like the athletic type, and it has made me cross my seemingly uncrossable boundaries in other ways.
I have come to distinguish mental chemistry and physical chemistry as completely different things. Which explains why a seemingly promising online connection quickly loses its charm when taken face to face.
Beyond the initial rush of horny hormones, I'd say that good chemistry is manifested in a general feeling of well being which brings the best out of each. But I have no idea what it exactly is, other than a way of God to make us dumb and so ensure reproduction. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 9/19/2008 11:39:15 PM | Honestly, I've felt that "advanced" chemistry with more than one person. It isn't always instantaneous, especially when you meet them on the Internet. One of the deepest connections I've ever had with a girl is one I knew for an entire year as a friend online before we began to date.
In real life I tend to think that your body is reacting favorably to a variety of cues: visual, their smell (at a conscience level), phermones (at a subconscience level), how their voice sounds, the content of what they're saying to you and how their brain works and even how they react to what you're saying. You might also be picking up things from the other people that are viewing this person and maybe a competitive reaction kicks in. At this point it's mostly attraction and your body might stoke the fire, so to speak with reward chemicals. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 1/3/2009 12:01:13 AM | | Chemistry for me is when you meet and both of you enjoy each other's company so much that you don't want the meeting to end...you want the clock to stop ticking and just continue whatever you are doing. I do not mean sex either... You want to learn everything about each other and feel drawn to them... again not necessarily physically. Don't want it to end kind of feelings.. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 1/3/2009 12:10:59 PM | Au Contraire..For me, chemistry cannot be overestimated..It's that innate powerfully magnetic lure which draws you to another. It's primal and unmistakable ..A familiarity with another and longing just to share time and space with that person....
Its a combination of physical /emotional attraction.. One without the other negates chemistry..In other words, if someone turns you on visually but the peronality rubs you the wrong way... deal over..
Without "chemistry", the relationship is rendered platonic.. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 1/3/2009 12:52:12 PM | | what people mean bye chemistry is somethings you have in common.but it sounds like somebody who likes what i like and thinks like me.well for me i do not want to be with another me i want someone different then me if not it would be boring right. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 1/3/2009 4:23:57 PM | What is it? Hormones ruling your head and, sometimes, your heart.
Is it necessary to have a romantic relationship? Yes, it is.
Is it enough? No, it isn't.
Chemistry can be on many levels.
But between a man and a woman who seek romance it is physical first and mental after. This is why you won't have a romantic connection without basic physical attraction.
I agree with Sepia: without it, you simply have a platonic friendship. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 1/3/2009 9:53:28 PM | | I honestly think it goes down to level of our actual body chemistry and genetics....i kinda think we are attracted to people for mating purposes...it is natures way of telling us who our body wants....i know that sounds really raw and some won't like that explanation, but is what i believe... | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 1/4/2009 9:08:48 PM | | Chemistry is how well 2 people click. That can include multiple things. Physical attraction, intelligence, personality, common interests / values / beliefs etc. I believe chemistry is necessary for a relationship. But I don't expect instant chemistry. Sometimes chemistry can develop after you get to know a person better. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 1/4/2009 9:18:11 PM | Chemistry... ahhhhh lovely chemistry...
It is that snap pop and sizzle... :)
It is that comfortable silence...
It is that kiss that makes your knees buckle...
It is that smile that makes you smile even when you don't want to...
It is that single simple touch that gives you chills all the way down your spine...
I want chemistry... and it is NEVER over-rated. | |
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 1/6/2009 8:27:39 AM |
“Chemistry”, that is the feeling when everything aligns in conversation, expression, reactions and being in right place at the right time. The outcome is the ingredients which don’t blow up in your face; in fact; it is “delightfully consumed”. Uhmmm, were we talking about cooking or meeting someone special?
Personally, I do trust chemistry.
Chemistry is exciting to me in that when I feel it “it just flows” in everything and a euphoria kicks in. What a great feeling. “Spring time” no matter the season.
I don’t mind the heart beating faster and the thoughts of when I can see her again. Chemistry is like laughing. I do something and the reactions are explosive, in you.
Yah! Leaving you with sore muscles and a smile on your face as well as your thoughts. Imagine us there anytime.
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| Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it?
Posted: 1/6/2009 10:34:14 AM | Chemistry is multi-faceted to me. I know when it's there...from the first hug, the first time you can look into each other's eyes and just *know* that there is something there past the initial attraction. I think it's also that feeling of comfort with that person as well as intensity. As far as the sex thing goes, I do believe that it takes awesome chemistry to have mindblowing sex.....
When I feel that chemistry, everything is right with the world.  | |
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