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Posted: 1/29/2006 6:46:21 PM | | Many kinds of love, but kids are different than like a mate. Many do it, but they also most times have a lot of proublems, and become sort of heartless to peoples feelings. Not all but most do. Live how you want, and try not to hurt the ones you love. | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 6:59:43 PM | If ones not your husband or a son , You should cut one out of the picture.
Seriously / Honestly : I think you already know the answer to your question. You know right from wrong. So if you havent made a commitment to one or either of them you have a decision to make.
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 7:07:49 PM |
I've been seeing 2 men at once and I love both in different ways of course.
Honesty is the most important thing when you are in love with 2 people. Have a meeting with the 3 of you and explain that you enjoy each of them in different ways. I'm sure that they will understand how hard this has been for you. If they are truly in love with you as well, they should be able to accept this arrangement. In fact, I've known a few trios that actually ended up buying a house together and raising (collectively) 11 kids. One of the trios is still together after 40 years. It can work. When the trio involves 2 men, they frequently become best friends too. Everyone wins.  | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 7:08:22 PM | | Cherokeegirl Im with what you said.People have two wifes too its called polygami,hope thats spelled right | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 7:18:09 PM | cherokeegirl:
If i go on the Jerry Springer show i'll take you with so we can disagree. That is what do on that joke show isn't it?  | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 7:20:39 PM | Just sounds like you're being selfish too me...But i do agree that you can care about more than one person at a time...
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Posted: 1/29/2006 7:24:21 PM | | How do you figure that i'm being selfish? I'm loving 2 men not 1. If I was selfish I would love only myself. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 7:28:56 PM | | 1nonlyluv...naaa...don't air my dirty laundry in public...lol...and shouldn't you change your nic ? 2nonly luv? just joking with ya! | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 7:47:45 PM | I don't love only myself My mother taught me to share and not be selfish. So what the hell do you think i'm doing i'm sharing just like my mom said to do. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 7:49:33 PM | Having hard time myself as well! Trying to found one man who is honest and not double dating me. Hate it! I wouldn't do it so why, would anyone else do it. Unfaithful to yourself and to your heart! Found one, other wise just be friends with the next person other wise I don't know what to tell you people. ITs hard to found one.  | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 7:56:28 PM | cherokeegirl:
We ar having an orgy on another forum maybe you would like to join in. It is do women use men for sex, come in on it and have a little fun | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 8:56:41 PM | Yes, you can Love two men at once. I do not think everyone does this on purpose, at least knowingly, on my end. I know I did not do it on purpose, but it did happen. I meet one guy at the gym and when he said hello, I new that was not just, a Hello.
Like the movie with TOM CRUSE, "He had me at Hello"... It was LOVE at FIRST SIGHT. Then, I found out he was a cheater, and he had the nerve to tell me, that he had a live in girlfried. And, he wanted to date us both until he decided which one he liked the best. I should have told him to go to Hell...But, I was so in LOVE, and I know that was weak of me, but I Loved him so much I wanted to be the one he LOVED. What a fool I was!
After years of not finding love. I was just not ready to give up it up, yet. Those wonderful feeling, turned to tears. After waiting for so many years to find Love. I had not felt so good and so bad all at once, and so deceived in so many years. I was a lost soul after that heart break, and I was stunned and in shock, and I ws operating out of fear, of loosing him.
When, my eyes were open, I realized I never really had him cin the first place. Oh he started to fall in LOVE with me too, that was not in his plans, so it was a bit hard for him, too. Trying to juggle two women. Nobody ever wins, at a cheaters games of using and hurting people, getting her to wash his underware while taking the other woman out to dinner.
I thought he was the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Then, I meet another guy that wanted to be "the shoulder for me to cry on" over that other guy. I poured my heart out to him. So, before I know it I was starting to have feelings for him, too.
I had to let them both go, in the end. When, it rains it pours and it was raining
"Cats" and "DOGS".... this time! Would'nt you know after a Love drout, now, I had more feelings, than I wanted, both good and bad mixed together. Because, he finally told me that he too, had a live in girlfriend...Wow...Deceived by two guys at once!!!! They both had told me that they were single and ready for Love.
What makes people lie and cheat on the one they are sleeping with. If they want to date other women then they should break it off. But, then, who would be there FREE babysitter, right...Or, to have a woman on there arm, so they could look stable at the workplace, to impress there boss, and cook there dinners. But, they are living a lie and they just use women, and hurt us all....I wanted to tell the other women that they were cheating on them. But, the truth is they must have known this and just needed a place to live, or something was in it for them?
I would never have dated either of them had I know that they were cheaters. My modo, has always proudly been "I DO NOT SETTLE FOR SCRAPS". And, unknowingly I ended up doing just that. I have learned my lessons and I do not think it will happen to me again. I was too trusting and I finally opened my heart and allowed them to break it.
So, you may be in the same situation, as I was? Because, it is unfortunate that a few bad guys can spoil it for the rest of the good guys. It is not fun to be cheated on and lied to and it makes us girls look bad, which is not fair to us, when we have been deceived. You Girls, that are living with these guys, need to think about what your doing. After all, why should your guy buy the cow? If he can get the milk for free, from you and then look for a victum like me, to fill his cup up, too. Because, we did not know they were cheaters. I took them at there word, I trusted them and that was a joke on both of us girls.
Be sure to go see if anyone is living with a guy when you first date him. It is sad that we can not give our Trust at the start anymore. We have to protect our hearts. And, be sure they are truly good guys from the get go. OK. Cheaters are out there so if you hit a red light proceed with causion.
I did Learn from my painful experience. I found out that I was not dead, as I was beginning to wonder if I would ever fall in Love again? I found that I could still feel Butterflys, and that kind of excitment, only comes with beginning of Love. I felt like a teenager again.
I am not bitter and I thank them for making me realize that I can open my Heart to Love with the right man this time. LOVE can happen, again. But, from now on I will have my eyes wide open.
And, I know there are a lot of GREAT guys out there and I know there is "ONE GOOD ONE" out there just for ME. So, have fun fishing, and perhaps you will find a real MAN out there, that is WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE...and TRUST. HE ONLY NEEDS ONE WOMAN...HE IS A TRUTHFUL AND HONEST MAN. So, go ahead and open your heart for the right man. LOVE is waiting for you. Put LOVE out in the universe and it will come back to you, Smile and be happy.  to the good guys out there....Love with all your heart and you won't want to be with anyone else, not ever! so, go  and find True   now. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 9:51:34 PM | I think dating two people at once is a far cry from having a live-in lover that you are covering up.
OP:I CAN tell you this. I got run off another site by a pack of foaming-at-the-mouth women when I suggested that it was possible to love more than one person at a time. "Cheater" was the mildest thing I was called--and I wasn't even seeing anyone at the time!
It didn't matter how many times I corrected mis-conceptions or how much detail I put into my replies, they went into search and destroy mode and stayed there. What's funny is the most vicious ones had very suggestive screen names: talk about double standards...*whew!*
This affliction seems gender-linked, but a few men jumped on the band wagon -- possibly to curry favor with the women who were afraid of competition, or whatever the heck they were so insecure about.
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Posted: 1/29/2006 9:54:17 PM | .
Unfortunately there are a lot of people around like that lately: Self-centered. Some people do not care who they hurt as long as they get their self-gratification.
That’s why I pay close attention. If she has another man in her life, I’m simply not interested in her.
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Posted: 1/30/2006 8:06:09 AM | cherokeegirl:::
I was just cutting up with you. I'm not having an orgy. But yes I do have feelings for 2 wonderful men and no i'm not sleeping with either one. So i'm not using them. I am really not as bad as I sound. | |
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Posted: 1/30/2006 8:34:39 AM |
We women are pretty disappointed with you men also and that's why sometimes it takes two of you and sometimes more to equal one GOOD man.
Stop going after the disappointing ones - and WAIT for the one GOOD man.  | |
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Posted: 1/30/2006 9:40:08 AM | Hey Chip,
I've been her a couple of days.
The thread asks "Can you love 2 people at once?" - it doesn't say they both have to be the same sex... | |
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