| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/30/2006 10:43:06 PM | | I've loved 3 women at the same time...unfortunatelly none of them loved me back. SO.........................ANGRY..............WITH.....................WORLD | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/31/2006 12:55:49 AM | | can you love two people at once... It is possible if one person is a friend and the other is a romantic interest but having two complete romantic entanglements going at once oh me.. I couldn't... might accidently speak the others name as you sleep. | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/31/2006 6:06:41 AM | | Keep in mind if both men know whats going on, fine. In this case it sounds like no. Just remember it's peoples hearts your messing with and your most likely well on your way to breaking one of them | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/31/2006 6:12:59 AM | Of course you can. I love many people in my life. I love my best friend, my family, my dreams and so on. In your case, I know you are talking about a partner and my answer to that would be no you can't. There is a person out there that when you meet them you will never want to love another person in that way, and when you find that person I have no doubt in my mind you will know. I would have to say, continue searching because if you say you love both of these men you very well might, but not in the way you should be striving for.
Cheers
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/31/2006 6:56:15 AM | (Msg 44) But yes I do have feelings for 2 wonderful men and no i'm not sleeping with either one.
Therein lies your problem. Even though many people say differently sex is what constitutes a romantic relationship. When we say two people are romantically involved we mean they are having sex.
You will be able to tell which one is right for you when you have sex with them. There will be a difference and you will know it. Don't choose until you check it out. You may end up stuck with a dud and both you and him will get hurt in the end.
Two people do not automatically click sexually. Sexual compatibility does not just happen. It is either there or it isn't. That is what you have to discover. Once you do that the choice will be easy. | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/31/2006 7:17:17 AM | | Looking at your pic, Its not about one love with you, love does'nt even meet you, with a head like that, you just take what ever you can get... | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 7:19:36 AM | Mate, have a look at you, sort yourself out You've only got yourself to blame..Have a pull and get to the gym
Don't blame the woman. they've got to be attracted to you, | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/31/2006 7:35:50 AM | zHottestwoman..I love you already!!
You've given me answers I've been looking for in regards to wondering if the woman I love, could love another.
Do you think though of the possibilities of her being tempted on for example a girls night out, being drunk would she be tempted to have a fling sometime on that night, if she loved me, could she just have sex and hide it if she was in love. Do woman in love do that, or am I mistaken of the many females out and about are all not in love, single, or unhappily married... | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/31/2006 8:16:33 AM | It's not a matter of whether YOU can love more than one person... It's a matter of whether those other people can love more than one person.... ;)
Think about it.
You are so self-absorbed into whether it's 'OK' to love more than one person.... and I don't mean to say being 'self-aborbed' is a bad thing... it isn't. Actually, it's a good thing.
But put yourself in one of those other two people's shoes for a moment....
What would you think if you knew the one you loved, is loving you AND another person? Would it bother you?
What if you DIDN'T know about him/her loving another person? Would you be obliviously happy NOT knowing about any others?
Therein lies the rub.... it's not a matter of whether you can or cannot love more than one person. It's a matter of whether you could be one of many that the OTHER is loving....and would you mind that?
If don't mind it, then you deserve the two loves in your life. If you DO mind it, then you're just a selfish, hypocrit and you need to drop both of them and come to grips with yourself first before clinging onto others.
I've lived enough lives to know that there is not enough love to go 'round.
I personally had been a 'one woman' man forever... so it seemed.... and am now in a place in my life where I've learned that my Anglo-Saxon, Christian-based, one woman for one man works for most folks... but not for me or my dear friends/lovers.
I'm involved with several women now. Each knows they are not exclusive to the other. None of them have other lovers than me. But if they did, I wouldn't care, provided everyone was in good health.
I love each of them whole-heartedly. I'd do anything for any of them.
Which one would I save if our life-boat overturned? The first one I came to, of course.
The point is, I'm not so foolish, egotistical, insecure to think that I'm the end-all, be-all for any single woman. But if a woman accepts what I have to offer in friendship, love, passion and life... then I'm blessed.
I was a 'one woman' man, but life doesn't move in straight lines. For whatever reasons, I attracted others as others attracted me. It happens. Some of us fight this situation, others.... let happen. I let it happen. I won't deny anything in this life.
Each of my friends has found in me a person who is completely honest and upfront about EVERYTHING. Each of them is just as honest in return. They are the most gracious, kind, warm people I've every known in my life.
None of us measure the time apart from each other. Nor do we measure the time together. When we find each other in time, there is only that moment... and we savor it as if it were our last moments together.
Three years of savory moments later, we are all still together and just as in love.
God bless those who find ONE to be with. At least you have found LOVE....
But don't condemn those of us who have found a different path. Life is too big and too short to judge others. Just enjoy that which makes you feel good....... as long as it doesn't hurt others. | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 8:57:26 AM | | Cordium, I understand exactly what you are saying, and completely agree with your points, having been in the same situation in the past. It is important to have the honesty and communication skills essential to that kind of relationship. It does indeed work for some people, but it is rare to find them. | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 11:35:54 AM | When it comes to loving someone - sorry - I don't share and I would expect the same vice versa too. ONE TO ONE equation.
Loving someone - in my book - is unique ~ special ~ untouchable ~ sacred.
buzz | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/31/2006 11:55:28 AM | | what level of love? We talking the all-encompassing LOVE? I don't see how, if it is that type, you could love 2 at once. Once you get to the trois stage of the relationship, you might think it love, but I suspect lustful infatuation. | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 12:24:25 PM | I think it's only possible to be "in love" with one person at a time, but love or care for different people for different reasons. I can only be "in love" with one person at a time, and think it's kind of yukky to be double dipping in the pool of love. | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 2:32:38 PM | | Double Dipping....Now that is gross.......You cannot be in love with 2 different people at the same time.....Because if you were in love with just one of them, you wouldnt subject them to the risk of disease.....So, to the 1nonlyluv girl.....You might love the sensation...or love whats between his legs, but you CANNOT be in love with both at once....Perhaps you are confused by the true meaning of what true love really is? | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 4:05:12 PM | AWAITINGYU:::::
I never said that I was in love with 2 men, I said that I love 2 men and would you do if you fell in love? I'm not in love with either!!! So do I need to add you to my list since you are AWATING For who ME!!!! lol now that is funny there I don't care who you are!  | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 4:17:47 PM | Dear troystonz
First of all I would not even consider you for anything in my life and I'm not a mate!!!!! I am very much single and can do whatever I damn well please | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/31/2006 5:45:41 PM | We can lust two people at once...love one and be in love with another possibly....but being ""in real love" with two people would be impossible I believe:)JMHO | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/31/2006 6:20:46 PM | hey! are we talkin' bout at the same TIME? inna same BED? sweet!! lol
will somebody please answer? ...hello? | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 6:23:30 PM | | Hey cherokeegirl.............I really like your sense of humor, I think we could be goods friends. I think you get a good laugh out of these forums too! Good Luck in your search I know you will find a good man ah hell maybe even 2 ( lol ) | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 6:42:38 PM | Hell 1nonlylove...I have enough trying to find 1 good man let alone 2 ! If I ever make it to Tennesee I want some of that good ole Southern cooking!!!! | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 7:02:10 PM | CHEROKEEGIRL.. If you come to Tennessee I would love to cook you a good meal and then I'd take you a bar here in town and let you have some fun with our good ole country redneck guys. They would love ya. Maybe someday I'll make it to Canada and if I do find me a third man. lol | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/31/2006 7:05:39 PM | Hey Mike I do believe we have been in bed together before. lol Well hell if we havn't than maybe we should lol | |
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