| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/2/2006 4:57:10 PM | no answers .. have not made up my mind more confused now than ever no person on here has helped .. well maybe Mike | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/2/2006 5:39:51 PM | I just don't see the problem here.
Love is an emotion.
If you love them, you love them.
Seems simple to me. | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/2/2006 7:58:32 PM | I had two girlfriends at the same time for almost three years. It was one of the worst times of my life looking back on it. Way too much lying and hiding and guilt. Everyday was a nightmare. My excuse at the time was that 'I loved' them both. In the end, I lost them both.
I guess if you are being honest with them and they accept it, it would be OK. But the minute you are dishonestwith one or the other, you are not only doing them wrong. But, yourself. | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/2/2006 8:18:52 PM | I know alot of guys who would really like to "love" 2 people at once!! Sheeesh, but Im a one man woman! Whos not even from around here, oh well, Im bored in Canada!! | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/2/2006 8:40:20 PM | | Not possible. It's not love. It's something else. You may get something from one and something from the other but it's not love. You can't be there for someone completely when a part of you is somewhere else. It's simply not possible. | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/3/2006 6:55:06 AM | Twilight: Just because it's not possible in your world doesn't mean it doesn't happen between others in their worlds.
Not very healthy to close your mind to the possibilities of broader lives and experiences.
Eponymouss said it right... it is possible IF you're honest and upfront about EVERYTHING.
I learned early on that life is so much simpler, cleaner, easier if you don't lie... especially to your lovers. Lovers are supposed to be your friends and confidants... why lie to your best friends?
As for 'being there' for everyone, let me tell you a secret.... love ain't that complicated. It is either there between one or two or five lovers or it isn't.
If it is, then you'll find love (the emotion, the passions, the realities) flows like water.
Perhaps I'm lucky enough to be involved with mature, independent women because the 'need and fulfillment' aspects of our cumulative relationships keeps everyone's cup full. Perhaps we're all equally blessed biorythmically as well as when someone is down, I'm up and can pull her/them back up and visa versa x3.
Just because most of you women, and perhaps men, haven't met someone mature or evolved enough to foresake ego, self, and face to nuture a multiple parnter relationship doesn't mean that there aren't a few of us out here.... more than you might expect... and closer than you might expect.
It's just most of us don't have the need to advertise or exploit the situation. And most of us know that we, the man in the middle, so to speak, aren't the power base. If the women didn't accept me, I wouldn't be able to describe all this to you. Men are blessed in a woman's company. I'm blessed three times over.
And as for multiple partners in bed or having multiple partners over for dinner, well, my friends are as different and individual as can be. Noone has expressed the desire to meet, much less have dinner or sex with the others. ... and that is fine by me. I never have wanted more than one lover in bed anyway.
Maybe I'm too simple-minded, but I need all my wits about me just to manage one well enough to keep her coming... back. | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/3/2006 1:39:44 PM | I couldn't have said it any better. That sounded like someone that knows what he wants. You are allright with me | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/3/2006 2:45:26 PM | | ?? Could be my imagination, but somehow the OP's nickname and the thread title contradict ?? | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/3/2006 3:07:19 PM | i would have to agree with ya.
i was dating a girl who turned out to be seeing 2 other guys plus me, and lets just say i did not hesitate to end that one  | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/3/2006 3:20:11 PM | ..hey I'm a few pounds over to but ain't half bad lookin'..maybe I had your "headline",I could love two women at once...."Come on closer baby,I'm almost there oooh aaahh little more" something like that..does this only work for chicks or what!.  | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/3/2006 4:58:50 PM | | Hey sweetheart you can still love 2 or 3 or4 at one time it is just fine with everyone on here | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/3/2006 5:20:43 PM | Hmmm... firstly, you are in love with 2 at once so you have already answered your own question.
You can also love others at the same time like your mother, father, brothers, sisters, etc although it’s a different kind of love.
The question is, are you having sex with the 2 you love?
If you are then the question is what are the consequences? I can only speak as if it was happening to me, but if I knew that there was another man that the lady loved, then I would be trying to prove to her that I loved her more and I was the right one for her. But if I knew she was sleeping with the other person then the motivation to prove my love would diminish.
The question is, if both said they were leaving which one would you rush to first? | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/3/2006 5:30:04 PM | | hello sevice with a smile ... I did not say that I was in LOVE with each of them and if can remember I told everyone before that I was NOT having sex with either. | |
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Posted: 2/3/2006 5:35:19 PM | Sorry, but the strain of reading all 6 pages just put me off so I was just going on your original post and not your replies.
Well yep, if we are talking about numbers then theoretically you can love the whole world. I wonder what the world record is for how many people can practically, be loved at the same time? I suppose 7, i.e. 1 for each day of the week. | |
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