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 RainMaiden

Joined: 9/27/2005
Msg: 176
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 2:41:34 PM
It is possible. Trust me.
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 177
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can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 3:02:18 PM
i'm w/ rain on this
 1nonlyluv

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 178
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 3:06:24 PM
i'm with rain tooo HELLO MIKE I need a 3rd on
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 179
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can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 3:14:04 PM
luv: 3rd on? huh?
 Waiting41

Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 180
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 3:17:43 PM
Unless someone has experienced this, they have no right
to be judgemental and give an opinion on it.
And, that, only leaves the people that have experienced it.......
and, therefore, the answer is......YES......
YOU CAN LOVE TWO PEOPLE AT ONCE!!
PROBLEM SOLVED!!!
 1nonlyluv

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 181
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 3:18:06 PM
you know what I mean ass 3rd one (man) i MIGHT need more than 2 now!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 182
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can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 3:21:05 PM
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..... 3rd ONE....

waiting: u tell 'em!
 worstguyonhere

Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 183
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 3:30:57 PM
According to me, you can desire two, lust for two, be excited by two, want two, or even fcuk two. But to actually love is to actually comitt, rather to give all of ones self. If that component is missing then you are still truly only loving one.
 1nonlyluv

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 184
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 3:32:18 PM
well i just don't know maybe I need to start another forum on that one HUH?
 Eponymouss

Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 185
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can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 3:50:34 PM
I believe I was honestly in love with both of the girls in my situation. Doesn't make it right. Like I said a few pages back, it was the worst time of my life.

I think those people who are saying it isn't possible, are clinging to the ideal. The realities of life are a lot different than the guidebooks we follow say they are.
 ex-princess

Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 186
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 3:55:49 PM
I love everybody.
One day they all are going to beat me up.
I am taking a karate class for that.
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AL,
ex-p
 chunkymonkey

Joined: 1/6/2006
Msg: 187
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 4:37:30 PM

I love everybody


Would you love me too?

8)

?

Now is that love or "lloovvee"?

>8)
 LORI1907

Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 188
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 4:39:44 PM
If you love more than one, you love neither enough.
 EROTIC_VYBEZ

Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 189
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can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 4:53:51 PM
love is a socially acceptable form of mental illness ....giggles...need i say more?
 mamastella

Joined: 11/8/2005
Msg: 190
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 4:58:00 PM
Here Here Zentral!!!

The question was "Can you love more than one person at a time?" That does not mean you have to have sex with both to be in love with them. I have loved 3 men at one time. Each met a different need for me....companionship, emotional, and physical...all different but loved them all.
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 191
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can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/4/2006 5:00:00 PM
exp: actually... well, this is the first I'VE heard about it, an', quite frankly, i'm flattered! now, i was thinkin that everybody would only beat you up if we, i mean, they knew you loved everybody ELSE... which i guess you just told us....






man, are you in a lotta trouble!
 CHARMED35

Joined: 2/3/2006
Msg: 192
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/5/2006 10:13:39 AM
Depends on what your definition of “love” is. I think most of us have been “attracted to” and “cared for” more than one guy (maybe three or four…lol) at one time. But for me, if I’m “in-love” with someone it’s usually reserved for one guy at a time cause they tend to consume your thoughts and you could not imagine being with anyone but him. But then again, everyone is different. I think you need to decide what you want out of either relationship and go from there.
 Isabeau

Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 193
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/5/2006 10:19:54 AM
I think it's possible to love more than one man at once, but not to be IN love with more than one at once. If neither one seems like the front runner, then you're still at that infatuation stage.
 mantowoman

Joined: 2/5/2006
Msg: 194
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/5/2006 10:38:17 AM
I think you love who you love where ever youf ind love, if it more than one so be it
 zzjanedoe

Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 195
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can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/5/2006 10:41:42 AM
Of course it is possible to love 2 men at once. Just as it is possible to love all of your children the same. Each child is different but you love them all the same. People are so unhappy because it is impossible to find that ONE person who fulfills all your needs.
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 196
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can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/5/2006 10:59:53 AM
beauty: i disagree. i think you CAN be IN love w/ 2 people at the same time... life is very much like that!
 franke

Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 197
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/5/2006 12:32:23 PM
It's just selfish to only love one person. We all need lots of love. One the other hand it can also be time consuming and difficult to really build the trust and intimacy that loving someone involves.
 franke

Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 198
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/5/2006 8:42:01 PM
"The OP is really mixed up as far as I can see, willing to take on anyone who will hop in the sack with her and she'll say she loves them before breakfast served."

Did I miss something - when did "love" = "sex" in the OP's question?

Now that s some "old fashioned moral values" we should have been
 ladypagey

Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 199
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can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/5/2006 10:52:07 PM
I love people withe innocent quality that makes me me and I really feel love is as innocent as you make and yes you can say " I love you" to everyone as long as you don't want to carry it to next level. That should be only and only one sort of love.. The person of your dreams.. the ideal one the one you can't live without......
 a-touch-of-class

Joined: 2/3/2006
Msg: 200
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/5/2006 11:05:48 PM
I find most men can spread thier love between women but women tend to be one love at a time gals. IF you do a list of pros and cons of each guy and not list the positives but just the pet peeves (what usually makes or breaks a relationship) once you make the list the choice will come easy.
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