| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/5/2006 11:40:53 PM | pros and cons can be a good way to decide the tender hearted and caring ones from the rest. But since I love surprises... better study my list for that...add the rest to that one... | |
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Posted: 2/5/2006 11:59:05 PM | guess what on my list of pros and cons ya get a 10 and that would scare the tar out of me. That rating makes me swim away as I hide in the mystery deep of the pool. 4 1/2 stars???? eeks better hide deep in the pool..... | |
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Posted: 2/6/2006 12:30:24 AM | No offense to anyone here. We are taught from a very young age, that in Gods way, we are to love everyone in a spiritual way. And I know one man that I feel that way for, but he is in an emotional type of love with me.
However, I have met a gentleman, that I am very attracted to, and feel I could fall in love with him very easily for all reasons, but he is hesitant as most men seem to be. I know in my heart, that he does have feelings for me. And although he doesn't necessarily say it with all his words, I see it in his eyes, I feel it in his touch, and I love being with him, and talking to him. He has changed my own feelings even about myself to the better. Yes, he got through the barrier walls that even I couldn't knock down. Now, do I marry the one I love spiritually, or do I go with my heart and my emotional feelings in hopes of the second man feeling the same for me some day. I'm putting my vote on the second one, because we already have the spiritual and going beyond that area. Oh, and the Lord makes three, but is #1 and always will be. So only time will tell, I guess.
So in answer to the question>my answer is yes. It's not always the same type of love, or for the same reasons, but we can love 2 people at once. It's just up to us on which direction we take. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2006 12:43:22 AM | | dreamalot... yes, that is the very words I have been trying to say... loving each person with a purity and caring about each person with a pure love....It is possible I will never find the love of my life but I do sincerely love each of you with a pure love........ | |
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Posted: 2/6/2006 12:56:43 AM | Wow!!! And that's coming from a man. As the military say. Hooya!!!! If I'm reading this right, you are saying just like daddy always said. There's one type of female that a man will take to bed, and there's another type that a man will take home to meet his mother.
That's called the difference between a woman that thinks she's good, and a good woman.
When I was young in high school, the boys always talked in the hallways about the girls, and it's the truth of what they said. There's girls that they go to bed and then take her to her home, and there's girls that you take home and then she goes to bed. The first doesn't usually win the boys heart, just what's in his pants, for that little bit of time, till he's ready to settle down and realize his heart belongs to the one he hasn't bedded.
So, think 1nonlyluv you have to decide which one shows you the most respect, not gives the most lines that you're buying. You are not the only person that could get hurt, so please be careful for your sake as well as theirs. Cause sooner or later you're going to be forced to make a decision, so one of the men will be hurt. Besides you're not a man. It's the men who can have a multiple number of wives, but not the women, in different countries and religions.
It's a mans world. And I have a feeling they will end up being the one's to make the choice on you, instead of you on them. My ex would have called you a gold-digger, just there for all you can get from both, and drop both of them later. Why don't you ask in prayer what you should do!!!!  | |
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Posted: 2/6/2006 12:58:53 AM | Wow!!! And that's coming from a man. As the military say. Hooya!!!! If I'm reading this right, you are saying just like daddy always said. There's one type of female that a man will take to bed, and there's another type that a man will take home to meet his mother.
That's called the difference between a woman that thinks she's good, and a good woman.
When I was young in high school, the boys always talked in the hallways about the girls, and it's the truth of what they said. There's girls that they go to bed and then take her to her home, and there's girls that you take home and then she goes to bed. The first doesn't usually win the boys heart, just what's in his pants, for that little bit of time, till he's ready to settle down and realize his heart belongs to the one he hasn't bedded.
So, think 1nonlyluv you have to decide which one shows you the most respect, not gives the most lines that you're buying. You are not the only person that could get hurt, so please be careful for your sake as well as theirs. Cause sooner or later you're going to be forced to make a decision, so one of the men will be hurt. Besides you're not a man. It's the men who can have a multiple number of wives, but not the women, in different countries and religions.
It's a mans world. And I have a feeling they will end up being the one's to make the choice on you, instead of you on them. My ex would have called you a gold-digger, just there for all you can get from both, and drop both of them later. Why don't you ask in prayer what you should do!!!! | |
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Posted: 2/6/2006 8:37:28 AM | dreamalot: right now i'm not making any decision on which one i want and in the end I may not choose either!!!!!! WHO KNOWS? | |
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Posted: 2/6/2006 8:45:25 AM | | Yes, I feel that you can love 2 people at once. I'm sure that both of the people whom you love, makes you happy. However, both makes you act like a different person, but the question is who loves you back the same. Sometimes, people take the love that they think that they deserve. I have yet to figure somethings out. Take care. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2006 7:34:42 PM | Of course you can love more than one person. you love your family dont you? As for the opposite sex I thought you were supposed to "love the one your with!"    | |
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Posted: 2/7/2006 9:27:32 AM | mike: you are so wild!!!! TROUBLE IS MY MIDDLE NAME!!!
and dear i will keep both and I will have you as my 3rd and if someone else is the licky one they be my 4th. | |
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Posted: 2/7/2006 10:52:51 AM | | love of family and adopted kin with great advice. When I love I love sincerely and with respect. Don't think I could have two hot and heavy relationships going at once... that is just my way and just my two cents....remember each of you are super heroes... super heroes fall in another catagory....super men and super women...... | |
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Posted: 2/7/2006 4:17:47 PM | | By the true meaning of love, you can only love one not both... You can have a crush or obsess over both, but not love... In my opinion... | |
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| can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 2/7/2006 8:38:45 PM | Maybe there are 2 questions in this forum ( well actually there a several questionable side threads  )
Can you love 2 people at once?
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Once you realize that you do love two people at once, should you stop yourself from doing so?
>Keptreal< is it a math thing? 2 = every man? and what length of time is considered long enough for you to know for certain that the OP has built a trust foundation for her feelings of love? | |
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Posted: 2/7/2006 9:26:00 PM | I think you need to take some time away from both men and see who you miss the most.
OR honestly, tell both of the men what is going on and see who stays! | |
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Posted: 2/7/2006 10:17:21 PM | | Yeah feeling are feelings and they are real! Maybe you can love two people, but how do you make them feel if they know they are one of two? | |
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Posted: 2/9/2006 9:47:23 AM | | Hey Mike, I may just have to put you on the top of my list, if you keep talking to me like that. I think we could invent some danger. I like it like that. Come here baby!!! | |
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Posted: 2/9/2006 9:50:57 AM | To keptreal:
DON"T WORRY HONEY YOU ARE NOT IN THE RUNNING FOR THE 4TH PLACE. So you can chill out for a little while.  | |
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Posted: 2/23/2006 7:21:00 AM | | ever heard the song about "trying to love two, aint easy to do". well someone always gets hurt like that and then theres no respect like that. PS i've done that before and almost got my head shot off, so take my advice and stick with one. | |
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Posted: 2/23/2006 8:42:26 AM | Oh... and you should really try not to live your life according to some pop song.
even if you like to sing along
and it feels so good
an may even produce wood
but hey ... its just a pop song.
Ever hear the song.... by the Kinks
[Rock and Roll Fantasy]
"Don't want to live my life
livin' in a rock and roll fantasy
Don't want to spend my life
trapped on the edge of reality
don't want to live my life
livin' in a rock and roll dream."
oh... to the OP >....you may love two people even three or fifty
but I don't think you can be "in love with two people"
but I may be wrong so you will have to make your own choices.
I had a girl say that to me when I was 20
and I said "I can fix that easy... bye" | |
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