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 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
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ONCE BITTEN.....R U SHY?

Bitten more than once, not the least bit shy. Life is too short to live with motes, dragons and armed guards around the heart. I live by the theory to love honestly, deeply and often (and by "often" I don't mean just romantic relationships, I mean people, places, things, pets, etc.) An open heart will help heal wounds of the past (at least it does for me.) JMO
 HighlanderPrincess
Joined: 9/8/2010
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Posted: 9/20/2011 6:54:34 AM
My advise is this I have been married twice and can say this it hurts for awhile then you get right back up on the horse and try again. To be honest there is someone out there for you that can be honest enough to tell you their feelings from day one. Although my Ex hubbies are just that thing is you never know what tomorrow brings. Think of it this way there is someone out there for everyone. Thing is do you honestly think they are worth being with or not. Remember no one is really perfict so when you do make a mistake is that person going to be willing enough to over look it or put you threw the grinder? You know exactly what you want in your own life there is no one in this world that can tell you any different but knowing and getting what you really want in someone is hard work like anything else. Being open and honest with the one person you meet is a big start and being totaly honest to yourself and your heart is the biggest step you could even do.
 HighlanderPrincess
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Posted: 9/20/2011 7:03:58 AM
I agree wtih you I already have had someone try and Scam me on this dateing line it was a good thing I had the good sence to check out his so called check before I was going to cash it for the guy or I would be in jail right now. It is a good thing I have been looking for someone for awhile or I would be totaly turned off online dateing. Remember nothing is ever perfict but there is some nice guys out there just they may not be on at this time. Lol I am playing it low key and I am not looking for them I am a ferm beleaver that is a guy is intrested he will come to me and I stand by that. I have seen way to many other ladies this includeing friends run after guys and it never work out makeing the guy come to you then you know he wants you for sure not someone else. It is just common sence some guys maybe shy but if they can't have enough nerve to ask someone to date chances are they will not be intrested.
ONCE BITTEN.....R U SHY?
Posted: 9/20/2011 7:02:39 PM
I'm looking for someone with goals. I don't want to be their reason for living.

Someone who can believe that the sweet things I say and do are new and meant for the soul purpose of seeing them smile.

I think I've learned the hard way that people change when you hope they would stay the same and stay the same when you try to force them to change.

I guess what I'm saying is it's important to know what you want and learn from your mistakes.

 Jaimes004
Joined: 8/18/2011
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Posted: 9/21/2011 12:22:25 PM
The one thing you must accomplish, is letting go completely of your past relationship, and look at any new possibility without bias of past experience. That's the hard part. If you still have trust issues, or whatever it may be, it's because you have not healed yet, OR the new SO is someone you do not need to be with!

Now I will say, after being divorced, my tolerance for immaturity, drama and game playing has gone way down! I simply won't stand for much of it.

I remember the way I felt when I met my ex-wife for the first time. If I ever have that same feeling again when meeting someone, it's full speed ahead. I think we know when we meet the right one.
 wishinghopingprayinglovin
Joined: 7/29/2011
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Posted: 9/24/2011 1:40:07 AM
Personality is nice. The ability to move on.
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