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Posted: 6/2/2008 6:51:05 PM | ummmm, i dont know if i feel stupid or what but ummmm, the OP 'italianovero posted on 1/30/ooooooooo6
are we all a little late or what???? oh well mabe someone else can use our more recent
ummmm....6/2/oooooooooo8 comments lol. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 9:21:11 AM | YOU ARE SOOOOO RIGHT....LOL. I'LL MAKE SURE NEXT TIME I NOTICE THE DATES ON THESE FORUMS. HE'S PROBABLY MARRIED NOW!!!
i was late, but now i'll get ahead | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 11:12:39 AM | zgirlbeautiful says
"Ok here is the problem....she doesn't have adhd she is bipolar and she needs meds..
and you are co-dependant...read some books on it and make yourself stay single for at least 2 months...realize for yourself its what is best and that you don't love her you are just addicted to her".
I wouldn't try to diagnose people in that manner. Your accuracy rate couldn't be good. I wonder what hospital or medical center you work for. What kind of medication are you selling. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 11:21:29 AM | | I have not read all the replies to your original post, but here is my take on it - sorry if it repeats something already said. No matter what the "pathology" of the people involved - the bottom line still sounds like she is in control, and every time you call, she maintains that control because she knows she manipulated you into calling..... Take control and don't call. You are now empowered, because now SHE is sitting by the phone waiting for you to call her. Take pleasure in knowing this, and be empowered by it to be happy without her. It is tough, but try it. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 3:35:47 AM | I can stop thinking of her.----i understand this feeling...you are not thinking of her,you just lack security because you are in new area and have no friends around,try to do something that are meaningful like reading,doing sports or give your focus on work.
you will be all right,i promise.i ever had a time like you are experiencing now.its just insecurity and the feelings of lost,not love....you will recognize this when situation changes
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Posted: 6/6/2008 8:51:14 AM | | Its the fact that she knows she got you in the palm of her hand, now it is ur turn to switch that role. You don't call, text, nothing, totally ignore her when she calls and you will see how quick things turn around done be so giving cause that s bad, look at other women if your out do everything shitty she has done to you that is the only way you get closure and feel good about yourself. trust me the same thing just happened to me and when I realized who I am again then I straightened things out. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 10:17:38 AM | I think your ex has issues.
"you wouldnt understand" = "You cannot handle what I will tell you"
There is a manipulative side to her your writing appears to indicate.
She might be yelling at you for valid reasons that you haven't perceived, or she may just be cruel.
Talk to a therapist. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 1:27:18 PM | (Quote) everyone tells me to get rid of everything that reminds me of her....crap, thats eveything in my house...i lived with her and when she told me it would be better to live on our own in dec 05 that when i went found a new place. she didnt have much furniture. it was all mine and i took it. but i bought it when i was with her........
i did throw out all the photos and things we did together in the trash.......but my heart is acking and wants her back....even after what she has done to me.....
i want to be happy and i want to move on . this is so hard....i feel week.
what do i do when i feel week.
Baby cakes...If she was meant for you , she would be with you now and life would be fine..You do not deserve to be treated like that. Obviously she needs help. Just move forward one day at a time..I know been there done that..Four years ago my husband walked out slept with his ex, came back after two weeks..Stayed for a little while and then left again, when he begged to come back again I said NO even though I was very much in love with him..But I also loved myself and I had some self esteem. I knew I deserved better..After a few weeks my heart began to heal. He asked me to go back with him again a few months later but I still would not..I have forgiven him and still even talk to him..but sometimes old flames are better left in ashes...Get some good ol self esteem..You will be ok..Believe me...I am happier now than I was with him!... | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 1:54:49 PM | i know how u feel and i am going through the same thing
it is hard it has been 4 months and it just feels like yesterday i hate when they say i love u and the next i hate u it makes me so mad i feel like yelling crying and killing my self at times but it is not worth it
i just hang around friends for the first little while and went out and did stuff just to keep my mind occuppied but it was hard but i drank alot too
but i just woke up one morning and said to my self i cant do this no more i have to live my life and get over him i tried it was hard but i am still fighting the urge but it gets better in time trust me | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 1:55:27 PM | Rule #1...Never trust a woman to be honest with you...
Rule #2...see rule #1...
Just suck it up and move on....you're not the first guy to fall into the "i love you and i hate you trap...just be glad it only cost you 2K...women all say that they want honesty from men, but it always seems to be a one way street...remember "theres plenty of fish in the sea... | |
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