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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 2/4/2006 11:26:11 AM | | I had the same experience with a divorced woman. Everything was amazing. All of a sudden she faked an argument and told me that she thought that we shouldn't see each other anymore. A few days later, she wanted us back where we first started. I told her that we're through. I hate head games; she was going back and forth with me and some other guy. She was into make up sex. What a nut case. I guess I didn't let emotions get in the way of being smart. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 2/4/2006 1:49:40 PM | | Keep telling yourself whatever it is that helps you sleep at night... and when nothing comes of it and you look like a fool... forgive yourself for not noticing the signs that were clearly right in front of you. Did you read what you wrote? How did you get started in this mess? Think about it sweety. Good luck... and stop giving this guy so much power. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 2/5/2006 3:54:41 PM |
Soft porn, huh, lets see comin form someone who calls himself
"popsicle man?? "
Yea, I forgot, You know how I got the name and you know what it means right? I was an Ice Cream Salesman and I won top seller award one year for selling the most popsicles. What you were thinking of I can only ask medical professionals about to get an answer. You need to stop inventing lives for people you don't agree with to hide an otherwise obviously damaged psyche. And then condem them like your machinations are true? There is a medical term for that.
And as far as I looked didn't I? Did you ever turn and happen to see a dog take a crap? Does that mean you are into what the dog just dumped? Well, most NORMAL people have to see something BEFORE they become repulsed by what they saw and damaged for life.I guess you can feel it coming and never look. Like in choice of wardrobe. BELIEVE me I am sorry I saw it. Not like I made a pillow out of a photo of it or keep comming back to check it out. Dream on. Self flattery is also a sign of something deficient.
But I tell you what? I'll stay on this side of the fence with the guys that have a spine and you stay on that side with the ones who don't, deal? I am sure someone will "do" you.
Can someone tell me what a treasure trail is? I don't trust this person to be reasonable.
Oh WAIT I GOT IT!!! I had my shirt off and I am like cheesecaking it right? That is one hell of a stretch. You got some imagination there. Guess it's Polo shirts all summer cause I am naked without a shirt on. You have GOT to be kidding me. She didn't say that right?
An by the way, pots can't talk. And if they could, they might have been from a Mixed set and someone burned the last pot so one is stainless steel and the other porcelan. No one has black cookware any more. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 2/5/2006 4:27:45 PM | | Take out all of the excuses that you have given for this man not pursuing you and what do you have? Bottomline...Nothing. Ignore your raging hormones and use some common sense...C'mon it's a no-brainer...if he was THAT into you, you wouldn't be here making excuses for the guy...you WOULD be together!!! | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 2/5/2006 4:43:54 PM | WHAT> are u nuts? This man sounds like a womanizer and a cheat...I don't believe for a second that u were nothing but another notch on his post. I would leave him alone. He brings back a chick that he barely knows when all along was to be in an official dating thing with u? If this wasn't enough then I don't know what is. I am being blunt. Girl, u have been played. He is screwing as many as he can, not to mention how disrespectful he is being to this chick...he moves way toooooo quick for my liking.
Hope u all used condoms, sounds like a freak.....ick | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 3/21/2006 1:06:39 PM | | She just needs some positive self reenforcement. The sex was amazing for him like it is for most guys who get a fly by night. The only thing the counts is to cum. Sort of like the drunker I get the better you look. Its all about the nut. She could have been a beer induced hog booty call. Men like that are usually attracted to women like that and verse visa. Ack, thanks for the billboard. I need to steer clear of women like that, that;s what mamma said. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 3/21/2006 1:28:41 PM | tally, something about this story is a half a bubble off plumb. this guy treated you like shit, you see it otherwise.
maybe the sex wasn't so amazing for him, that's why he moved on.
you dude didn't necessarily cheat on his wife, i don't know enough about the arrangement your dude has or had with his wife. but he is a cheater, if i am to believe your penthouse-like story, he cheated on you. why bother dating a cheater?
what's the purpose to the story? | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 3/21/2006 6:06:51 PM | | More attention. Thats the purpose. It's the, "Look at me." Syndrome. SO MANY women have it. The whole peacock effect. You know, girls rule boys drool.? It's that thing. To be a man and be emotional ads up to one of two things in this stereotyping place. One is, if you cry or feel, you are cristened gay. When this phrase was coined, being gay was a bad thing. And then you are either beatened all the time and into submission. Where you join the club. Two, Or you actually become gay. It happened to a kid in my ninth grade class in the shower so I know from being subjected to growing up under a Militeristic father and a blugeoning brother. Or there is the other way. You prove you aren't gay by getting laid as much as possible as is the American way. So most of the time the stereotypes do things to get attention to feel appreciated. This is one of those times. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 3/22/2006 12:49:16 AM | sorry to say you are being played.
firstly, i cant believe the nasty posts of people cutting you and your thread down. Lets not kick people when they are down!
Your first mistake? he has a common law wife. He is a cheater...which means if he cheats on her he will cheat on you. He may tell you he wont but he will. its like being an alcoholic they cant help being one.
as for the friend that was hitting on you and trying to get between you? if the first guy does like you he will know his friend is just trying to get you. He isnt a good friend to the guy you like and he should know that. And knowing that he wont really listen to the guy bad mouthing you.
Ok, he then feeds you all the lines about a happy future and then heads out east and returns with a new woman...im guessing you met him online? I will bet he met her online and also was feeding her lines about a happy future when chatting with her before and after hopping into bed with you.
He then tells you that he will hook up with you once she returns to the east...now do you think he mentioned that to her? no, he will have filled her head with stories of love and a future and told her that you are an ex that just needed to be told that it was over.
So in the space of a month he has hiw wife, you and the woman out east..and maybe someothers?
Cosmic purpose? The only cosmic spiritual reasoning for this happening to you is if karma is kicking your a$$.
You have a lot going for you...WHY put up with this crap? MOVE ON!!! Why would you ever put up with this...I mean his ex put up with the cheating because she was hoping to save the relationship...but you are wanting to start a relationship with a cheater...that cheats on you. If he was interested he would call you. If he was even interested in using you as a booty call he would call. the reason he isnt calling is because he has probably moved on. in fact he has probably gone thru a number of women by now.
Take a long look at yourself, not just the physical but you as a person. What are you worth? Really worth. You have been single 2 years...so you know you wont just take anyone. but surely you can see that you are worth more than this guy shows you. He might TELL you that he thinks you are but his actions? he thinks you are a booty call.
Advice...next guy that currently has a wife/gf or common law...delete/block him. Dont bother to even start getting to know these creeps. because they just want to line up a gf for when they leave and they will have other women lined up for when they leave you.
Get a guy that wants to be with you..if you have to try chasing him down then dont bother. there is nothing wrong with showing you are interested and calling a guy but dont keep trying if you are not getting any response. you may think that the roomy is deleting your messages but he has your phone number. If he even has the remotest feeling that you want to get together he would call you. He isnt because he has moved on.
I am sorry for being blunt but sometimes you need to have cold water dumped on you to wake you up to reality.
Tally you have a lot going for you and i am betting a lot of guys after you...so you have plenty to choose from so weed out the cheaters and find yourself a guy that respects you and is interested in YOU. not a guy that wants to see a few women and get back to you.
Dont even waste a tear on this guy! Count yourself lucky he is out of your life. You deserve better! Good Luck!
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 3/22/2006 12:54:17 AM | The sex is so amazing. Should I stick around even though he is cheating on her, then cheating on me, and an amazingly slick operator who can make it seem like black is white, night is day, and he is honest?
You're going to ignore any good advice you hear. So f*ck him long, hard and often. And don't be surprised when it doesn't work out.
Peace. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 3/22/2006 1:05:53 AM | kitsguy4u
WOW that was PERFECTLY put...thanks, I completely second everything you said and I hope she listens to this advice becasue there could be a hundred more replies but none would be as apt as this one...(and I agree: people should stop cutting her down when she is down and genuinely seeks help for hear heartbreak...quite sad that other people have to flaunt their bitterness at her, and oh my god are there some serious bitterness out there...phew)
good luck tallyKatt! | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 3/22/2006 3:23:26 PM | Bitter is so overused. Did I mention it sucks so amazing?
How in the world do you flaunt bitterness. The votes are in. They did a study. Scientific one. I know you don't care about science even though you are wearing it. And in one classroom they put kids watching Roadrunner and Coyote beating each others brains out. And in the other, Sesame Street. The kids in the room with the Cartoons were destroying the room and in the Sesame Street room, the kids were seriously engrossed.
When a woman starts taking her clothes off. To a man it's something he is supposed to respoind to sexually. It is suppose to arouse him. Women know this, men know this. On top of it. Men are slandered for feeling attracted to women who dress like sluts because, "They wanna feel good about themselves." Well if I was getting all the attention I am sure I would feel good about myself too having the pick of the litter. But still, when a guy finds her attractive he is emotionally and spiritually castrated with blurbs of buzz of, eat your heart out, get loss, grow up, or look but don't touch. In otherwords, you are going to get naked and make me suffer in silence. I cannot grimace, I cannot show pain I cannot make a move towards you. I have to take you out, buy dinner and movies till I am broke and you decide to grace me with sex. Take you to Proms, Dates, Restaurants, Clubs and watch you have all the guys want you and hit on you and you giggle and come back to me after giving out your telephone number to those who might be able to pay more to have you shower them with affection.
This is the path most females take. Dressing provocatively is how to get attention. Make up, hair, clothes, all to have all eyes on "me". Then the aloofness and flagrant way people are taken for granted as they approach and are blown off is indicative of a spoiled brat.
Sorry, I have no pity for these types of individuals. You dress to seduce the minds of individuals who are emotionally weak and find the appeal to the more basic instinct and you abuse that instainct against others to have your way. And get what you want. EVERYTHING you want all the time and then comdemn men for thinking with their other head when who needs to think? That craps is in every dimension of our male lives. Women are constantly thrown up in our faces and tread lightly. Yet we get stompted on and our emotions made lite of, abused, confounded, disregarded and denied! Sorry, some loose goose braggin about how good one of her many male fiascos was with some guy who can't decide what he or his wife wants and his wife can't decide either so he screws the next best thing, doesn't illicit sympathy from me one iota. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 3/22/2006 5:36:48 PM | wow. i guess he doesn't have to make any excuses. you've made them all for him.
i think it's completely obvious.
you had sex with him although he was in a supposedly commited relationship.
you continued to have sex with him after he got back together with his wife.
you continued to have sex with him after he started having sex with someone else.
he isn't calling you.
he says he cares about you, but is afraid of getting hurt. that may be true. in fact it probably is. compulsive cheaters are insecure and can't handle commiting to one person because they risk vulnerability.
apparently he doesn't have to worry about that. he has you. except he doesn't even want you. i know this because he is not calling you. and that's what people do when they like you.
there are things he likes about you. he likes that you have sex with him. he likes that you inflate his ego.
but he likes you at a distance. because he sees what i'm sure is quite apparent to everyone else. you want a relationship with him.
you can deny this till you're blue in the face. it won't hurt me. but understand this: there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting someone to love you. in fact, it's absolutely human.
my sister got me this funny book once called "how to make your man behave in 28 days or less using the secrets of a professional dog trainer." i'm not a man-hater, the book was obviously a joke, but it still made some great points. picture this: your dog (man) is running way from you. what do you do? (think about a dog, now.) if you chase him, he will just run farther. heres the plan: stay where you are, look like you're having fun. have fun. maybe wave one of his favorite toys in the air (figuratively speaking). and he'll come running back.
and then YOU can decide if you really want him. don't expect him to love you, though. with this guy, i guarantee you the dog games will never end.
p.s. the best thing that could happen is while you're having fun, you'll get over him. maybe meet someone else who has less issues. who calls you. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 3/23/2006 5:30:44 PM | You never saw the film left on the cutting room floor obviously. Or the movie, Loonie Toon Follies.
lol
If I were you I would take a closer look at my favorite cartoon characters. The Wolf's eyes didn't pop out for nothing. There was a heated affair between him and Lil Red. Find out in the Loonie Toon Follies.
I sound like a dam used car ad. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 8/17/2008 6:51:56 AM | What's frightening here is, well, Popsicleman and his ice cold schtick, pun intended.
For one, I strenuously object to the word "slut" and the double-standards that implies.
Second: "How in the world do you flaunt bitterness?" In your case, I think a mirror would work.
Enough of that. (The guy thinks watching "Loonie Toon Follies" is research, for crying out loud.)
Regarding the original post: you can't change this guy. Too bad. I realized, myself, recently, that "the one who doesn't give a shit wins." So, I have to ask myself: should I adapt to that? And the answer is, partly, yes. Or: don't take it so seriously (this is me talking to myself, that is.)
The sex is amazing when you're cheating, by the way, because of the heightened risk and sense of danger ... not because this guy's the world's greatest kisser.
Bob Dylan song explains that:
"You say you're sorry for tellin' stories, you know I believe are true.
You say ya got some other, other kinda lover. Yes, I believe you do.
You say my kisses are not like his...but I'm not gonna tell you why that is.
I'm just gonna let you pass. Yes, and I'll go last.
Then time will tell who it is who fell and who's been left behind,
When you go your way and I go mine." | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 8/17/2008 7:40:03 AM | | I totally understand the connection you´re describing...but you made the mistake of having sex with a married guy. That makes you equal to him - players..and a second time..? There´s a saying; What goes around comes around. Something to consider.? | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 8/17/2008 7:58:40 AM | Sheesh girl............. it sounds like you are 22 or something...............
If you want a long term relationship with a man and you want to ensure that he is honourable and faithful then insist on saving sex until marriage. If he doesn't like that, he will boot er out of there, and you will know he is a player after sex along. But if he stays, and works on getting to know your heart and your mind, then you know you have something worth pursuing.
I know, it is not your fault, it is this whole damn crazy world that is telling you (and everyone else) that jumping into bed with someone because you feel "a cosmic attraction" is the right thing to do. Self gratification on both your parts gave you what you wanted at the time - great sex ...... and now it is over.
Thank you for this post...... it very effectively demonstrates why sex before marriage is a bad idea....... | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 8/17/2008 2:03:35 PM |
OK....ITS BEEN A WHILE SINCE I WAS IN SCHOOL, BUT WHAT THE HELL IS AMAISING?....BOGGLES MY MIND WHEN I SEE HOW SOME PEOPLE SPELL.....STOP HAVING SEX....BUY A DICTIONARY ....LEARN SOMETHING....OPEN YOUR MINDS, NOT YOUR LEGS
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