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| Liking asian girls
Posted: 4/28/2009 4:31:01 AM | | This lady is right on. The last two relationships that I was in were with Asian ladies ( both different Asian cultures) . Both are/were exactly as described by this lady plus the intellect was far beyond most other women that I have met in life. I feel lucky to have spent two years with each of these ladies. I feel that both of these past relationships have helped me grow into a better person. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 8:21:20 AM | I probably already responded to this post, but...
Dated a Vietnamese woman. While I enjoyed her intellect and sense of humor, there was a passion and a physicality missing. Think of a delicate China doll, very fine, very silky, deeply entrenched in a comfort zone. She was a wonderfully sensitive, intelligent person, though, and I'll always treasure our time together.
"I'm too heavy to move..." (I pick her up) | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 9:24:22 AM | | it seems like a lot of guys have an asian fetish. while i'm open to all races, generally speaking, asian women don't do much for me. they're generally petite and i like some hips and ass and curves on my women. also, asian facial features don't usually appeal to me. i'm very drawn to latin women and also women of italian and greek descent. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 10:14:39 AM | | Its true every one has a preference but i for one think that when people say i am not attracted to a particular race thats ridiculous.If you think hard enough im sure there has got to be at least one black woman that you would say is attractive maybe beyonce or halle berry,megan goode, i mean come on.I mostly date outside my race but thats not because im not attracted to black woman i just seem to attract more attention from the other races.I've dated white,hispanic and asian women and i find all three of those groups very attractive but it would not stop me from dating a nice black woman if i were to meet one that i liked.It really comes down to the person ultimately there are always going to be naysayers and racists that will try to discourage you or disapprove tell you about all the alleged pitfalls of dating outside your race and its all hogwash.Just look at Tiger woods,Lenny kravitz and even of greater significance president Barrack obama.The relationships i experienced with those women were some of the best i ever had and in the end if you pass up an opprutunity to be with someone that really makes you happy over something as superficial as race thats a choice you will have to ultimately live with and can haunt you for the rest of your life.I suggest choosing the best person cause your dating them not their entire race or anyone else choose someone who is going to make you happy and that should always be the main reason for that choice everything else is secondary. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 10:44:18 AM | | cc28bm, you happened to mention a few bi-racial guys (tiger, obama, kravitz). dudes aside, =P i think people of mixed race are some of the prettiest people on the planet. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 1:28:39 PM | | Well if your interested enough you can find dating services that for a fee just like e-harmony or any of these other matchmaking services can introduce you to asian women that are willing to date outside their race.I think its something to consider if your really interested and at least you'll have an opprutunity something you dont have right now.Just do some research and you will find some opprutunities websites,forums (etc).But sometimes perceptions can hinder our ability to move forward if you go into the situation believing as a black man asian woman just arent going to be interested then that perception can become reality eliminating you before you even try.Most rational people will respond to you the way you respond to them and if they sense any sort of discomfort or lack of confidence or chip on your shoulder when you deal with them they will respond the same way.To give yourself a chance you must be the eternal optimist and not be discouraged go into your approach as relaxed and openminded as possible then its up to them if things dont work out its not your fault but you'll be surprised at what the right mind set can do in these situations so stay strong and good luck !!! | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 1:52:29 PM | Well amen to that thwipp89 i couldn't agree more!!! I do find asian women very attractive and not just physically the women that i interacted with were very polite,strong and had a sense of principles about them.They weren't concerned about the materialistic things as much as they were with having a strong supportive partner who would be there for them and could make them happy.I really admire those ideals and morals in such an immoral time that we are living in where everything is give me and show me and more they were about having less quantity as long as it meant quality.That is really hard to find now and days and not to mention their beautiful eyes,hair,skin and fashion sense.Thats a nice package but i again state this is my experience and opinion the aforementioned things can and do apply to all ethnicities afterall beauty is in the eye of the beholder and there is beauty in every race.  | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 4:06:25 PM | | I find most accents to be attractive, including Asians with broken english. Also I apologize if this is stereotyping but the Asians I've met seem to have more of a logical brain than emotional which clicks with me. I recently had an in-depth discussion about current trends in laptops and the intricacies of XP vs Vista and she was the one leading the conversation. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2009 8:43:08 PM | I like all women.
Asian, White, Black, Oriental, Occidental, Russian, Polish... all of them!
All women of every culture have unique differences that set them apart from other cultures. Whether it's their skin tone, eyes, hair texture, cultural disposition, all kinds of things. However, I could never pick one culture over another because each & every woman is different. Cultural background is only one part of the puzzle. You also have to consider if they were born & raised in or out side of your culture, that does make a difference. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2009 8:44:07 PM | | Oh, one more thing: "Have you ever made an Asian girl mad" ??? | |
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Posted: 5/9/2009 2:38:28 AM | Well, what can I say, I have been with the same girl from the philippines for over 1 year now, she is the best thing that has ever happen to me. I advice anybody to try their luck in the philippines, they dont care how big your house, how fat ur wallet, all they care about is YOU and YOUR personality, I highly respect the filipinas and their culture, sure there are bad apples also, but if you dont try you will never know.
Your soul mate beckon and is just waiting for her knight to sweep her off her feet. The possibilities are endless, I cannot predict what the future lies but the promise of a lifetime of happiness is immeasurable. Surely, the Philippines is a great place to search for love/date because of its mesmerizing scenic background it always ignite the flaming passion that both of you might feel.
If you like to know more about dating filipinas and more, pls send me a personal mail to my account,
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Posted: 5/11/2009 4:58:18 PM | | WOW....to TheArmyLife... it doesn't seem like your definition of "American" includes Asian-American, African-American, Latin-American, Jewish-American, Native-American, Middle-Eastern-American, or any other kind of American woman except for WHITE women. Now THAT is what's SAD. Being white doesn't make you American, and "American" includes SOOOO many more people than just white people. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2009 5:34:38 PM | Obviously there are a lot of stereotypes going on in this thread.
Should I be flattered that you are interested in dating me simply b/c I am Asian and "exotic"? | |
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Posted: 5/12/2009 2:08:07 PM | Hi,
I'm a half asian girl myself.
I don't think there is anything wrong with liking asian girls, so as long as you understand that not all of these girls fit into a stereotype or profile.
There is a misconception that asian girls are more compliant than caucasian girls. This, my friend, will get you in hot water. Some asian girls are very vocal and opinionated. They aren't willing to be controlled and will leave if you treat them poorly.
As long as you like an asian girl because of her personality, that is fine. But don't just like her because she is asian. Nothing worse than a guy with yellow fever. All types of girls are beautiful. Beauty is not just a race. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2009 4:24:08 PM | | Nationality has nothing to do with how good a person is, i have dated Japanese and Phillipino and though their cultures offer exceptional qualities the likes of which need to be experienced before you die if you that lucky, it does not make them better or worse than other cultures and nationalities. Remember they are women first, asian second. They will still have the same expectations any woman their age and background have, if you have these qualities to offer them go for it. Just don't get blinded by the sexual stereotypes, some are unbelievably true ,others aren't. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2009 4:41:13 PM | | I just wanted to say , my first girlfriend in California was American Born Chinese or immigrated early on, in her transition to the States . Currently I live in a College Town ( east coast ) with 3 rommies from China 2 girl and 1 guy. The Asian male is very dominant and very respected . It is an interesting culture to be influenced by no doubt . The different parts of China geographically and the type of background is so diverse from farming to fishing there is sense of being keen while having an industrious mindset with overall prosperity it seems | |
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Posted: 5/12/2009 7:19:59 PM | I once dated a Chinese girl (an actual citizen of the P.R.C.) who was a foreign exchange student at my college. She was so cute and nice in the first few months that I overlooked a lot of things I probably shouldn't have before I found myself involved in a long distance relationship. She had some major red flags ... to sum it up ...
*She was unthankful for favors and felt that she deserved them.
*On the reverse, she thought I should be infinitely grateful for anything she did for me.
*She had no appreciation for nature.
*She had no sense of spirituality (not even Buddhism) and was super materialistic.
*She admitted she had been raised to be a gold digger.
*She had an abusive streak, and even slapped me a couple of times.
*She lied and cheated, refusing to admit to it until three months later.
*She only understood conditional love and had no empathy for other people.
I really think I got the worst of the worst. So as much as I think Asian girls are cute, there is one type of Asian girl that I do NOT like. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2009 7:29:57 PM | ^^^Dude, girls like that exist in all races. Those are not Asian characteristics.  | |
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Posted: 5/12/2009 8:36:26 PM |
*She was unthankful for favors and felt that she deserved them.
*On the reverse, she thought I should be infinitely grateful for anything she did for me.
*She had no appreciation for nature.
*She had no sense of spirituality (not even Buddhism) and was super materialistic.
*She admitted she had been raised to be a gold digger.
*She had an abusive streak, and even slapped me a couple of times.
*She lied and cheated, refusing to admit to it until three months later.
*She only understood conditional love and had no empathy for other people.
Well... this definitely sounds like a detailed description of one particular girl... should not be interpreted as a representation of people of specific culture/race/nationality!
I'd suggest that you ask yourself WHY you were attracted to a woman like that. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2009 11:43:18 PM | | I said I dated the worst of the worst ... I know she's not representative of all Asians. | |
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Posted: 5/13/2009 4:00:23 AM |
WOW....to TheArmyLife... it doesn't seem like your definition of "American" includes Asian-American, African-American, Latin-American, Jewish-American, Native-American, Middle-Eastern-American, or any other kind of American woman except for WHITE women. Now THAT is what's SAD. Being white doesn't make you American, and "American" includes SOOOO many more people than just white people.
You have no idea what I was talking about, which is plainly obvious.
No where did I say that or anything even remotely similar to that. I said that many guys go for Asian girls because they think that they grow up in a culture which is substantially different than culture of entitlement so common in the United States. That entitlement attitude is common across all races, sexes, and religions in America, and therefore is not "white only" as you seem to postulate. Many guys are tired of that attitude, which causes them to search outside of American (not white) culture.
What you added to that in your interpretation says far more about you than it does about me. | |
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Posted: 5/13/2009 6:18:29 PM | | Asian women are attractive as hell plus they age much better than any other race. | |
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Posted: 5/28/2009 11:18:21 PM | Need advice on understanding how to attract an Asian woman? Check out my site:
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Posted: 5/29/2009 2:02:44 PM | | I want some of that Asian Sensation. I've never had any :*( | |
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