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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 8:27:57 AM | yeah get over it
go with him and then if you want to punish him take him to the male version
it is stripping... and that is about it...
there are bigger fish to fry than that | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 8:30:19 AM | | My SO and I not only go together every few years, but we get lap dances together :) | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 8:32:53 AM | Ugh I wouldnt be thrilled either. Bunch of trashy chicks, eww.
Nothing to get in an uproar about though, I would just go out the next weekend with hte girls and maybe go watch some half naked men dance around. Come home and make sure he knew where I spent the evening. lol see how well he likes it. | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 8:33:08 AM | I didn't read ALL of the posts *sorry*... BUT...
I can say that you need to get over it... Men are visual creatures....
They like to watch tits and ass shaking all over the place... and not always YOURS..
The problem is your own insecurity, that he is looking at another woman's assets and
you think that they might be nicer than yours. Chances are YEP they will be nicer than
yours. Nicer than mine.. and nicer than the rest of the women in these forums. (no offense to the other ladies).. Men like to fantasize about other women, they like to LOOK at porn, *lets not kid ourselves that the stash of mags under the bed are there for the articles*
The ONLY THING that you should be concerned about, is how horny he will be when he
comes home, and what you are going to do to satisfy him. Nothing wrong with looking at the menu, as long as they aren't ordering. | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 8:36:23 AM | Very true^^^
But I would rather he had a HUGH porn collection then go to some titty bar with some live skanks right in his face. Heard many stories about them places and some of the trash that works in them. | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 8:40:17 AM | yeah... I know... but the point is exactly that... all they have is nice tits and ass in a pair of high heels... when it comes to the luvvins.. they come home for it.. I don't think any *sane* man would take a chance with a skanky hoe just cuz she shook the goodies for him.
They know where the getting is good..... that's why they come home to us!.
Most men know that if you lay down with Dogs you gonna get Fleas!! | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 8:41:11 AM | Well, if that isn't the most ridiculous generalization I've ever heard. Going to a strip bar constitutes a willingness to cheat??
If that's the case .. make sure you blindfold him before you let him leave the house .. since he's bound to look while out on the street, and you know what that means ... he's going to cheat sooner or later!! *rolls eyes* | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 8:42:30 AM | ^^^^^^ hehehe.... don't roll your eyes like that ... they will get stuck.....
*wink* | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 8:46:35 AM | Nuh uh .... I perfected the art of eye rolling ... I've proven that myth false. 
I've gone to the strip bar with my SO a few times... I don't consider myself trashy, as someone nicely pointed out above. It's entertainment. The girls are beautiful, more often than not .. what do I care if my SO looks? He's going to anyway, whether it's just at some girl walking by, then guiltily hiding the glance from me, or sitting with me watching them dance?
It's me that gets to curl up with him at night. I don't have to worry about where his heart is .. his eyes can go where they please. | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 8:50:22 AM | You are exactly right!!!... and if he is out carousing for *Trash*... if he comes home smelling like a sweaty fish... or has crusties on his****.. then dump his ass...
Sheesh.. a strip club.... OMG... maybe she better dump him... | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 8:51:29 AM | ah it's not a big deal hun..
Let him go and have fun with the guys...if he's commited to you nothing will happen! | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 8:59:28 AM | @ synical
girl u have some issues...the blindfold is a bit over the top dont u think? if men go to the stripbars then they fully intend to look at eyecandy and all im saying is that its totally disrespecful to commitments he made to his gal if any...that means he's going to cheat sonner than later. or do u need to drag your boyfriend to stripbars and see for yourself? get a dose of reality here! if you say that u don't have issues with ur bf going to a strip bar then you're just fooling yourself. | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 9:08:20 AM | I have issues because I have complete trust in my SO? Hmm, alrighty then.
I don't need to "drag" mine to a stripbar, I've gone with him in the past. They do nothing more than sit there and joke around, admire the women, and go home. They don't go to strip bars to pick up women, they'd get bounced for even trying.
And just as a sidenote, it's my husband .. of 9 years. He's never cheated on me. There goes THAT theory.
I almost find it ironic that a 21 year old is trying to explain to me how the world works, lol. You're little more than a kid, with obvious insecurity issues. | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 9:12:28 AM | LMAO...
I don't have issues with my man going to a strip club EVER... lmao
just as he has no issues with me going to see a male stripper,
it is a social gathering where men pound their chests, have a few drinks,
get a little out of control... but still go home to their SO....
If you can't stand the thought of your man checking out another girls boobs..
then you have issues... they are going to look No MATTER what you like.
And don't try to say you would never look at another man's pecker....cuz I think most
women here would call you a fibber | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 9:21:17 AM | @ synical
you choose to turn your head the other way when you know deep down he's not being faithful then that's your problem hun. i wont tell u how to live your life and if you tolerate such disrespect then i cant help you there. | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 9:25:06 AM | | Like I said, you're little more than a kid ... basing every experience off your own. You have serious insecurities to deal with if you think going to a strip bar ensures that someone will cheat, little girl .. time to grow up a bit before you assume you know everything. | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 9:25:39 AM | Syn... all of a sudden you have issues cuz you trust your man...
OT:Damn I feel sorry for you...
*hug*... *passes tissue*... perhaps you and I should seek some therapy
for thinking its ok for our SO to patronize a strip club... | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 9:25:42 AM | | Sorry I feel there is no reason for him to go to a titty bar. Plenty of porn online for free. Why pay for it? | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 9:57:41 AM | | I swear that humanity is doomed if people have to be chained to their spouses for fear of infidelity.. If you can't trust your partner.. leave him/her... pretty simple.. if your gonna **** and moan about them going to watch women take their clothes off with other guys.. cut em loose.. It is a male bonding thing... they aren't going to stop...Jeez.. my grandfather and his cronies go watch the strip shows... my grandmother loves it!!!... they have been happily married 57 years... and never ONCE has there been a question of fidelity. Trust trust trust. | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 10:22:06 AM | | hmmm what denial? If you can't stand it.. your problem.. why not start a thread asking single men what they go to the strip bar for.. and if they have had an SO and gone.. why ? | |
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| my bf went to the strip bar
Posted: 3/10/2006 10:28:17 AM | | Whats the big deal with going to the Tit Pit anyway? Unless he is spending all his $$$ on lap dances. Sometime the boys go out to the pit check out the entertainment yada yada no big deal. | |
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