| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/11/2006 9:54:44 PM | LOL! I wish my step mom could do that.. at the current moment all she can do is **** and complain.. but my dad loves her so gotta be the dutiful loving child to him and be nice and civil and smile ever so prettily when shes there.... | |
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Joined: 1/23/2006
Msg: 77 | |
| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/12/2006 9:23:16 AM | LOL I NEED A MAN
ha preferably with children
my ex's son asked me when im getting a bf because I look lonely.lol | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/12/2006 9:36:21 AM | The best thing about single dads is that they get it. They don't get bent if you have to get off the phone at the drop of a dime because of your kids, or if a sick child keeps you home the night you were going out together. They realize how important your every-other weekend off is and appreciate your free time. They usually have a home to keep their children in, not their mom's. They have to have a job to take care of and provide for their children, which means they won't be needing mine. And most likely they don't want anymore of their own. Just some of the things I like about single dads.
This is assuming we are talking about the good ones. If he doesn't have most of the above...RUN! | |
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Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 79 | |
| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/12/2006 9:45:13 AM | | I am a single Dad and this is my first Forum. I was absoluely thrilled to see that you find us sexy. My son is an incredible person and I hope that he stays a caring loving person - like me. | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/12/2006 9:53:42 AM | I have a soft spot in my heart for single dads...It is great to see so many involved with their kids...They can relate to single moms better...When my son was small and I was widowed, it was nice to see the single dads at the soccer games or football games.. Alot of the times the single dads I'd date,would include my son in "boy stuff" with their kids...The childless men never really did that...One did..
I also liked sneaking around so the kids wouldnt know
i.e.: "daddy is going to go on a sleepover", "dad needs some grown up time"..or "daddy is that Co**'s mom? Why are you talking so long on the phone to his mom?...can I talk to her?" I never met their kids unless it was serious...lol.. it's been awhile..Made me feel like a teen.
I can also sympathize with them when they can spend so little time with them because of custody issues.. | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/12/2006 10:57:30 AM | | As a single dad I find myself very sexy. It feels like I'm the only one that does though. I haven't been out in months maybe it's just me. I just know if it's not one thing it's another and when you're dealing with two teenagers you got a hand full and then some. Who has time to be sexy. I'm busy being Daddy. | |
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Joined: 1/20/2006
Msg: 82 | |
| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/14/2006 2:49:08 PM | I've been a single Dad for 7 years now. My kid lives with me full time and typically out to mom's (out of town a little) about 2 or 3 weekends a months depending on schedules.
I have heard that people think it's awesome that I'm so into raising my kid, etc. And I think a lot of the women I've met over the years do find a certain attractive quality to that, but I'm not sure there is a specific or direct attraction JUST because of it.
I think it's all part of the big picture. | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/15/2006 3:45:04 PM | I don't have my son full time... I get him on my days off and holidays... he is seven now... I only missed one set of days off with him when I was a best man in a wedding...
other wise I have him always when I can...
I went on a date once with a single mom who didn't want to date single dads because she had before and they treated her kids different...
I try not to but it is hard sometimes... scared that m son will resent that I spend more time with kids that are not mine...
I would not want a women to date me because of my son...
but I have a question... how do you handle a g/f's children that resent you because your not their daddy... but the g/f says you treat her kids different then your own??? | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/15/2006 3:50:06 PM | I cant seem to get a date BECAUSE I'm a single dad all the women freak out and think I'm looking for a mother for my kids or something | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/15/2006 7:19:44 PM | | Ya I here u there. I do not want a mother for my child she has one. Sound's so harsh, I love my daughter so so much and I would like to meet someone for me, I have my daughter 50/50 on paper but in reality i have her more then that, so I have do not have alot of free time. I guess its only women without kids that go weird and dont get it. I HAVE A CHILD. I AM DOING MY BEST AS I CAN AS A FIRST TIME DAD. So I am not going to just get up and go, the love of my child is so much more important than a date, and only women with kids get it I think. | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/15/2006 10:14:46 PM | | BUT WE DO EXIST! IM 24 AND I HAVE A BEUATIFUL LITTLE GIRL THAT I LOVE WITH ALL MY HEART, BUT MY COMPLAINT IS YOU SAY YOU HAVE A SOFT SPOT FOR SINGLE FATHERS, WELL LET ME TELL YOU THAT IM HAVING THE HARDEST TIME FINDING ANYONE WHO WANTS TO EVEN TALK TO ANYONE WITH A KID ESPECIALLY OUR AGE? | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/16/2006 5:53:55 AM | | Thanks ladies, I was starting to wonder myself if us single dads still had a fighting chance, there is a lot of women now adays that would rather not deal withthe extra baggage, and as any other decent single father knows they are not worth spit, But thanks its good to know we are not writtin off for taking care of our own. | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:46:39 PM | enchantedeu- a girl after my own heart! It is so hard to find women that are interested in men with kids and I get mine only 50% of the time. Please tell me where these women are. I have always thought that single dads make the BEST boyfriends and the BEST lovers!   | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?= DILF ?
Posted: 2/24/2006 10:09:03 PM | | I don't have a problem with a guy who has a kid(s). You can learn alot about a guy by how much time he spends with his kid, as to what you're in for in a relationship with him. It shows how responsible he is and how well he takes care of close relationships. It doen't make me horny, LOL. | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?
Posted: 2/24/2006 10:14:17 PM | Well, I'll toss in my 2cents here. Although I've never heard (other than here) that single dads are sexy, I do find it interesting. I'd also ask though, is there some point at which a dad becomes undesirable? Number of children, ages of children, etc? Assuming he's not a dead-beat dad, of course.
Shawn | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?= DILF ?
Posted: 2/24/2006 10:14:47 PM |
It doen't make me horny, LOL.
Kid For Sale To Good Home. ...... LOL j/k
I love my 7 year old son more then life itself. He most certainly is my world and everything. I appreciate the fact that their are women out there that will take the time, sit back and appreciate the relationship we fathers have with our children. It very well may tell alot about us but we are not doing it for that reason ofcourse. It's soley because the child comes first and if the ladies have the patience and appreciation for the same, that lady has my respect. | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?= DILF ?
Posted: 2/25/2006 12:17:32 AM | | When I am with my son, I never notice anything else around me other then him. I have been told that I was being hit on, but never payed any mind to it. | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?= DILF ?
Posted: 2/25/2006 3:11:14 AM | The happiest I am is when I am with my daughters who are 110% "Daddy's Girls". After my divorce I have been fearful of losing my stepsons but that has not happened. They still spend a lot of time with me as well. It is something to be single but every second of every day to know true unconditional love.
It does create a new dynamic in dating in that I am not always available to go out and it takes awhile to get to a point where I want to introduce the children to the interest. It is very important that she know that I am a package deal, my top priority is my children and she will have to share me with them. I do look forward to when I do meet that one that does become a part of the rest of us. | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?= DILF ?
Posted: 2/25/2006 6:48:57 AM | Im a single dad, with full custody.
I dont think any-one has ever said it was sexy, but......
I meet more women who like it then dislike it, and thats great.
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?= DILF ?
Posted: 2/25/2006 7:04:53 AM |
IM HAVING THE HARDEST TIME FINDING ANYONE WHO WANTS TO EVEN TALK TO ANYONE WITH A KID ESPECIALLY OUR AGE
There's my problem. Ya know, it really wasn't my PLAN to have primary custody of my three year old when I was 23... but I couldn't control what, or who, my ex-wife did. Thus, it's me and little one now.
And like any young woman is looking for a guy with "baggage." It's not ideal. But I guess somewhere out there, there are actually women who think it's sexy. Obviously none around my way... | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?= DILF ?
Posted: 2/25/2006 12:42:15 PM | | It's just amazing how many women want men to accept their kids,but don't want to meet any guys with kids.Go figure!? Like I said earlier enchante -de phewa,love ya! | |
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| Single Dads -- especially sexy?= DILF ?
Posted: 2/25/2006 6:11:46 PM | | licker: tell me about it! the great love of my life has a daughter of her own, but got jealous an' ****y when i wanted to see MY son! somehow, because she had HER daughter ALL BUT every other weekend, she could not reconcile the fact, that since i only saw my son every weekend, i wanted to spend time w/ him! | |
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