| In Praise of older women...
Posted: 6/21/2007 7:24:44 AM | | Oh, that is great! I would never have the nerve to be on stage. Best to you, with reagrds to that goal! Having activities is definately the key. My mother has moved in with me; she is in her 60's. She will not take on any activities and is not capable of much any more. You will find someone, it just takes more time these days...sometimes we just need to enjoy sorting through the passers by first. | |
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| In Praise of older women...
Posted: 6/21/2007 11:36:00 AM | | Attitude is so important and mine is very positive. I have met many who have shown an interest in me, but they weren't all that interesting or fun to be around. Smart is so darn sexy and so is talent. Unfortunatley there are too many judgemental people in the world. The ones who are looking for perfect beauty on the outside. Folks let me clue you in, perfect beauty fades and gravity has no mercy, so if you fall for only what is on the outside when it fades you don't have a hell of a lot left to love. LOL Sure my belly isn't at firm as it was in my 20's and I have a few lines around my eyes, but I always have a sparkle in my eyes and a joyous spirit. I am filled with gratitude for all my imperfections, after all they make me be me and that is perfection in G-ds eyes. | |
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| In Praise of older women...
Posted: 6/21/2007 11:57:17 AM | | junebug..You are so right here.....beautifully stated...Smarts and inner beauty is the best that will always be around...I think it takes a long time for people, especially men, to appreciate that in women...Maybe thats why dating is so much more fun now than when I was in my 20s and was under constant scrutiny by immature, lookist men who never took the time to get to know me as a person first | |
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| In Praise of older women...
Posted: 6/21/2007 6:31:53 PM | | You too are a beautiful woman and remind me of myself when I was in my 40's. Most people who meet me still think I am, but the reality is that I am not. I have raised two wonderful children who aren't much younger than some of the men who seek me out. I have a firm rule though, I won't date anyone younger than my son or daughter. There are men out there who do appreciate the goodness in my heart, the laughter that lifts my spirit, and my curiosity for new experiences. Let's us celebrate being older women... and off the topic...older men. I think you too are great as long as you still keep the kid alive that is inside you. | |
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| In Praise of older women...
Posted: 6/21/2007 6:39:50 PM | "You too are a beautiful women"...
Thank you..You are gorgeous.....You literally glow from the inside out...Some smart witty man will snap you up.....If I look half as good as you do at 60, I will be doing well for myself.......I feel more beautiful now than I have ever felt in my life...Does that feeling get stronger as women get older?...I hope so | |
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Posted: 6/21/2007 7:46:45 PM | Same here, I am also older but I always think positive, if a man approach me I usually return with a big smile and a say "hi and how are you". Waking up alone in this world doesnt bother me, because I know some where out there , I will find one who will love as I am and the whole package. Most men are only interested when its a new friendship and dealing some communication and they fade away, they dont want a relationship but only sex, I dont go for that, I want love making not sex. Good luck to all our age group , may you all find the right man of your dream. I still wake up with a smile and thanking lord for another day to wake up cheerfully.   | |
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| In Praise of older women...
Posted: 6/21/2007 7:50:01 PM | | Exactly...I agree. I am such a sucker for a guy with wit and a great sense of humor. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2007 10:15:12 PM | She glows in streams,she becomes Ocean of her dreams
Wave on wave she casts not a glance,she gasps for breath
One thought,Hers alone she battles the sences,she gasps
Toss,turn, fondle her Ocean wave,she sleeps,she breathes
She Dreams of Oceans | |
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Posted: 6/22/2007 7:04:48 PM | "Does that feeling get stronger as women get older?...I hope so"
Indeed the feeling gets stronger at least it has for me. I believe as I aged I stop caring about what other people thought and started trusting my instincts about what I thought and knew to be true about me. I feel sexy because I believe I am. I feel confident because I believe I am. Dream it, believe it and you will receive it. Let go of past insecurities. Stop re-acting the same scenes of your life over and over again (especially if they aren't making you happy) and start creating the life you want to live.
And when I dream of oceans, I dream of the magnificene and power of the waves. Going with the flow without fear. Embracing the ebb and flow of the tide of my life. | |
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| In Praise of older women...
Posted: 6/22/2007 7:15:18 PM | | Maybe it's a Gemini thing to have such a positive outlook on life. Just plain sex is mechanical, but making love is like floating on a cloud made of silk threads and then using those threads to weave them into a blanket called intimacy. | |
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| In Praise of older women...
Posted: 6/22/2007 10:44:53 PM | This ole lady is stopping by to tell you that as I celebrate my 71st birthday next month, I will do it proudly. Many of you here have said it all...BUT, you have said it while being several years younger. I'm just telling you that it does not change. For many years I "worried" about getting old and wrinkled and not being wanted by anyone. But, it wasn't until I actually "Got" old that I realized there is nothing to worry about.
I wake up every day ready and anxious to celebrate that day. So many people have praised me for my wisdom..... if that's what they want to call life's lessons...it's ok. with me. There is an inner contentment with self...an inner serenity you might call it.
I know me, I like me and you cannot convince me that there is not someone out there who will feel that way about me, too.
There are not many man my age around. I am not ashamed of enjoying the company of younger men who are looking for a real relationship. At our age, those who have matured are probably as mature as they are going to get. It is said that often women outlive men. When I meet my special man, I simply want to maximize the odds of having more time to spend growing old with him. Because, folks, I'm not there yet.... | |
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| In Praise of older women...
Posted: 6/23/2007 4:43:26 AM | I am 61 and I will be you in 10 years. Bravo, I couldn't have said it any better.
Most of the men I do go out with are younger than me, and that is perfectly ok with me and them. Age is just how many candles you get to blow out, and not who you are or how you feel. I do realize that there are less years ahead of me than behind me, but I am packing as much living into those years as I can. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2007 9:29:48 PM | | Thanks for the wise words Junebug...Very true...Visualizing it over time often make it come true...Incidently Ive started doing that alot more lately...It does work...I am familiar with the Gemini optimism...My dad was a Gemini and was the most positive person around...The guy Im dating is a also a sunny Gemini who is so wonderful to be around | |
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| In Praise of older women...
Posted: 6/24/2007 8:01:10 AM | | Ladies, (knitten kitten and junebug) you are an inspiration. I hope to be as confident as you are one day. Thank you. | |
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