| strap ons 101 Posted: 6/20/2006 9:09:02 AM | I would say about 80 percent of the women I've talked to over the internet have some degree of masculinity in them and would not hesitate to use a strap on on a man given a chance to do so or harbor some thoughts and fantasies about using one on a man.
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/15/2007 6:01:22 PM |
for valentines day I'd like to surprise my lover and use a strap on on him.
Yeah, I can't think of a better way of telling someone to be your valentine. | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/15/2007 6:09:36 PM | | mmm Lucky guy to have a gf this open minded. | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/15/2007 6:49:02 PM | Damn! I need to find me an open-minded man!!  | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/15/2007 7:22:12 PM | My a$$ is sore just thinking about this...
*walks away singing "pack it in, pack it up"* | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 9:29:00 AM | Holly Crap this could go down as the sh*test Valentine's Day present ever! | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 10:38:11 AM | | Unless you know he might like this I'd steer clear! He might go ape shit! | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 11:38:04 AM | So, Valentines has come and gone...did he go for it? Could we get an update here? I have never used a strap on, but am curious about the idea...My guy has no interest, but I do like the ladies too and I could probably do a little experimenting there. So how did it go?
Jenni

*Enquiring minds are dying to know! | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 2:42:44 PM | LOL....her OP was last year...if you read the beginning of the thread, she gives the update of how it went...  | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 2:50:11 PM | OMG! I can't believe I didn't notice that! Thanks for bringing this to my attention, this is what happens when you follow the crowd...
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 3:18:27 PM | You know, im always playing around on the gay side of fish, and just for fun i decided to take a look at you straight people. HOLY SHIT!!! you guys are crazy...and i love it! The whole strap-on debate has always been a 'taboo' topic with straight guys...something that they want to try, but are to affraid to ask! (now watch, all kinds of guys are gonna say "HELL NO!") I have a theory... straight guys, dont read if you dont want to hear...I think everyone wants a dildo up their ass! or at least has the desire to try something 'risque'. I guess the easiest thing would be to ask your man; do you want to get slammed?
good one girl...MAKE HIM SCREAM!!! | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 4:10:13 PM | | LOL have you tried a finger or your tongue at any time before this ??????? I'm thinking when you pull out his new little "friend" and approach him he may think it's a joke if you haven't spoken about it yet........but remember if he bites the pillow and squeals like a pig,it doesn't mean he is liking it.....does it? Oh and just one more thing if he does like it don't be to shocked it he straps it on and DP's you. LOL | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 6:48:40 PM | I need to find an open-minded female :)
I can't say that I have thought about anal penetration...other than when discussing my gay friends' sex lives (lol), but I have certainly thought about anal "pleasure"....the more I think about it, the woman in control thing just seems f**king too hot!!!
I say the more variety and spice the better. | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 7:02:56 PM | | Ouch that hurts a lot....don't tell me that's how it feels.....NOOOOOO WAYYYYYYYY.... | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 7:45:53 PM | | I have found all of this VERY informative...talking to a guy who is interested in this, I had never even thought about it..was taken aback at first, but now think it's pretty hot...thanks for the education! | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 7:51:45 PM | Wow.....I am a pretty open-minded guy and all....but I have to draw the line somewhere.....and this....would be it.  | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 8:39:53 PM | Any woman that even thinks there might be the slimmest chance of me doing this, needs to go see a therapist because she is obviously nuts.
Just trying to read her post about what she did to him made me queasy. Maybe i am just not as open minded as some of you posters. If not wanted this done to me makes me closed minded, then consider my mind shut tight as a vault. | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 8:43:59 PM | Was this post for real? No way, nohow, not even the remotest chance in hell that I would even consider this. If a woman tried that with me...oh man. I'm outta there. Whew. | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 8:55:21 PM | | Is this an isolated case (man I hope so) or is this the norms these days as a “surprise” umm ........ err ...... *gift*? | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/16/2007 9:04:14 PM | I think some people here come up with anything they can dream up for shock value just to get a reaction. So many topics are redundant that people try and come up with any bizarre twist they can to get a discussion going. I find It hard to believe that some actually get turned on by some of the things they claim. My stomach has literally turned from reading some of the cr@p that's posted. There was a guy on here the other day saying he gets turned on by drinking his cum out of his girlfriends vagina. I knew there were some strange cats in this world, but I didn't realize how strange until I started following this forum. | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/17/2007 4:18:41 AM | As surprises go....I'd have to say a woman coming to bed wearing a strap-on ranks just slightly above waking up with my hand in a garbage disposal.
That is one of those "jump out the window and run down the street naked to get away from this crazy chick" type surprises.  | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/17/2007 4:54:25 AM | I don't know about strap-ons... But nothing says I love you like a finger up the butt while getting a BJ
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/17/2007 6:24:22 AM | | the thing several of you have missed is she is excited in giving him pleasure, she is not into hurting him, just lovingly let him experience a new way to obtain orgasm, i did it a couple of times to the one i was involved with, if you are gentle and easy with it the whole experience is wonderful, there is no his way or you way there is just giving and receiving. | |
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/17/2007 7:12:58 AM | Personally the idea doesn't sound very appealing to me....I'm a catcher not a pitcher But...different strokes for different folks...
If your gonna do it....I'd say Doggy position is the best and don't forget to use lots of...LUBE
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| strap ons 101 Posted: 2/18/2007 6:47:35 AM | What I find funny is that all the guys are clenching their ass cheeks and screaming "NO!" My guess is that they are assuming the strap-on is going to be 15" long and as thick as a Coke can. Do you realize that there are different sizes?
Too bad I didn't see this sooner. I'd have suggest you look for a "training strap-on". It comes with 2 sizes of dildos. One is about 5" long and about as thick as a thumb the other is about 6" long and about average thickness.
Positions? For starters having him on his back at the edge of the bed is probably the most comfortable. With you standing on the floor things should be fairly well lined up (unless your mattress is on the floor and not on a frame). After a few sessions like this and he's comfortable you can either use the bigger one or try other positions.
Don't forget to use a good lube and insert slowly. Give him time to relax and get used to it. | |
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