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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/20/2007 4:42:28 AM | My thoughts from the experiences I have lived. Rejection is mostly given to those whom hand it out. I hope that makes some type answer to the question. It's really all a game of perception. <--hope i spelled that right. There are many factors that lead into that. It could just be the smell of ones skin that ends him up rejected. (This is said with the assumption the person baths on a normal basis.) To find your answer..... Chemistry! It's all about the Science! Heard that one on CSI! Had to use it! lol | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/20/2007 4:42:35 AM | | My thoughts from the experiences I have lived. Rejection is mostly given to those whom hand it out. I hope that makes some type answer to the question. It's really all a game of perception. <--hope i spelled that right. There are many factors that lead into that. It could just be the smell of ones skin that ends him up rejected. (This is said with the assumption the person baths on a normal basis.) To find your answer..... Chemistry! It's all about the Science! Heard that one on CSI! Had to use it! lol | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/20/2007 11:02:26 AM | Hmm interesting that no woman says looks or money, type of job, but let's be honest ladies, those are the top requirements to dating today.
Too many women judge men on the type of job they have based on the title of it. Because many think if he has no title he has no ambition and makes crap money. When in fact there is nothing wrong with enjoying the job you do and making decent money.
I do laugh when I hear someone say to friends "Wow you must make good money" just from their job title, when in fact I make just as much as them with no title.
I still say women reject men based on looks first then job/income. Personality is way down the list these days. | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/20/2007 12:47:25 PM | I would Say my very biggest reason for rejecting a guy is
" When he thinks he is a know it all."
Knowing we learn new things each & everyday & need to be open to allow new ideas & possibilities to grow, in our minds & in our world. The sky is the limit.
This i feel is Wisdom.
Oh Yes & the Wife/GF, thing is a no brainer.
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/20/2007 2:30:15 PM | Based on my shortened experience, I gotta say it’s height. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard a girl tell me “no” citing height. I think it’s kinda silly given all the things wrong with me (bad haircut, poor hygiene, crappy job, and overall bad attitude) yet it’s the one thing that keeps coming back. And what really pisses me off is when short chiks say they’ll only date tall guys. I’ve meet so many girls who are like 5’2” and say they’ll only date a guy taller than six feet.
Of all the trivial, shallow things that people are, this is the one that bugs me the most. If you’re fat, you can lose weight. If you’re dumb, you can study more. But if you’re short, it’s not like you can grow. Height is one of the few elements of your body you have no control over.
But that’s just my annoyed two cents. | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/20/2007 3:05:46 PM | Really? I just checked your profile and I don't think you are all that short. I gotta say, I love tall men because they made me feel short and feminine, but I've dated shorter guys than you My daughter is marrying a guy who is a couple of inches shorter and she is hot. I'm not saying that as her mom, I've been hearing it since she was 12. She's just smart enough to not look at height as a dating factor. So don't give up, there are some nice, intelligent ladies out there.
And if that's the color of your eyes, I probably would have given you a chance on that alone. One of my more shallow traits! | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/20/2007 7:20:09 PM | #1 reason I reject guys is because there is no common ground. I need to have some things in common with a guy if I'm going to meet him and potentially date him.
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because they are immature despite your age. Guys, it doesn't impress me that you can drink 26 beers in one evening. It impresses me when a guy on here makes first contact with a girl because he ACTUALLY LIKES HER!
#1 reason I think I am rejected..hard to say,when a guy says no thanks I don't usually ask him, I can usually tell. If you look at my profile and my pictures you'll no doubt see a sexy woman. But I am what some would call different. I have a different body shape. Inbetween skinny and fat, chubby maybe. Guys just don't find my body attractive. That's usually the main reason, which is a shi**y one I know. Tough to think that you are single because guys think your body is ugly. Try living with that day by day. | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/20/2007 8:40:55 PM | No common ground is a definite dealbreaker. If a guy is a conservative, I don't want him in my life. Who needs political arguments? It's more fun to enjoy bantering about politics with someone who is likeminded. No common interests doesn't help but no two people have exactly the same interests. I love sports, but had a successful relationship with a man who wasn't as into sports as I am. We had other common interests to keep things going.
I cannot stand a guy who is drunk or likes to talk about being drunk. ICK.
Everyone has their own preferences as far as body shape, hair, etc. This varies very widely from person to person.
BIGOTRY is a huge no no with me as well. I've flat out rejected men who are bigoted, and I told them right to their face how I felt and WHY. I clearly state in my profile that I do not wish to hear from anyone who is bigoted or homophobic. Both show hatred and ignorance, which are very ugly indeed! Look at Mitt Romney. He may have that slick face but deep down he is very ugly inside because he's a bigoted pig. Disgusting!!
On the light side I would find someone who hates the Hamptons to be completely puzzling and beyond my comprehension, especially if the man has not seen the prettiest area on earth (I know I am biased!!). Someone who is in the Hamptons and says he is bored. Now that one is ready for a straightjacket!!!! If any of you have been there, you know there's plenty to do, even on a rainy day, and that there's something for all kinds of people to enjoy from the seafood shacks that line the Montauk Highway to the poshest places like the "Palm" and everything in between. If you can't have fun in the sun then you are a sad case indeed!! | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/22/2007 2:55:49 PM | Not sure what to think about these bizarre posts. Most women have said something that has to do with men lying. Well, on the surface, that's okay. I guess they are assuming they are ALWAYS truthful and have never misled any man. How about all the makeup you wear? Is that the way you really look? How about the loose fitting clothes to hide that you are 20 pounds overweight? What are you hiding? Is that a lie? What about the heals you wear? Are you really that tall?
Well, what I have found is that if someone ....male or female. says, what characteristic they don't like in others, that means that's who they themselves really are. People decribe themselves in what they don't like in others. If you want to know a woman. Ask her what she doesn't like about a man. If she says, lying, decent, etc. That means that's who SHE is. If you ask a woman what she doesn't like about men and she says...."most men have treated me with respect and honor and I really don't have horror stories about men in my life"......DON"T LET THAT WOMAN GET AWAY!!!. Not only does that mean she makes good choices because she doesn't have horror stories, but she actually described herself by saying she would treat YOU with respect and honor. Think about it guys..if a woman can't do anything but complain about what men have "done to her". What does that say about her ability to make good choices in who she dates? And, most importantly, what does that say about YOU if she is now dating you? Think about it....Everything that the women has said in this post they don't like about men, if it be lying, cheating, bigotry, lack of communication skills, lack of personality, etc..what that really means is that is a shortcoming to some degree in their own personality. You want to find out how a woman really is...ask her about men and she will reveal herself. If she says "I hate men that smell bad" RUN!!! That means she's the one that really smells... | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/27/2007 7:26:44 AM |
And lack of personality is a real turn off. To me he has to have a personality, or I cannot even think about anything else
Where are these women? I never have encountered them here. They all say they like my personality, but reject me most times based on physical and sexual attraction lacking. Never have I been rejected for a lack of personality.
Here in Toronto looks, money/type of job and type of car rank up there as 1,2 and 3. Peronality is considered a bonus if he has one. Prestige plays a huge part here in dating. | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/27/2007 3:11:09 PM | "Hands down - #1 reason
The man isn't good looking
Women are ONLY and I mean ONLY interested in looks !!"
Sorry fellas, but them thar is fighin' words. I may not be much to look at, but I have dated great-looking men, average men and homely men. I prefer "average" men because they tend to be more secure. What I reject men for more than anything else is DISHONESTY. Well, that and rotten and/or missing teeth... (crocked teeth are NOT in the same catergory). | |
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