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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/27/2007 3:55:06 PM | I would have to agree on personality I like to give a guy a chance if he comes across genuine but not very attractive I could find him attractive gettin to know him, but if the guys totally not my type looks and their would be no way Id find him atractive I wouldnt try to hard to get to know him, also black shoes and white socks.
Also bad hygeine no matter how nice its not nce to be stood talking and having to turn away to take a breath! | |
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Tarika
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Joined: 8/30/2006
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/27/2007 5:26:49 PM | Women are ONLY and I mean ONLY interested in looks !!
So you ONLY contact women without pics, right?
I'm not about to say ALL men anything, but when my profile pic was the back of my head, I sure got a lot of requests for my face. From some pretty nice guys. Seems like you've set up yourself to be a self fulfilling prophecy. And if being "right" is enough for you, kewl. I'd think, however, that having put in the effort to be here, one might try at least to set oneself up for success ~~ just me, I guess. | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 1/27/2007 5:46:06 PM |
would have to agree on personality I like to give a guy a chance if he comes across genuine but not very attractive I could find him attractive gettin to know him, but if the guys totally not my type looks and their would be no way Id find him atractive I wouldnt try to hard to get to know him, also black shoes and white socks.
Also bad hygeine no matter how nice its not nce to be stood talking and having to turn away to take a breath!
Someone needs a tic tac and some deoderant and it sure is not me.
Black shoes white socks...you mean that has been my major downfall? No one sees my socks though, could be green ones.
I have to compliment you on not being like most who base alot on looks. Good for you. | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 5/9/2008 9:18:24 AM | | Unhealth...Mind body spirit...if the person is not healthy in any of those areas not only do they have a problem with themselves, but they wont be able to manage a realtionship either! A relationship between two healthy people should enhance them. Complications arise when someone is unbalanced. | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 5/9/2008 2:38:30 PM | The number one reason a woman would reject a guy is how he acts and the attitudes and beliefs he conveys. If anyone were to judge me or insult me after a first date that would be the last date...I don't mind feed back but a first date is when at least i get nervouse and I think when a man judges a woman on the first date that may be a sign of his insecurities. If he jokes that all women are this or that....I would not want to go further.
The best way not to get rejected is be yourself and make your date feel comfortable not pressured to be better than your "exs" allow her to be herself and enjoy the time you have together get to know each other. If you have insecurities discuss them but don't assume that all women are the same...if you want a chance to see a person again act like this is a clear slate and let it be come what may. and....be nice! | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 5/9/2008 5:44:17 PM | Number one reason would be that a guy has no status. A guy has to be in that top 5% for a girl to notice him, so he has to have money, looks, skills, something that puts him out of reach for the woman. That's why guys in college look great to girls in high school, and guys with a job look good to girls in college.
Women will put up with an ugly guy if the guy has status. Women will put up with an abusive guy if the guy has status. But if the guy doesn't have status, then there's nothing for women to impress their friends with.
It's much easier being a guy. Just find a group of women who think you're in the top 5% and bam, you're done. It's pretty sucky if you happen to like women who are your equals or are into the same kinds of things you're into, though. You pretty much have to slum it to find a woman. | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 5/9/2008 6:03:50 PM | ummm....several reasons actually
He talks too much
He doesn't talk enough
He's too tall
He's too short
He's a soft male
He's too much of a cowboy
He's a neat freak
He's a slob
He makes more money than I do
He doesn't have a job
He's too clingy
He's too remote
He still talks to his parents every week
He never talks to his parents
He's too freaking hairy
He's bald
He's always prying into my business
He never asks about my life
He watches too much TV
He never watches our favorite show with me anymore
He tries too hard
and, just to end this foolish thing
Whatever he does is never enough
  "kimbo | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 5/9/2008 10:03:10 PM | I would hope the #1 reason would be that he's a LIAR. That is the worst quality any person can have--to be a liar.
Others:
Being a criminal
No job
Abusive
Addictions
Appearance issues are highly subjective so I would say that the above are among the biggest reasons for rejection. | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for?
Posted: 5/9/2008 11:19:34 PM | | I see that most of us guys say that the number one reason a women turns us down is, looks. While it's appears that most women say it's because the man is a liar . Which is a good reason of course. But I think we guys are saying that most women, not all, but most wont even give a guy the chance show if he's a liar, or a great person, if he's not good looking. That is she wont let him get his, 'foot in the door'. | |
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| What would you say is the number one reason a woman would reject a guy for?
Posted: 5/10/2008 11:10:17 AM | no chemistry, no empathy, no self responsibility.....and too much ego. (sorry four things)
and beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.....yes, i need to see him as beautiful in my heart from the inside out. (oops, five things)
if i had to choose just one? um, gut feeling i just don't want to be near his energy. | |
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