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Posted: 9/9/2009 7:54:51 AM | Sometimes just listening to his sounds....put's me over the edge.
Well that settles it... from now on, I'm gonna consciously let out all the oohs, aaahs, snorts, grunts, farts, joint cracking and any other sounds...
Is mimicking sounds from The Dukes of Hazard sexy?
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Posted: 9/11/2009 4:21:40 PM |
It seems to me that 90% of sex is about making the woman happy, I have yet to meet a woman that gave any consideration to what I may enjoy. It seems that most woman think taking off their clothes is enough to make a man happy, so maybe the reason most men don't make noise during sex is because it just isn't that great. It's better than nothing, but it just isn't enought to really rock their world. I'll make a lot of noise if the sex is good, but if I'm just working to please you, it isn't going to be that great.
It might become 50/50 one day but you are probably right. | |
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Posted: 9/12/2009 1:05:28 AM | ROFLMAO! This reminds me of something I heard on the radio...and I wouldn't mind going this way either!
A husband and wife were having sex, and they used nipple clamps. Apparently, she got electrocuted from them, and the guy was charged with manslaughter and wrecklessness if I remember correctly.
Can you say electrifying sex? lol | |
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Posted: 9/12/2009 12:26:07 PM | | It takes concentration to make a c-ck erect, and sexual stimulation is largely visual for men. We're so focused on the visual of you that sound gets in the way. I mainly do a lot of heavy breathing. But, when I get close to cum, you better believe my breathing turns to vicious groans! | |
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Posted: 9/12/2009 1:31:45 PM | | I was never the moaner groaner type either.However when im cumming i like to bury my face in the girls neck,and emit a low gutteral tiger growl ...if that counts. | |
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Posted: 9/12/2009 1:55:20 PM | | Oh yeah, it counts LOL. Make all the noise you want!! I know I'm too noisy sometimes but can't help it if it's so good & I like to know the guy can't help it either. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2009 9:19:37 AM | Mzzzy, how many men have you slept with? In order to have a sample that states 70% of them are silent, you'd have to sleep with quite a few. Actually it would be a ridiculous amount.
I've been with men who were quieter and others who were very animated. I don't wager the quality of a man's lovemaking skills to how loud or quiet he is. I'd prefer he was at least being himself and doing what comes naturally. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2009 10:49:08 AM | Here'a a tip...stop having sex in the county morgue!
Bartender...double! | |
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Posted: 9/13/2009 11:41:09 AM | | No excuse, but we're busy trying to maximize your pleasure. Ever watch someone who is concentrating hard on how to do something? Bit of a puzzle to me, as I'm one that enjoys and even insists on vocalization from women. However, unless you take over and get on top, and insist on doing everything yourself, we're busy doing something to advance your enjoyment. And the more noise you make, the harder we work. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2009 8:55:01 PM | ask the guy to give you feedback.
myself when I receive I tell if it's good or to do it a certain way but I don't talk all the time, I am busy enjoying the moment. I tell when it feels good during intercourse too, I think it's a complimet to tell a woman I feel good inside of her.
I agree with you, men should say or moan, communicate a bit. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2009 9:30:18 PM | It is such an intimate moment, one of complete vulnerability.
Some don't revel as exuberantly in the pleasure as others.
The observant lover can discern, the signs will be there. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2009 11:44:33 PM | | Ahh come on guys, tell them the truth. We don't make noise so we can hear a car door slam or your husbands key unlocking the front door. Also, if we screamed all the time...how would you know when your big ass was on top of our nuts? | |
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Posted: 9/14/2009 8:00:39 AM | Why don't we say "oh, that feels good" or "ah, yes, right that way"?
I may not have been with as many women as most of the guys here, but I've found that as soon as I let my lover know something felt good? She would QUIT doing that, this is not just been one lover.
So why tell you something feels good when I know you're just going to STOP making it feel good? | |
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Posted: 9/14/2009 1:59:27 PM | I would like to hear and feel some indications. I've found that not all men like the same things and I definitely want a man to get as much pleasure as I'm getting. I don't want to "just lay back and take it". I want to give and receive. If the fact that he has a hard on is supposed to be all the indication I need, then I guess I should just keep walking past him on a public street.
If I'm not told every so often the a home cooked dinner is tasty, I'll just start tossing a bag of food fast food at the family every night instead of putting forth any effort. Same thing goes in bed except that before long he'll be having to go get his own somewhere else. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2009 3:58:07 PM | | This boils down to simple communication and etiquette which can be expressed and exercised in many different ways. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2009 4:10:33 PM | | I don't yell or anything, but I am vocal. And a bit of trash talkin here and there makes it kinda fun for both parties... Communication is a great thing. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2009 6:36:57 PM | OP So you want a man to make noises and last for 4 hours without Viagra?
Making noises defeats the purpose of the zen ritual that is enjoying what you are doing without focusing on it so you can last long enough shoot without killing her-lol
Seriously though it feels good in a way that is not emotionally as fulfilling which why most men won't make noises like a howler monkey bitten by a werewolf during a full moon. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2009 7:44:54 PM | | I don't get all the guys talking about how they grew up "having to be quiet"...like we women didn't have the same constraints? Yes, women practice "self-love" too...and had the same issues with parents, roommates, whatever. Somehow we managed to get beyond it and now can practice healthy self-expression! | |
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Posted: 9/14/2009 9:20:03 PM | OK 4 pages .. and I didnt go thru each n every response .. but just wanted to add that I am definitely with the ladies who say "let me hear some noise" here!!! ....  Don't have to scream swingin from the chandeliers, but just low growl....whimper or soft moan would do! .... It turns me on to know that you are being turned on, satisfied and pleasured .... | |
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Posted: 9/16/2009 1:38:54 PM |
Msg: 58 -- women don't exactly know how it feels to not have your
dingle work properly. If you're a little dry, you get some lubrication
and everything works fine. If a guy goes limp, what is he going to do?
Give it a pep-talk?
Wow, a man's dilemma capsulized in a small paragraph, and no truer
words spoken. A woman can so CONVENIENTLY hide her attraction or lack
thereof. A man can NOT. A man ALWAYS shows his attraction. The
revelation is quite EASY. The question can be so easily resolved by
simple observation of two EASY formulae: HARD = "I want you, and I
want you NOW!!!" or SOFT = "not now, not EVER!!!"
SYNOPSIS: A man can NEVER be deceptive about his attraction toward a
woman. The "HARD/SOFT" dilemma is EASILY derived by a PERCEPTIVE
woman. The man is at a LOSS should he choose to deceive the woman
concerning his attraction.
The woman, OTOH, has free reign at deception. She has NO outward
physical revelation of ANYTHING contrary to what she has expressed. | |
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Posted: 9/16/2009 1:52:15 PM |
tell me why 70% of the men don't make a damn sound...
I don't make noises...I talk dirty...Am I in the 70% since I don't moan?
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Posted: 10/5/2009 8:44:13 PM | | From the earliest times, sex was only available in only SEMI private surroundings. Her parents house or mine, her dorm room or mine, group houses at college (with almost no privacy between rooms), and FINALLY my own house, but shortly afterwards with children to be quiet for. I just hope I find a more welcoming situation sometime before I die. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2009 6:33:08 AM | | Here is a tip for the ladies.The angrier a guy looks ,or looks like he is concentrating during sex the better it feels.I personally love to talk to my partner during sex, tell her how good she feels,how wet she is,or how good she looks.It just makes the experience better for both parties. | |
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