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Posted: 5/6/2006 12:36:41 AM | go get a blood test because right away she is acting like she is unsure if you are the daddy by telling you to get a blood test .And yes are emotions are upside down happyand sad but
us women go through up's and downs but nothing like your g/f's just to be on the safe side .wouldn't you want to know that the baby your surporting is yours and not someone eles child. your a sweet guy to want to surport them but it sounds like she is trying to discourrage you in helping her when the baby is born,
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Posted: 5/6/2006 4:44:04 PM | If the baby is yours then you should definately support it unless she doesn't want that.But my question is why would you get someone pregnant or want a baby at 19???I'm lost, but maybe this is because I don't really understand your question or your situation properly. | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 12:03:57 AM | | well I am a old mother, and I can tell you that being pregnant doesnt make you stop loving and caring for what is suppose to be the father of your child, if any thing it makes the feelings stronger, and being 21 and pregnant doesnt make you stop loving either, unless you are not the father, and she is just looking for someone to be the father, and she is using what she knows as your feeling to do that, I am having your baby , but dont touch me, after I have the baby my feeling will come back for you, sorry if the feeling isnt there then they want come back after the baby is born, but the notice from the lawyer to pay child support will, my suggest to you is take the test, I believe a man should pay for his children, but they should be his, and no matter how much you feel you love the girl, I dont think she is in love with you, you are a good fall back , take the test and after you know the truth then deciede what it is you are gonna do, | |
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Skyy54
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Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 55 | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 2:12:29 AM | Good Lord.... what a mess!!!
this is for godlygirth.... lol... you crack me up!
So, what did the guy do once he got to the bar... please "Do Tell".... lol | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 12:18:28 PM | | first of all, yes hormones are a big thing. they effect you in many ways. alot of women feel ugly or fat when they are pregnant which makes them not feel sexy which makes them not want to be touched. She may want to have a blood test to prove to you its yours so there is no doubt. give her time to have the baby, but stick by her thru it all, this is also a test for you to see if you can stick thru thick and thin. kepp a distance but stay with it. this is your child dont give her any doubt you'll be there. | |
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Joined: 8/17/2006
Msg: 57 | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 12:38:34 PM | | I suggest you both stop thinking about what you want and instead pull together and talk about what this baby is going to need. And what this baby needs are two mature, responsible adults, who are going to raise a fine child that is fit for this world. You have every right to a paternity test before making one of the most important commitments of your life, so be strong and get one. Whatever the result -- if you love this girl, you should know that it takes more than biology to be a father. | |
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need4u
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Joined: 6/22/2006
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need4u
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Joined: 6/22/2006
Msg: 59 | |
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Posted: 9/28/2006 8:55:42 AM | Ok this is her first child, and she's young, so right now she's scared. had my first child at 19 and was scared stiff. also maybe she's not really sure about the two of you yet. if it's only been three months then she's still getting used to you. can I ask you was she with anyone when you meet. the reason I ask this, is because she's not 100% sure whom the father is, and keeps trying to tell herself it's you, but deep down isn't 100% sure. if this is the case then she's feeling lost right now, and is again scared of you leaveing if this child is not yours. I would just for the time being try to hang in there, as she will go though alot of changes. also she mayhave been told by her mother or some other member of her family that anykind of sexuall forplay may harm the baby. and she is scared of lossing it. ( I would try to find out if she has been preganat before, and has lost it. if this is the case then she is just trying to carry full term. myself I think you need to take her out to dinner and have nice calm chat, and maybe go to see a doctor, so you can both sort things out. Goodluck to you both.  | |
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Posted: 9/30/2006 1:32:42 AM | | i have four kids .. i can honestly say the only thing i wanted near me was their daddy.. i loved him more when i was pregnant | |
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