| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/19/2008 5:37:33 PM | | that is a very good question not really sure but something i did definity did ruin it for her . i guess only she knows what was the deal breaker . cause i'm not sure | |
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/19/2008 7:16:09 PM | -when i got pissed b/c i was spending the night...and after claiming we were going to bed, he stayed on the couch for about 30 minutes on the phone...and i got changed from my pj's to my regular clothes and left...
- when i mentioned that it kinda bothered me when we were watching a movie together at his house, he checked his e-mail (no problem) but then started checking POF e-mail...
and yes folks, 2 separate guys...fun fun | |
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/19/2008 7:20:50 PM | | The 47-year old man told me that he never got married because he could never find anyone good enough for him. He never called me after the first date. | |
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/19/2008 7:47:12 PM | I conversed very little with him during a live football game.. I was trying to watch the game .. not get to know him.. he was asking me alot of questions about myself and I was focusing on the defense.. sigh.. | |
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/19/2008 8:16:09 PM | i was told by a guy i met, i was smaller in person and he had never been with anyone as small as me. he said all the girls he had been with weighed 15 lb more than me at least. he said he was afraid i'd blow his mind. i said "i'd sure try." | |
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/19/2008 8:26:35 PM | ....I spilled tea on his lap. I wasn't surprised he didn't call.
I've also been ditched for being too tall, too aggressive, and not wanting kids. | |
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/19/2008 9:21:13 PM | One guy (on here ironically and he's on other sites) got pissed because in the first IM I wouldn't agree to come to his house after about 90 seconds...I thought he was joking...then a little while longer he asked if I Liked having XXXXsex and I said I wasn't going to answer that because it was just too abassive of a question and it was rude of him to ask (I'm not a prude with someone I'm dating,but we weren't dating)...but he wouldn't let up and fired away a couple more sentences in a cuople of seconds and then said "cut the BS and answer the damn question or be gone, you're boring me!"...So I blocked him and 'left'...he kept trying for months to get me to talk to him on different sites, and even changed his email address and photos....when I answered one of his emails because I didn't recognize the name or the photo (In fact I said, 'Do I know you?") he wrote back "Are you over yourself and ready to try this again?"...so I copied and pasted the IM text and said "No, you're still a jacka**" and blocked him again....
Another guy who wrote me for months and was 'dying to meet me', and we were having a great time until the food came, dumped me because he loved hot sause all over his meal and wouldn't let up because I wouldn't 'try it: I told him that would really bother my stomach to do that, so he barely looked at me the rest of the date or when walking me to the car and he never sopke to me again....would'nt even answer my email where I thanked him for the date... | |
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/20/2008 11:55:54 AM | For what it is worth: an acid test for me on the first date is to look at the interior of the other person's car: sometimes it looks like they are living in the car and never heard of trashbags....I can only imagine what their house looks like....and probably their minds...no, I am not a 'neatnik', but there are limits!  | |
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/20/2008 12:23:17 PM | | When she first saw me in person. I always try to send as recent pics as I have and do my best to describe myself BEFORE we agree to meet so they know exactly what to expect, yet they ALL end the same way, the good ol, Dear John letter; "I had a great time, you're a great guy and believe me it's me not you, I'm just not ready yet...blah blah blah" Well then if you weren't ready were you just looking for a free lunch or what, why accept a date if you "weren't ready." But I rarely date anymore unless approached first. | |
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/20/2008 12:57:53 PM | | When I couldn't get excited about being 2nd 'mom' to his baby twin boys. He really, really wanted me to step right up into that position, but I already had 3 of my own. Ack. But he did drunk dial me for weeks after that, lol. | |
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/20/2008 1:38:35 PM | I invited him and his daughter for dinner at my house with me and my daughters.
We had been seeing each other for two months and had never been to each other's houses. His daughter was staying with him for a week so I suggested we do something together and then they could come for dinner and I'd cook.
He said, great, but he needed to run it past her mother first to make sure it was OK.
I never heard from him again.
I even had a menu planned. :( | |
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/20/2008 1:56:42 PM | I think the one that I thought was toooo funny was the woman who said she was height weigh/ proportionate and when I got there to her house she runs out to the car and said" well what do you think" and I said height weight proportionate????? if you were 9 feet tall.
Thing was she wasn't pissed
It was a hr drive so I did take her to dinner anyway,for something to do where she ordered two dinners thats where I knew she wans't for me period. | |
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/20/2008 2:01:19 PM | | ...I told her how fascinated I was with animation. *sigh* that's what is is most of the time. Not a lot of people are interested in that kind of thing. | |
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Joined: 8/13/2008
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/20/2008 2:07:20 PM | | oh my god, i wonder if its the same guy that i almost made the mistake of spending time with.... thank God, i have morals, its great to see there are other women out there that have to weed thru a bunch of loosers | |
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| Your date knew YOU weren't the one when...
Posted: 8/20/2008 2:07:21 PM | I wish I knew! They're always asking me for another date, taking my number, complimenting me, having a great time - and then I never hear from them again!
Was it something I said? BO? Spinach in the teeth? We'll never know!
But then, I'm perfect, it can't be any of those things...........
Debbie
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