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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 4/27/2006 12:20:04 PM | too true. i have lots of preferences when it comes to type...however i have quite often gone out with guys who fit few or even none of those traits. attraction isn't merely based on a checklist of features, not for me at least.
even so...there are certain qualities which will always turn my head, make my heart flutter and my knees weak. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 4/27/2006 4:09:02 PM | I don't see an issue, here.
When I was in my early 20's, I've dated a few women in their mid to late 30's and two who were in
their early 40's. The sex was great and there was no pressure to form some sort of commitment. I
just wanted a good time, and they graciously provided it. They liked my youth and energy and I liked
their experience and laid-back attitude. However, there was never a doubt in my mind that I would
ever form a long lasting relationship with any of them. The age difference, though, not an issue in a
casual relationship would be much more apparent in a serious relationship. I think that they
understood this and was just willing to live for the moment. Now, that I'm older and want to settle
down, I tend to gravitate toward women who are younger than me (my current girlfriend is 24)
because I don't want to deal with the baggages that come with an older woman. Sorry, folks, that is
reality. The older you get, the more baggages you accumulated. Also, younger women's biological
clocks are not going off like those of their older sisters, so, I'll have a few more years to accumulate
more wealth before having to start raising a family. Anyway, the point that I'm trying to make here is
that if you older ladies like to date those young studs, then, by all mean go for it. However, don't
expect those guys to form any type of long lasting bond with you; since, like me, they are just going
along for the ride. Generally speaking, YOUNG guys are not very picky about whom they sleep with
as long as it keeps on coming. If you older ladies are awared of this and are willing to take advantage
of it without investing too much emotional tie into the relationships, then, have loads of fun. As for
the older guys, now that your financial and social standing are at their peaks, , why not do what
men have been doing for millennia and find younger women to settle down with. Then, we can all
be happy.  cheers,
DD | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 4/27/2006 10:01:41 PM | ^^Ah the find a younger woman thing...seems you have not realized tons of those women do not like dating older men. Is how that generation of women are. Less young women date older men these days which leaves many of us old guys more or less destined to be single for a long time. Even for something casual, young women do not look for that with old guys.
I have myself come to accept it all more so than even a week ago. Times change and so do people, sometimes you have to accept things you do not want to accept in life.
Older women dating younger menis here to stay. And not much can be done about that accept to move on wit one's life and just not bother with it all. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 4/28/2006 12:24:54 PM | Ya know what, Rabidwolvedog, I used to think that you are an imbecile from some of the things that
came out of your writting; but, now, I have nothing but pity for you, my man. If they ever pass out a
medal for having rock bottom self-esteem, I bet you would wear it proudly. My take is that you had
a few bad experiences with rejection from women and you are so traumatized that you let negativity
takes over your life. I'll let you in on a secret, Rabidwolvedog, when it comes to chasing skirts, every
man (yes, including the mighty Didier) has experienced rejection. It's the simple law of supply and
demand. They have the goods and we want them. So, we have to play by their rules. Just learn to
shrug it off and keep on chasing until you get what you want, or, rather, in your case, until you get
what you are willing to settle for. To be successfull in love, first, you must take care of your own
business. By that, I mean, work hard to improve yourself, your social and economic standing. In my
circle of friends and associates, older man, younger woman is the norm, not the exception. Younger
women are attracted to confidence, maturity and sound social and economic standing that can only
come with age and experience. Let the older women have the younger men, if they just want quick
and meaningless flings. After all, they are entitled to it. Go after the young, sweet things.
Remember, you don't have to limit yourself to just white, North American women. There are plenty
of women from all over the world, who would love to start a relationship with a man from North
America. A few guys in my firm are married or involved with foreign women and they seem perfectly
happy. Ofcourse, there are idiots out there who will scoff at you for going after "mail ordered" brides.
Let them. What matters is your happiness. For some reason, I have the felling that I'm completely
wasting my time with you, Wolfdog. My take is that you'll probably scan through my post and just let
it roll of your back, then, come back here and whine some more.  Cheers,
DD | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 4/28/2006 2:22:45 PM | Ok so I am not one to embrace and enjoy rejection...but hey who does?
But the worst rejections I find are when women my age say they prefer men younger because they are more full of life...it makes me think wow..I guess I am old and not good enough...and when women say you are unattractive it makes one think ok...am I really that bad??
Hey some guys love rejection...I used to accept it and used to look at it as challeges...and laugh but that was in my 20's..as my 30's progressed and I am still single, rejection is just not the same to me...maybe in my 40's I will again embrace it...I even think maybe I shoud, aim at a number like 50, and see if I can get that many rejections by a certain date and it will be fun...but then my luck I will talk to a bunch of women and all of them will meet me and then will actually want to go on an actual date...oh wait that is me daydreaming again...but it did sound fun did it not???
As i always say women hold all the cards and we play by thier rules...meaning they set the standards and not all of us can match those standards...just that some of us do not want to believe we can't..when in fact we can't. And sure as alot say everyone's taste is different but I think more and more women are having the same tastes and prefrences these days. is why so many men and women are single still and always looking and thinking that someone is better than they just met... | |
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Posted: 4/28/2006 3:05:12 PM | | Hey justme... If you wouldn't rule out a guy because of their age, then why do you have a block on your profile to a guy not that much older than yourself? You had some great things to say, and I really wanted to try to contact you. Still do. And now, I have a few more questions for you. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2006 3:38:16 PM | Most women who like younger men, at least from the girlfriends I know and what they've said, is because of purely the sex, the young guys' stamina, and a feeling of superiority in the bedroom they feel over some young man. It's a feeling of power they get from being the more experienced sexual partner. Not to mention it's not a norm in society, which only adds fuel to the fire. I'm talking now of a woman getting with a man 10 to 20 years younger than herself.
The women I know who've dated younger men said men of their same age or older couldn't keep up with them in the bedroom or didn't have the sexual appetite they now have. My appetite is still pretty good, but I do workout which helps. At 30 men's testoterone levels start to drop, which is one thing that pushes along our sex drives.
It's God's cruel joke that when us men are in our teens and early twenties we're horn dogs, full of testosterone, want it all the time, and women for the most part are reserved and haven't hit their sexual peak. Of course, there are exceptions.
Now, when women get in their thirties and above, they start, in my opinion, coming out of their sexual shell and wanting it like rabbits. Maybe it's because of that biological clock ticking, or like my friends have mentioned, they know what they want and society's tags of "whore," "slut," et cetera, they could care less about. They go for it because men of their age can't satisfy them the way a young one can.
But then they have to deal with these young kids getting emotional, when they're just in it for the sex. It's hilarious the role reversal and hearing my friends talk about how they just want a piece of ass and this guy is falling in love. Now they know how I felt when I was younger. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2006 4:46:30 PM | | Heh heh Wolvie, I've a friend who looks 25 but he's actually 35. Graduated HS at 15, got his BA at 19, he's a stone cold fox, a local rock star, he's got personality and charm and wit...in a word, he's everything a sane woman could want. And he still gets shot down by the younger women (recently a 22 yo swimsuit model, who says, "he's too old"). I told him he needs to quit fishing where the bait gets spat out. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 4/29/2006 11:38:25 AM | | oblivione, the thing that strikes me here is that your 35 yr old friend was going for a 22 yr old "swimsuit model"...lol she probably turns down plenty of men her age too, just with a different excuse. but what also makes me raise my eyebrows is that probably no one had any negative thoughts about a 35 year old guy approaching a 22 year old girl...yet reverse the genders and we have a thread like this one of women having to defend their preference for younger men. i kinda find it amusing. | |
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Posted: 4/29/2006 12:23:17 PM | LOL well that is funny that women are defending chasing after young studs...I get told that I am a pig and pervert for having 19 yr old women like me and I am 37..and I do not hit on them, they like me...and yet no perverted comments are told to women for dating, havng sex with men young enough to be thier kids...but look out if a guy is having sex with a woman young enough to be his daughter well now, women call him every name in the book..strange that you say women here are defending thier preference...be thankful it is only on a forum and not in public where if a guy in his late 30's is seen walking with a woman in her early 20's they presume he is just with her for sex and is a big pervert...I went shopping yesterday with a couple of the young women from work, 19 yrs old each, and man did I get dirty looks from the women at the stores...but these women would never give me the time of day so what gives? Is the typical reaction from women older than these women I was with...thinking "What a pig he is old enough to be thier father, that is gross"
Best thing was these women I was with seen that a mile away and hammed it up by saying to me "Sweetheart do you think I look good in this top?" and "Hey sexy I think you will look real good wearing this shirt and these pants, try them on"
And they say a 37 year old guy is boring and no fun LOL...wishful thinking there ladies..wishful thinking | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 4/29/2006 3:54:46 PM | | i don't cast judgements on the older guys who date younger women either...so don't paint all of us women with the same brush. you just seem to have a knack for drawing the ire of the overly critical & repressed prudes of my gender. i hope your luck turns, no way you deserve that. | |
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Posted: 4/30/2006 5:56:45 AM | My luck will never turn, maybe only in my dreams when I sleep, as the times have changed and less and less younger women will date older farts my age..and more and more women my age will not date old farts my age...so that leaves us guys emptyhanded...only positive is, we will just do our own thing on our own agenda and not have to ask questions...
I will figure over the next 5 years or so more women in thier 30's will open thier eyes up more and see that the men under 30 are the men to go for as they are the guys who have everything to offer. And women in thier 40's will be the ones to look up to as they will tell all that dating men in thier 20's are the best and to stay away from those losers who are over 30....us men cannot compete with that and women will be smart and know that a guy in his 20's will definitely take an older woman than one his age...will end up being a bunch of bitter and jaded women in thier 20's single because the guys in thier 20's will want older and a bunch of old and depressed guys in thier 30's and up single...but they won't be dating because those days of older men and younger women will be long gone...sad that this is what will happen and most guys do not see it...good luck guys, we have a long lonely road ahead of us, better be prepared for tons of rejection from women our age...it is coming and coming on strong | |
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Posted: 4/30/2006 10:39:10 AM | Is it not pathetic? 18/19 yr old women taking a liking to a 37 year old fart?
With myself they would never act on it anyhow, they find that I am harmless and they like the fact I am a decent guy to them...they always say if they were 10 years older they would be snagging me and they can't figure out why women my age overlook me..I said wait til you get to your late 20's you will not have that same sweet view on men...I have yet to land a date with someone my age...
Was interesting when i was in my early 30's many women in thier 20's said i was too old, women in thier 30's said I was not good enough and many women in thier 40's said i was too young, I hit my mid/late 30's now and I get women in thier 20's say I am too old, women in thier 30's say I am not good enough or that they date younger, women in thier 40's say they date younger...I get 18/19 yr olds flirting with me...unreal...
I go shopping with a couple young girls i work with on Friday, and women my age and a bit younger give me dirty looks, yet these women would never give me the time of day anyhow, because i am with these young women...I am like wow. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 4/30/2006 10:48:18 AM | There seems to be something wrong with the whole system.
I get a lot of attention from cute little hot things and very little attention from women my own age. Then to my surprise, I find myself telling the cute little ones "only if you were 10 years older" ... right before kicking myself in the ass. | |
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Posted: 4/30/2006 10:57:16 AM | The system is now for women to take control of...so they can have what they want, who they want, when they want...and age will play the main factor..all men under 30 are presumed to be fun, full of life, hot, exciting, mature and know what they want.
Men over 30 are considered aged, boring, set in thier ways, have baggage, no fun, not exciting...so with that in mind, it is why most men over 30 get the shaft from women thier age. Just how the times are and how the system has been tweaked...I am wondering how much worse it will be come my 40's, been rock bottom for my 30's, can it get any worse? I am sure it will...just have to brace for it like a bad storm coming in. | |
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Posted: 4/30/2006 11:05:27 AM | Well, you're certainly not an old fart - you're just the right age for me 
I can see your predicament - that's a tough one | |
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Posted: 5/2/2006 7:20:55 AM | | As the "old guy" here age just seems like a number to me. I guess because I have six pack washboard abs, work out daily pressing over two hundred pounds, I don't "feel" my age. I love riding my motorcycle, racing through the wind as I pass the lines of cars. In appearance I resemble Yul Brynner, just a little more muscle. I find that it is the younger women that have an interest in me. Those in their forties don't even look my way. Matter of fact, most of my friends in their forties and fifties say their wives and girl friends lost their sexual appetites years ago. It wouldn't bother me at all to find a older girl, forties or even fifties, if she was young at heart, body, and desires. I just find that younger women are most alive. Throw age out the window. I just want to live life to the full, mature, masculine, intellectual, sensitive and caring for the one that is interested in making a connection. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2006 8:10:06 AM | Matter of fact, most of my friends in their forties and fifties say their wives and girl friends lost their sexual appetites years ago.
LMAO. If their wives or girlfriends lost their sexual appetites then perhaps it might have been something the husband was doing, or more often then not...not doing!!!
I remember I was once accused of the same thing. And the truth of the matter was it wasn't that I didn't want to have sex anymore, it just was that I didn't want to have sex with HIM anymore. I had no problem having sex (often I might add) with the next gentlemen I was seeing. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2006 9:35:17 AM | Of course^^it always is our fault no matter what..women are never wrong LOL..whatever..it is not a one person problem when it comes to that it is always a lack of COMMUNICATION...oh was the next guy a younger guy by any chance?
One of the women that I have known for years is 41 and she just left her husband for a guy 30 because of well..sex..she said her husband is 45 and she decided to have an affair with this guy because the sex with her husband was terrible and basically she didn't want to have it with him anymore...well she said sex was better with this young guy and so that led to her leaving him for tis guy...and her reply, it was her husband's fault..come on people | |
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Posted: 5/2/2006 10:52:05 AM | All kidding aside, I think what happens in long-term relationships is that we start to take each other for granted and we really don't go the extra mile to make the other person feel special and desired. I don't know about men, but I'm sure it's the same, you are human afterall. So resentment starts to build and it's really really hard for you to want to have any kind of intimate contact with someone you resent. In truth both are to blame.
Now was he younger??? A little bit younger then me and alot younger then the ex. He's 37 now and one of the most beautiful men I have ever met, both inside and out. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2006 11:50:36 AM | Well I think people that say that it's someone else that is the reason that they don't want to have sex just makes it seem that they are hiding something or not wanting to admit something.
If someone truly loves someone they wont make any excuse like that to not have sex with them. It is about character and personality and those that say they have lost the sex appetite, the key word is THEY not because of someone else but because that person who is mentioning it just doesn't have the drive in them for whatever reason. It is important to get to love eachother more and more the older you get and learn to grow old together. Guys AND gals should NOT feel guolty if their partner says "well i just don't have the sex desire in me anymore" because most likely it is not you that is the problem but maybe they have some issue.
People when they leave their spouses for sex reasons and stuff like that can only blame themselves and no one else, not your husband or wife or girlfriend or boyfriend, but themselves, I think people that say "I couldn't stay with him/her because I wasn't sexually into them anymore" should be ashamed of themselves for making such an excuse to hide some personal , touchy issue of their own that they may have.
BTW not suggesting anything about anyone here, but just being general. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/2/2006 1:24:25 PM | {I like youger guys because they are better in bed and more into sex then the older guys i find }
It all varies. I mean there are some old-ER (I don't like calling people old, for i believe if you are young at heart, you're young !) , but some old-ER men that prefer women that way younger younger then they are and yet there are young guys that can be self-controlled and know to keep the "love machine" in oneself, until the right and proper time.
So either way, it's all about the individual and not the age. | |
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