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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/2/2006 2:09:08 PM |
it's all about the individual and not the age.
i have to agree with you there mardio...i've been with men ranging in age from 18 to 43, some are spectacular, others are disappointing, and that applies to both the younger and older ends of that scale. the stamina and enthusiasm of younger men can be great, but my preference for younger men isn't just about performance between the sheets, it's about attitude, outlook on life, interests, and playfulness. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/2/2006 2:22:34 PM | | yeah I agree with you crazycurlz, i am personally attracted to older women (I know from my posts you would think totallly otherwise) but the fact is I am (generally speaking) but the REASON I am is not of the sex issues, but of the one to one corresdpondance that i feel i can have from a more mature women than from soemone more or less my age. There is a kind of expectation when it coems to maturity that admittatly I have and would like to see in older females. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/2/2006 2:40:57 PM | | I do have to say that after reading the threads on this topic, I have now decided it might be best to stay clear of any woman older than 34. This way I will elminate where the majority of my rejections come from, every woman I have met in the past 3 years who has been older than 34 has all rejected me based on a variety of factors ranging from looks to age, but recently even talking to women on here they say age as I am too old. As more and more women do prefer men younger when they hit thier mid 30's I guess. Only thing is, very few women younger do in fact like men older these days. So becomes more of a trying to prove I am as good as these great young guys. And that itself is almost impossible to do. Sure i seemed to be somewhat annoyed with all the women flocking to them but now I agree with why and respect it. I just hope these young guys know they have a great thing with these women and not let them go. We blew our chances and I wouldn't want these great guys making the same mistakes as us. Can't turn back time LOL... | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/2/2006 2:47:35 PM | RW
You are just as good as us young guys. PLUS, who ever said they will have a fullfilling relationship just because they date older or younger then them? Most likely if the reason is over looks, and sex then the relationship is basically over before it began (those that have done that know would I mean I would think) .
Second , young women and older guys still go out together and always will. But again the reason has to be over character and personality or else (pardon the directness here) your beter off staying home and not dating, until you clear things up. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 6:17:31 AM | | Younger guys are better in bed then older guys. Older guys cant get it up as often and as easily. Younger guys also treat me better and appreciate me more. I love younger guys, I also dont find older guys attractive. The gray hair balding bodies just dont do it for me. Plus they move so damn slow... nothing personal to you 50 plus men who think you look 30.. I get letters from you all the time.. ( most of you do though look your age sorry to say) | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 6:26:42 AM | | To be blunt i am in my sexual prime and want a guy who can be sexually available a few times a day on a moments notice. That is possible with younger guys | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 6:26:57 AM | ^^Damn I feel old then for 37 with those statements..thanks for the insight, now I know what the problem is...best to keep away from the women my age i guess...LOL..man sex sucks with us and so we are nothing? I must say I like the compliment you give the men in thier 50's, does that apply to us old farts your age as well?
Oh and I am right, women do not age, men do. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 6:58:05 AM | {Younger guys are better in bed then older guys. Older guys cant get it up as often and as easily. Younger guys also treat me better and appreciate me more. I love younger guys, I also dont find older guys attractive. The gray hair balding bodies just dont do it for me. Plus they move so damn slow... nothing personal to you 50 plus men who think you look 30.. I get letters from you all the time.. ( most of you do though look your age sorry to say) }
I don't think that was neccarily called for to say against oldeer guys?? I mean I am 25 here, but I still know when something did not have to be said. AND either you said nothing personal to them? well that won't work because they probably took it prsonally. It's hard not too.
You don't hear older guys saying those sorts of insults to women their age?? | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 7:02:35 AM | | What!! They are always ripping the older ladies on this site. As if we don't have feelings. One particular person comes to mind who's always going on and on about sagging flesh and cut up faces. But you are right I'm sure there are a ton of men in their 50's that can still perform quite nicely. Just because you have the right to voice an opinion doesn't mean you always should, especially if it's going to hurt someone unneccessarily. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 7:14:04 AM | {Just because you have the right to voice an opinion doesn't mean you always should, especially if it's going to hurt someone unneccessarily. }
I agree with that statement and I said that to one of the people above me that if you feel that you will put others down and hurt them, thats just not the way to go.
You know what ?!, Just treat others the way YOU want to be treated!! Things would be way better in the social realm. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 9:15:23 AM | "To be blunt i am in my sexual prime and want a guy who can be sexually available a few times a day on a moments notice. That is possible with younger guys"
This woman is like I mentioned in my previous post and just like my older girlfriends I've talked to on this issue. They want sex, and lots of it, and aren't ready for any kind of commitment. They also like the attention these guys give them, like this poster mentioned, because in all honesty a young guy sees an attractive older woman as a trophy of sorts and goes that "extra mile."
Now, not like a beautiful woman his age as a trophy, but like an "old" relic trophy that can stroke his ego because he's getting a woman that's experienced and up in age. A nice antique, if you will. Anything that's not society's norm can sometimes make things more interesting. This being one such case.
I've been there before when I was younger. I dated a 40-year-old when I was 25. She got something out of it, tons of sex, and her ego boosted by being with somebody so young, and I got excited by the whole idea of having sex with an attractive woman, who at the time I considered older than dirt, and it was a rush. Not to mention she was experienced and a freak in the bedroom. That's the reason I hung around for a while.
She wanted sex 24/7, which was her main draw, as is the case when most young men date older women, as we all know.
But having a relationship with this woman? Fat chance. I think it works both ways for the most part in our society between the sexes. Younger men don't want relationships with older women. They just like the rush of bagging an old hag. And women just like the attention a man young enough to be their child can give them, plus the huge amounts of sex. Everybody wins.
I will say to the older ladies just out looking for sex, your clock is ticking and you're not getting any younger. I hope you find a man closer to your age who can satisfy your appetite for sex one day and that you can share your life with, because your beauty will fade to the point one day you won't be able to attract the young studs half your age, just sleep around for sport, unless it's over a ton of liqour at a bar and they guy has his beer goggles on.
Then there's the possibility you might become an old maid. Good luck. We all know, and it's a scientific fact, that your sex drive will drop again after you've passed your "peak" most probably. Now, there are exceptions, but menopause just might tame you.
Maybe you don't fall in this category, Lookingforlove, and want a young man to spend your life with. Hell if I know. I'm just stating my opinion about this issue in general. But in all honesty, he'll get old, too, his sex drive most probably will nosedive, and you're back to square one.
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 9:23:52 AM | {This woman is like I mentioned in my previous post and just like my older girlfriends I've talked to on this issue. They want sex, and lots of it, and aren't ready for any kind of commitment. They also like the attention these guys give them, like this poster mentioned, because in all honesty a young guy sees an attractive older woman as a trophy of sorts and goes that "extra mile." }
I know and thats why I feel that people that think that way and are not really committed, should not be dating and just stay home until they grow up you know. I think it would save MANY people the heart ach and trouble. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 9:37:26 AM | "I know and thats why I feel that people that think that way and are not really committed, should not be dating and just stay home until they grow up you know. I think it would save MANY people the heart ach and trouble. "
True. Not one of my girlfriends who's in their forties are "committed." Now that they're horny 24/7, they've been dumped on once too many times to keep them from committing, they just want to screw as many guys as they can. And now that they're up in age society's tags of whore, slut, tramp, etc., doesn't affect them in the least. I don't think of them that way at all, though.
In all honesty, they've turned into what I was in my early to mid twenties. Nothing wrong with that. I used to love hitting the bars and sleeping with anything I could get my hands on, from 18, to a woman who was twice my age at one point. But in all honesty, that gets old after awhile and IMO is an empty existence.
What I see with my friends is them hooked into this pattern of getting their ego stroked by these younger men, tons of sex, and they become addicted. It's a "power trip" being with a young man and fills their already empty egos.
All the while they age and get older and older, to where one day they won't be able to get the "young stud" (if they even want one at that point because their sex drive will diminish) and it will be difficult to get men in their age range because a lot of the men close to them in age will be dating younger women because of their beauty, while theirs has faded. A vicious cycle. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 10:34:08 AM | Interesting to read that "Younger guys are better in bed then older guys. Older guys cant get it up as often and as easily. Younger guys also treat me better and appreciate me more. I love younger guys, I also dont find older guys attractive. The gray hair balding bodies just dont do it for me. Plus they move so damn slow... nothing personal to you 50 plus men who think you look 30.. I get letters from you all the time.. ( most of you do though look your age sorry to say)"
It now really seems that that it is easier for older women to date younger guys now than the other way round..People seem to think that it is increasingly cool and sexy but if it is the other way round then it is often thought of a kinnda wrong...
In the past the older woman/ younger guy didnt seem to happen but now it seems to be an increasing and unstoppable trend..
Wouldnt be surprised if the marriage ages for women overtake than of men ie the female partner is the older one..Also if the trend continues think a lot of 40 plus guys will be single or have to finf partners 50 plus..that is so different from twenty or ten years ago.. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 10:41:07 AM | Younger men don't want relationships with older women. They just like the rush of bagging an old hag. And women just like the attention a man young enough to be their child can give them, plus the huge amounts of sex. Everybody wins.
I will say to the older ladies just out looking for sex, your clock is ticking and you're not getting any younger. I hope you find a man closer to your age who can satisfy your appetite for sex one day and that you can share your life with, because your beauty will fade to the point one day you won't be able to attract the young studs half your age, just sleep around for sport, unless it's over a ton of liqour at a bar and they guy has his beer goggles on.
Then there's the possibility you might become an old maid. Good luck. We all know, and it's a scientific fact, that your sex drive will drop again after you've passed your "peak" most probably. Now, there are exceptions, but menopause just might tame you.
Wow and the viciousness continues. "Bagging the old hag". I guess on the flip side for young girls it would be bagging the Jurassic ****. You really believe that men as they age don't get their wear and tear?? I know many a 40 and up man that looks like crap and unless they hit the lotto or have some old rich aunt that leaves them a windfall their prospects are going to be just as slim as the women you are talking about.
And this post was suppose to inspire women to want to date men closer to their age??? | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 10:42:29 AM | | I like younger guys because the sex is dramtically better with them and they are attractive to me. I dont need an ego boost i get tons of attention from men all ages thats not a problem. I am not looking for sex fun. I am looking to get married and one man for a serious relationship. I just want to be with someone who likes sex a few times a day. I was married to a guy who could barely have sex once a day. I want to be happy and for me to be happy I need to be with someone who enjoys sex and wants it. I have tons of friends who are married in there 40s like me whos husband like my ex dont like or want sex they are sad and sex starved. In my world men slow down dramatically in wanting sex and there ability to perform. I have dated a guy who is 32 and got along with him great and we were only seeing each other and were thinking of getting married too.I dont know what makes you think that if a older women dates a younger guy she just wants sex. I have found younger guys more romantic and passionate and better friends. To each his own really. Older men in there 50s want girls in there 20s so it goes both ways. Men in there 20s and 30s are the only men who really appoach me anyway . | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 11:05:02 AM | "And this post was suppose to inspire women to want to date men closer to their age???"
Not at all. I could care less about what aged man a woman chooses to date. I have my own preferences, as well. I'm just stating my opinion from my life experiences and from the women I know in their forties who are running around like horn dogs, just as I was in my mid-twenties. I'm just stating my observations. I find this subject interesting.
Now, "the old hag" comment was thrown in just for sport, seeing as older men were getting trashed on. Just a little jab. I see RW is 37, and he's saying he's an "old man." I'm 35, and I see myself as far from it. Also, my sexual appetite isn't commensurate with my age.
Now, as far as men aging and getting "wear and tear," sure, it happens. I work out and run to keep that from happening. But I'm aware not all men, or women for that matter, take care of their bodies and let themselves go. That's just a fact of life.
My point was in our society a lot of women go for older men, so as men get into their fifties and beyond they're still able to find companionship. Whether the woman is out for money, a father figure, or she's truly in love is another matter. Older men can also choose to date in their age range.
But for women who get up in age sooner or later these "young bucks" won't seek them out because their beauty has faded. Sure, there are exceptions. Then they'll be forced to date in their own age range, which by at that time they're at an age where a lot of men their age are going for the younger women. Again, a vicious cycle.
Now, in all honesty, how many men do you know that wish they could get an older woman to be a provider, take care of them, and find them suited as a life partner and marriage material? That number would fall short in comparison to the flipside of the coin, as far as how younger women want an older man as a life partner. It's just how society has been. It is changing a bit, like one poster noted (thanks to the feminist movement) but I don't think a man 20 years younger than his partner will ever be the norm. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2006 11:08:13 AM | {I like younger guys because the sex is dramtically better with them and they are attractive to me. I dont need an ego boost i get tons of attention from men all ages thats not a problem. I am not looking for sex fun. I am looking to get married and one man for a serious relationship. I just want to be with someone who likes sex a few times a day. I was married to a guy who could barely have sex once a day. I want to be happy and for me to be happy I need to be with someone who enjoys sex and wants it. I have tons of friends who are married in there 40s like me whos husband like my ex dont like or want sex they are sad and sex starved. In my world men slow down dramatically in wanting sex and there ability to perform. I have dated a guy who is 32 and got along with him great and we were only seeing each other and were thinking of getting married too.I dont know what makes you think that if a older women dates a younger guy she just wants sex. I have found younger guys more romantic and passionate and better friends. To each his own really. Older men in there 50s want girls in there 20s so it goes both ways. Men in there 20s and 30s are the only men who really appoach me anyway . }
I don't know what "world " you are in, lol, I mean MAYBe, JUST MAYBE they had a reason not to want sex with others, and maybe it might be ............YOU and not them that is making them not want sex.? Anyways, I know that was mean for me to say, but one lady said soemthing of that sorts the other day except about guys, and I just wanted to let others know what it may sound like and how mean it is to say something like that. No offense ok.
But back on topic you say guys DON"T WANT SEX AFTER 40?? lol where are you getting this idea from? So naive, thats just wrong and you are mistaken (I am saying it very nicely) but I thought that Bill Clinton put that rumour on its head! | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 11:20:04 AM | "I like younger guys because the sex is dramtically better with them and they are attractive to me. I dont need an ego boost i get tons of attention from men all ages thats not a problem. I am not looking for sex fun. I am looking to get married and one man for a serious relationship. I just want to be with someone who likes sex a few times a day. I was married to a guy who could barely have sex once a day. I want to be happy and for me to be happy I need to be with someone who enjoys sex and wants it."
I hear you. Every older woman's reason for seeking out a younger man is different. I can only go by the women I've been with, my observations in life, and my friends who are women in their forties.
But, Lookingforlove, you have to realize that "young stud" you're with getting it a few times a day isn't going to stay that way forever most probably. Sooner or later he'll hit the age of the older men you speak of who don't want it as much.
Now, if you're still into getting sex a "few times a day" when he reaches that age, you'll be in the same boat you're in now. Though, your sexual drive might diminish as you get older. Everybody is different.
I guess getting a guy right now that likes it "a few times a day" is a good plan. By the time he starts getting older to where his testosterone levels drop, his sex drive will probably diminish, you might just be at that same point in life, where you don't need it 24/7. Hope it works for you.
Just know that most men who seek out older women do it for one thing, and that's sex. I don't have one friend, including myself, who's been with an older woman and considered anything becoming of it more than just rolling between the sheets and having a good time. It's just not what we're after. I know there are exceptions to this, but it's obvious in society this isn't the norm. The norm is younger women with older men.
Also, that "young stud" who you fell in love with for his performance and sexual appetite might not be ready to be pulled out of the pasture just yet and retired. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 11:22:15 AM | {But, Lookingforlove, you have to realize that "young stud" you're with getting it a few times a day isn't going to stay that way forever most probably. Sooner or later he'll hit the age of the older men you speak of who don't want it as much.}
Offcourse he wil not stay that way. It is just so immature how some people just seem to totally neglect reason and ethics and just go by their own lusts and not care what others think or how it effects others. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 11:24:56 AM | But for women who get up in age sooner or later these "young bucks" won't seek them out because their beauty has faded. Sure, there are exceptions. Then they'll be forced to date in their own age range, which by at that time they're at an age where a lot of men their age are going for the younger women. Again, a vicious cycle.
So sad. But more the reason why I tell my daughters to educate themselves and work towards a lucrative career. If indeed they are discarded one day, it won't really matter because they can always look to other places for their personal satisfaction. That's another trend I see. Women in their 50's and 60's that don't have mates, but are still downright happy... traveling, going back to school etc.. Which one I become remains to be seen :-)
This whole relationship thing is getting downright depressing. The younger chicks with the older men I know aren't happy either. You don't know how many of my friends hook up with the old men for stability and then screw young guys behind their backs. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 11:28:53 AM | i find it interesting how some of the older guys in this thread project such bitterness and contempt for women in their 30s and 40s who prefer younger men. did you guys ever consider that perhaps women might just be weary of your issues, assumptions, and negativity...and that might be the reason that women of any age seem to be choosing men other than you?
as for younger men...their open-mindedness, honesty, enthusiasm for life and experiences is very appealing. it's not just about their performance in the bedroom, tho that is a lovely perk...i appreciate their attitude, and that to me is far more attractive than any other quality they might possess. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 11:29:06 AM | {This whole relationship thing is getting downright depressing. The younger chicks with the older men I know aren't happy either. You don't know how many of my friends hook up with the old men for stability and then screw young guys behind their backs.}
I agere same thing with young guys who are with older women, who knows that they don't have a young girl with them and are doing them too. Most likely that is the case. So much game playing and cheating and not being faithful and committed, honestly it makes me sick! | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/3/2006 11:38:53 AM | "So sad. But more the reason why I tell my daughters to educate themselves and work towards a lucrative career. If indeed they are discarded one day, it won't really matter because they can always look to other places for their personal satisfaction. That's another trend I see. Women in their 50's and 60's that don't have mates, but are still downright happy... traveling, going back to school etc.. Which one I become remains to be seen :-)"
I hear you. It's good you tell your daughters to move towards a lucrative career. I have a 7-year-old, and I don't want her to have to be with a man just so she can survive. I want her to be able to take care of herself one day and fall in love for all the right reasons, and to not be under somebody's thumb because of monetary issues.
It used to be the man was the bread winner, where now those roles have changed quite a bit. Women would stay with a man just for the financial support and to have a roof over their head, where now they have incomes to support themselves. I think that's the reason we see these type of relationships now, where they were more uncommon before.
That's freed them to become, like I mentioned before, a "horn dog" like us men have always been, and they can act on it. Some stay single for years because of it. I just hope the women I know change their behavior soon, or I do feel they'll become old maids who are unsatisfied with their lives. Maybe not. I hope I'm wrong.
Roles have reversed in today's society. It's why I think it's funny my friends are out pulling ass like I was when I was young and looking for no commitment, have their own houses, and don't need a man for anything. Times have surely changed. | |
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