| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 5/8/2006 11:30:27 AM |
So I think no matter what a guy in his 30's or 40's could be a great guy, but a woman will find his flaws and rip him to shreds and then say "See these younger men do not have these"
Well I have dated men 15 years older and as much as 9 years younger. I believe that older men can be wonderful because they are experienced and younger men because of their desire to learn. Relationship wise I think that a man 30 and up is more apt to being a long lasting mate then younger. So don't give up. There are still plenty of us women who think this way.
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 6/28/2006 12:38:30 PM | LOL...WOW, are you ever hard on yourself. I agree it's no longer, just a man's world. I think a man in his 30's is at his HOTTEST, for me anyways and very much alot of fun in and out of the bedroom. Anyways it depends on each individuals preferrances.
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 6/28/2006 7:11:22 PM | | I just wanted to say that there are some men who are drawn to women who are a little older than they because sometimes those older women have a little more experience and maturity. Not that younger women aren't mature, but sometimes that maturity is more visible in an older woman. Some of my friendships with older women have really surprised me in that I did feel an attraction to these women, and it was because of their maturity... | |
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Joined: 10/5/2005
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 6/28/2006 7:49:25 PM | This a great thread for cougars to advertise and young dudes in search of "the older woman" experience, and it's always about maturity of course, to network.
This is great reading. Some of the posts are hilarious  | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 7/13/2006 7:45:09 PM | Okay fact number one older men look older than the older women.
So if they go out with younger men so what!
I had an older man he was insulting, set in his ways,miserable, and no good in bed.
Constantly reminded my girlfriend, and I that his friend plus him were doing us a favor by going out with us older women? It was a favor I can live without!
Now after all that, I am not into dating men my own age, or older.Not to say I am hitting on anyone younger than my sons.I truly believe that love, and caring has no boundaries so what it comes down to is how you feel, and they do not what others think.
As for the poster you are still young, and will change your opinion as you get older.I thought like you when I was your age.
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 7/13/2006 8:01:02 PM |
A BOY TOY ON THEIR ARM???????? I disagree, it has nothing to do with that at all! I date men as much as 10 years younger then myself mainly because my energy level is so high that younger men are the only ones that can keep up. By the time most men (NOT ALL) are my age they are ready to flop themselves on a couch and watch golf all day. Could that be any more boring? I have met many older men, my age and up at my job and it seems they all have the same thing in common,,,,the little blue pill!!! NO THANK YOU, if the man I'm dating has to take a pill to have sex,eeeeeewwww! The last guy I dated was 10 years younger than myself and in most cases people who did'nt know us thought we were the same age to look at us. By the way have you ever dated an older woman? Maybe you should give it a shot, you may be surprised by how much most woman over 40 have their heads on straight. Just my opionion, ya lil boy toy.
Um...I am just gonna come right out and ask....
Is a boytoy a BAD thing??  | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 8/13/2006 9:06:11 AM | | Unfortunately a few bad apples have spoiled it for us. I'm a single parent who has taken care of my responsibilties. The challenge of women being gaurded as they wait for the other shoe to drop can be a major hinderance. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 2/5/2007 9:37:57 AM | | I appreciate older women, but most women over forty have no sex drive, they are great people, hard workers, loyal, etc. but dead in bed. All my friends say their wives no longer have any interest, and yes I know it is probably the man's fault. But in every case I know the man is interested and the woman just says, "no", in a hundred different ways, for years. If a woman would show some interest I don't believe the man would be looking in other places. I know there are exceptions; I guess that's why I haven't given up. But for the fifty or so men that I know, w/o exception, their wives no longer want to date or even think of going "all the way". | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 2/5/2007 9:09:46 PM | Age is just a number. Well thats how I see it. Yes there are boundaries. As long as any girl is mature.
If a guy and girl are simply happy being together. That's all that really matters. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 2/6/2007 8:26:41 AM | T-ea... wow.. I could turn that around on you and say that there are married men out there that don't want to have sex with their wives either... shoot.. some on here on this site even!!
I don't go after the younger guys on purpose. The have come after me. My two LTRs were with younger men. They are alive with energy that I don't find very often in men my age or older. We won't discuss the sex... lol... but I need to find someone who's capable of keeping up with me and my drive, and most 40+ yo men can't. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 2/6/2007 8:44:26 AM |
I appreciate older women, but most women over forty have no sex drive, they are great people, hard workers, loyal, etc. but dead in bed. All my friends say their wives no longer have any interest, and yes I know it is probably the man's fault. But in every case I know the man is interested and the woman just says, "no", in a hundred different ways, for years. If a woman would show some interest I don't believe the man would be looking in other places. I know there are exceptions; I guess that's why I haven't given up. But for the fifty or so men that I know, w/o exception, their wives no longer want to date or even think of going "all the way".
Not sure where you live, maybe it's the water source. In my area the complaints of little or no sex being a side effect of marriage or a LTR are most definitely coming from more older women than men.
There are people of both genders who could care less if they have sex once a month. But I would imagine that their partners would be aware of that within the first year of the relationship. Menopause does coincide with a lack of sexual interest sometimes, but I don't think it's common enough to discuss.
Now if you KILL the sex drive in your relationship by not fixing something elsewhere and it spills over into the bedroom, that's different. There are a lot of men (and a few women) who don't have any emotional attachment to sex, and will try to initiate it during a time when they've pissed off their SO. I am not someone who has to be on good terms to get laid, but some people are. Perhaps these men have upset their gf's/wives in some way and aren't realizing that it's causing a rift in their sex lives. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 2/6/2007 4:55:03 PM | | I go out with whomever I am attracted to..unfortunaetly (some) men mya ge do not keep themslves fit or take care ofthemselves,,you can do a sit up at any age,,but some just stop. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 2/7/2007 1:42:36 PM | I have found I have a lot of younger men hitting on me since I entered my 30's. Now I'm 36 and I hear from the 25 year old who are contacting me because they say they appreciate a woman who knows what she wants and is more confident - in and out of bed. I'm pretty sure they're only in it for the sex but whatever. I have dated 8 years younger than me but I found at the time it was too big of a gap - not necessarily an age gap but more of a life experiences gap. You need to have someone on the same page as you are with common goals. Personally I like to date +/- 5 years but will date 30 year olds. It's more about maturity than it is about age.
And women live longer so why not hook one who should last as long as you do? | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 2/7/2007 6:51:54 PM |
I know I would be pissed if I was single and couldn't attract a woman my own age at that time in my life.
I'm trying to follow the logic. Just b/c some women prefer younger men that equates to you not attracting a woman your own age? | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 2/21/2007 7:58:22 AM | There's a reason if a woman isn't interested in sex. The man may have let himself go, maybe too lazy to shower or shave before making love. Then again he may just be interested in "sex" and not making love. Rubbing her thigh and saying something like, "Wanna fool around?" is not foreplay. Foreplay can be some very simple things that are not even physical.....such as telling her she is beautiful when she's not wearing make-up. Doing thoughtful things around the house. Speaking in a positive manner instead of complaining about the news, weather and politics.
Then again you say you are handsome and have lots of great attributes (no picture so I can only take your word for it) so the wives may have commented about you in a positive manner and the husbands are just marking their territory by telling you they never get any. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 2/21/2007 8:28:36 PM | | I tend to attract younger men... but I have learned my lesson on this one, lol. I like men my own age now :) | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 2/25/2007 1:05:04 AM | | I date younger men because most of the guys that ask me out are younger, they always tell me that I look young. I think it all depends on the situation. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 2/26/2007 10:39:04 AM | i have one thing to say.. you go girl.. why not.. if it works for you... awesome..spend your time on this side of the sod doing what works for you.. as long as you aren't hurting others. enjoy..lol | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 2/26/2007 12:05:20 PM | Is this thread still going?
I suggest looking at some of those other pay sites ..where people list the age range they want. About maybe 75% of men say they are looking for someone exactly thier age or younger only.
So now women are just beginning to do what most men are Still doing and have been doing since time began. Alot of men my age do not want to date me cz I am thier age....and I am just as comfortable, if not more so, with younger, more openminded men.
For every women who will *only* date younger men there are Countless men who feel the same. Look at a pay site and do the math. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 2/28/2007 2:41:07 PM | oldschoolqueen, yours was my favortie quote from this whole forum...
Um...I am just gonna come right out and ask....
Is a boytoy a BAD thing??
I myself date the ages I have up due to my own bad experiences dating men 7 to 10 years older than me. For years, I only dated older guys. Then after being burned by them, I sought younger and younger seemed to seek me out.
I got the worse treatement by older men...and for some reason, it is only the younger men I have dated who have told me "you are very beautiful". I had not ONCE heard that from the older guys I dated. I should not judge all guys by that but dang, when it keeps happening, you tend to get a bit gunshy. And the younger lads are more aggressive. This one who was too young for me today was trying to pick up on me while behind the cashier register at a coffee shop and it was very busy! I could not believe it...and maybe he was just being overly friendly to me. I had to pinch myself. I had no make up on and I KNOW I looked too old for him. But he seemed not to care.
but older guys tend to be more critical of my fatness(which I work on to lose the fat for health reasons and not to make a guy love me) and any other flaws. Young men don't seem to notice them.
I think it is a sad realty men are feeling pressured to conform to society's beauty standards now, not just women. Men are trying to have perfect bodies and even dyeing their hair. That's alright but not alright when they think that is all they can offer. I for one am perlexed by men who seem conservative in values (wanting to look for marriage, have a family, religious etc) but put up a picture of them shirtless or trying to pull their jeans off. It is kind of like "this is all I am I have nothing else to offer", that is how it comes across to me.
The sexiest guy in my book is Simon Le Bon of Duran Duran. He is 9 years older than me and he is my ideal man. I don't care how old he is or how old I am.
It is not about the looks, it is about the attitude. younger men don't try to control me either, older guys have tried to control me.
I am not sure my post is is "fair" as I am just typing out what I feel. But I hope it makes sense. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 3/3/2007 11:21:16 AM | I don't need a "younger man on my arm" to make me look younger.
I look damn young on my own.
I'm not in denial about getting older.
I'm not a "cougar".
My man isn't an immature idiot who is still looking to party his life away...and he's 24. You can't make blanket statements about an entire age group.
Its nothing to do with him being "more alive" or having "more energy", "less bagagge", or any other b.s. reason you could label it with.
It was a meeting of the minds and physical chemistry. Period. The age diff didnt keep it from happening, nor did it MAKE it happen.
I'm not having some type of "life crisis". I leave that to the gentlmen who zero in on 20 yr old blonde's with fake boobs, single digit IQ's, and buy sports cars when they hit 45. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 3/3/2007 7:09:11 PM | This is something I have contemplated for a while, the youngest I have dated is maybe 2 yrs my junior. Yet there are men out there who are nearly 10yrs my junior that are interested. Age is nothing but a number, so I keep saying, then I suppose as long as someone doesn't tell me their age (unless they aren't legal) then it won't matter huh?.. | |
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Posted: 3/4/2007 9:16:57 AM | | well....maturity isnt an age thing...many men my age are much older than their age, or they are younger than their age....same goes for females...........So for me its an indivuality thing... | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men
Posted: 8/31/2007 10:41:38 AM | | Quadmom, Like the way you think. General blanket statements usually don't hold. Yet we make statements, each of us, from our own personal histories... | |
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