So every man who is sexually active and doesn't want kids should get his scrotum punctured and his Vas Deferens cut so that women don't have to worry about birth control pills and to avoid the rare cases where a woman accidentally gets pregnant, so she doesn't have to decide between abortion or giving birth.

We're talking about millions of men here. Why should all of us need to get this procedure just to stop women from having the capability of ruining our lives by forcing us to become fathers?

It's not always 100% effective, anyway, and there is pain involved, in addition to bruising and bleeding. You've obviously never heard of Post-Vasectomy Pain Syndrome, which is a side-effect of this procedure and causes discomfort in the male genitals that can last a lifetime.

I have a brother now in his 60's - he's a respected well to do physician/anesthesiologist ...he has 5 daughters by three wives which of course, has always been the source of much teasing. What we didn't know for years is that while in medical school, he "got" a local girl pregnant during one of his visits at home. Which of course put a damper on his plans to finish medical school and establish a career before starting a family yada yada yada. So....my brother, a nice, intelligent, very smart guy in his own right, WALKED away and left her to fend for herself - he also left behind his one and only son. No one vilified my brother - NO ONE -not his family, not his community, not his colleagues, not his friends....not even his own son or daughters. What I heard over and OVER again is "that's just the way it was back then besides he had no choice with school yadayada ad nauseum ad infinitum.

My mother (87) and herself an orphan (her parents died young), was trained and later worked in a professional capacity at La crèche d'Youville, a large catholic orphanage in Montréal, and I grew up seeing my mother try to rid herself of the horrors she saw first hand in that place. To this day, my mother STILL cries and prays for the many mothers who had NO choice but to leave their children behind - she also prays for the many babies and children who were neglected, abused and forgotten in those gawd forsaken institutions because society/the church/the government/men dictated that that's the way it was.

I could give dozens, possibly hundreds, more examples of men who abandoned = WALKED AWAY (NOT killed or murdered) their children who weren't vilified and/or talked about or shunned for years in their communities for having abandoned their children.

maybe they think they are God!

That's easy to say when it's not your money.

Although these are very tragic stories that illustrate well the painful consequences of mens sefishness..........you are trying to reach people (men) who just don't care. They all know there stories already. All of them.

Get it through your head. They DON"T CARE.

THEY KNOW AND THEY DON'T CARE.

So every man who is sexually active and doesn't want kids should get his scrotum punctured and his Vas Deferens cut so that women don't have to worry about birth control pills and to avoid the rare cases where a woman accidentally gets pregnant, so she doesn't have to decide between abortion or giving birth.

You stupid shallow idiot. I raised a child alone. It was ALL MY MONEY. Not a cent from him. It says quite clearly on my profile I have a child. Do you think that was for free> It is YOU who knows nothing about any of this any yet you are so vocal, talking out of your ass.

I said that men are drafted / fight in wars due to biological differences and this is more harmful than women giving birth

"Today, I had drunk sex with a girl that I barely know. I didn't have a condom and was nervous about getting her pregnant, but she assured me that I could pull out. Right when I was about to pull out, she wrapped her legs around me and yelled : "BE MY BABY'S DADDY!" I couldn't get out in time. FML"

This story shows how some women deliberately lie and trap men into pregnancy. But it is also an irrelevant story.

There are many wars that were started by countries led by women.

In point of fact, I do have a girlfriend that I regularly have sex with. She has had a tubal litigation, but if she hadn't and she somehow got pregnant, she would get an abortion. In the event that she did not want to get an abortion, she agrees with me that women who choose to birth their child against the wishes of the man should not be able to force the man to pay child support.

I didn't have a condom and was nervous about getting her pregnant, but she assured me that I could pull out.

Most often, the woman trusts the guy will pull out and he doesn't. You're a liar and you don't care.

Observed failure rates of withdrawal vary depending on the population being studied: studies have found actual failure rates of 15-28% per year from ^ a b Kippley, John; Sheila Kippley (1996). The Art of Natural Family Planning (4th addition ed.). Cincinnati, OH: The Couple to Couple League. pp. 146. ISBN 0-926412-13-2.

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Coitus interruptus, also known as withdrawal or the pull-out method, is a technique in which a man withdraws his penis prior to ejaculation during sexual intercourse, with the semen being ejaculated outside of and away from the vagina.
It is and has been widely used for at least 2,000 years as a method of contraception. This method was used by an estimated 38 million couples worldwide in 1991. Some medical professionals view withdrawal as an ineffective method of birth control.

imposing his will in the most selfish way is EXACTLY what he is doing.

And no, the law does not support it. The law says men like that have to pay for the consequences. And so they should.

Do you think having an abortion on your conscience is not a form of payment?????

I assure you, paying MONEY is the EASIEST option to take onece you get pregnant

It is precisely because of the selfish lack of responsibility so many men insist on adhering to that so many women want nothing more than to use you right back. It's a vicious cycle.

Many women know men don't really care about them so they consciously choose to use men up and spit them out as best they can and they feel no shame. I assure you women are quite frank with each other about doing this. Just as frank as men are about using women.

You are sincerely mistaken that I am trying to reach men with appeals to conscience or emotions.

I am quite certain you don't have a conscience or feelings. My only interest is so that women read this and think again about who they DON"T want to sleep with.

My intention is not towards you at all. I simply want women to stop ****ing guys like you.

Admit it, you're not getting any are you. Times have changed. Guys like you can't get laid anymore because women don't need you anymore. Ha ha ha.

Regarding my girlfriend, she is 23 and had a tubal litigation at 21. I assure you it is quite possible to get such an operation, where I live (city of Vancouver in Canada) at least. Not sure about other place.